Gentlemen,Girlfriend of 3 1/2 years broke up with me 2 months ago today. Long story short, she met someone else, said she had to be honest with her feelings for me, broke up with me. I know in the…Continue
"Block all forms of communication with her. Depending on your wireless provider you may have to log in to your account to do it or do it from your phone. If you can't figure it out, call your provider. I was in a similar situation where the girl…"
"You may just need to block her number. Much like a funeral have a little wake for the relationship. Cry, scream, hurt. Then Block the number and in the morning move on.
You may text her that you are blocking her number as you need…"
"Youtube; Mark Gungor - A Tale of Two Brains.
Biochemically, love functions like an addiction. And there is going to be a withdrawal period. When you look up little videos, or remind yourself of her in one way or…"
"Assuaging her guilt, I expect. But it doesn't matter. If it's not good for you, a wall of nice disinterest will keep her out.
I imagine something like: "I know you're mad at me, but it would be nice to hear from…"
"Sorry I'm not real up-to-date on cell phone tech. . . mine is the Razr from '01. If it sends the text back if you block her number. . . then block. There is a psychological strategy to it. . . but, be prepared for the consequences. . .…"
"While there may be as many Martian women as there are Venusian men, there are not as many Martian women as Venusian women. Nor, are there as many Venusian men as Martian men.
Glad I re-read the post. The overall holds. . . at least in this…"
"So the old flame texted me again today, "I know you're mad at me, but it would be nice to hear from you, please answer. I know i shouldnt be texting you, i dont know what i'm doing, i'm sorry"
I responded this time…"
"I think you are doing the right thing. You need to move on. However, I would send a text back to her to make things clear with her and to get closure. Something like "I am upset about the break up but I am going to be…"
"You are handling it perfect. I would forget that Men are from Mars and women are from Venus thing. I thought it was a good idea until I actually went out and met more women and realized that there are as many women from Mars as there are men from…"
"Burn the letter don't send it. It just starts the cycle again. She'll think you want her to help process those feelings and as a extension will try to keep contacting you. . . which you seem to not want because of the emotional swings.
"That was actually pretty helpful. I may write the letter you suggested, and I may even send it to her. I'm not sure at this point, but I'm starting to feel like she's not worth my time. I love the girl, and I miss…"
"Men are from Mars Women are from Venus
It's a book that was incredibly popular during the '90s.
Basically women deal with emotions. . . that's why she wants to talk to you. Talking to you about how you feel about the situation is how…"
"I've made friendships with at least 3 pastors. I consider it my gift - befriending pastors. :) But, you are dead on. It's hard. Most either share too much or too little for the exact reasons you described.…"
"What's ery intersting about this thread is how the procrastinating OP has managed to involve the well-intentioned AoM community in enabling his procrastination.
To the OP: You need to drop all the social media stuff for a while. If…"
"While I am not in full-time ministry I am a minister and can relate to your position to some degree.
Ministry can be a long and lonely road to begin with. People expect a lot out of you. People often times want more than you can give and they…"