Ok guys need some advice.Last month my best friend accused me of trying to ruin his career by not telling him that I was applying for a job that he also was going to apply for (we found that neither…Continue
"Todd, I feel your pain. Going through the same thing with my best friend but with other issues. Not so much the girl (not even going there) but with family issues. I mentioned it and I was told not to meddle...
It's hard to watch someone you…"
"First ask yourself "what do I want?" Is it possible? If not then ask yourself "if ________ is not possible what do I want?" It's tough being friends with people that have or seem to have mental problems (even just minor…"
"I tentatively suggest talking to him about it, your reactions not what's wrong, and without the nuclear ultimatum. But I say tentative because I'm unsure. Maybe this is a bad friendship and should go. Maybe bad…"
"I did debate ending our friendship. But I made him a promise that I would never abandon him. And i would be there through thick and thin.
He may be a GIANT pain in the ass. But he needs a good strong faithful friend in his life and that's…"
"That doesn't sound like any male friendship I've ever had. I've dated women that are less high-maintenance and oversensitive. You shouldn't have to walk on eggshells around a friend. This isn't what…"
Ok guys need some advice.Last month my best friend accused me of trying to ruin his career by not telling him that I was applying for a job that he also was going to apply for (we found that neither one of us would be considered). But still it came out of nowhere.Some background on my friend. There's a pretty big age gap between us (he's in his early 20s and I'm in my early 30s), and he goes through these bouts of moodiness (I and his brother suspect he may be bipolar). We've only been friends…See More
I am not very new here. I've read AoM for quite and a while and have recently decided to see what the community had to offer. I think it is important for everyone to have a place where they can grow and grow beyond what they thought possible. I do not believe in setting mediocre examples or propagating cretinous thoughts. To unleash my potential and help others do the same is my goal -- man, woman, neither or in between.Following this honour code does not allow for unnecessary or regressive…See More
I can relate a lot in that I also ended up in a masters program after failing to find a job. I'm a molecular biologist (now working on my PhD... I ended up staying in academia after finishing my masters) but at least some…"
"You are getting a lot of good advice here, especially local church congrigations and various student organizations. You might also try putting an ad on www.roommates.com. I remember it didn't cost too much, and you reach a lot…"