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Dealing with an ex post break up

Started this discussion. Last reply by Michael L Jun 11, 2013. 28 Replies

Gentlemen,Girlfriend of 3 1/2 years broke up with me 2 months ago today.  Long story short, she met someone else, said she had to be honest with her feelings for me, broke up with me.  I know in the…Continue

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Michael L replied to Jay Moore's discussion Dealing with an ex post break up
"Block all forms of communication with her. Depending on your wireless provider you may have to log in to your account to do it or do it from your phone. If you can't figure it out, call your provider. I was in a similar situation where the girl…"
Jun 11, 2013
David F. replied to Jay Moore's discussion Dealing with an ex post break up
"You may just need to block her number.  Much like a funeral have a little wake for the relationship.  Cry, scream, hurt.  Then Block the number and in the morning move on. You may text her that you are blocking her number as you need…"
Jun 10, 2013
Michael B. replied to Jay Moore's discussion Dealing with an ex post break up
"Youtube; Mark Gungor - A Tale of Two Brains.    Fun stuff.   Biochemically, love functions like an addiction. And there is going to be a withdrawal period. When you look up little videos, or remind yourself of her in one way or…"
Jun 9, 2013
Brian W. Barrett replied to Jay Moore's discussion Dealing with an ex post break up
"Well there is the tactic of smothering that may work as well (better?)."
Jun 7, 2013
Will replied to Jay Moore's discussion Dealing with an ex post break up
"Assuaging her guilt, I expect.  But it doesn't matter.  If it's not good for you, a wall of nice disinterest will keep her out. I imagine something like:  "I know you're mad at me, but it would be nice to hear from…"
Jun 7, 2013
Brian W. Barrett replied to Jay Moore's discussion Dealing with an ex post break up
"Sorry I'm not real up-to-date on cell phone tech. . . mine is the Razr from '01. If it sends the text back if you block her number. . . then block. There is a psychological strategy to it. . . but, be prepared for the consequences. . .…"
Jun 7, 2013
Brian W. Barrett replied to Jay Moore's discussion Dealing with an ex post break up
"While there may be as many Martian women as there are Venusian men, there are not as many Martian women as Venusian women. Nor, are there as many Venusian men as Martian men. Glad I re-read the post. The overall holds. . .  at least in this…"
Jun 7, 2013
Jay Moore replied to Jay Moore's discussion Dealing with an ex post break up
"So the old flame texted me again today, "I know you're mad at me, but it would be nice to hear from you, please answer.  I know i shouldnt be texting you, i dont know what i'm doing, i'm sorry" I responded this time…"
Jun 7, 2013
Edward replied to Jay Moore's discussion Dealing with an ex post break up
"I think you are doing the right thing.  You need to move on.  However, I would send a text back to her to make things clear with her and to get closure.  Something like  "I am upset about the break up but I am going to be…"
May 31, 2013
llong replied to Jay Moore's discussion Dealing with an ex post break up
"You are doing all the right things. Stay strong. Success is the best revenge."
May 27, 2013
Jay Moore replied to Jay Moore's discussion Dealing with an ex post break up
"I think you nailed it on the head.  "
May 26, 2013
Nick H replied to Jay Moore's discussion Dealing with an ex post break up
"You are handling it perfect. I would forget that Men are from Mars and women are from Venus thing. I thought it was a good idea until I actually went out and met more women and realized that there are as many women from Mars as there are men from…"
May 26, 2013
Jay Moore replied to Jay Moore's discussion Dealing with an ex post break up
"true. "
May 25, 2013
Brian W. Barrett replied to Jay Moore's discussion Dealing with an ex post break up
"Burn the letter don't send it. It just starts the cycle again. She'll think you want her to help process those feelings and as a extension will try to keep contacting you. . . which you seem to not want because of the emotional swings. "
May 25, 2013
Jay Moore replied to Jay Moore's discussion Dealing with an ex post break up
"That was actually pretty helpful.  I may write the letter you suggested, and I may even send it to her.  I'm not sure at this point, but I'm starting to feel like she's not worth my time.  I love the girl, and I miss…"
May 25, 2013
Brian W. Barrett replied to Jay Moore's discussion Dealing with an ex post break up
"Men are from Mars Women are from Venus It's a book that was incredibly popular during the '90s. Basically women deal with emotions. . . that's why she wants to talk to you. Talking to you about how you feel about the situation is how…"
May 24, 2013

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