"You so very much need to hear the opposite messages.
You are worthy. You are strong. You are self-aware (based on your self-revelation here). You are smart (based on your school focus).
You are so worthwhile.
I hope you can find…"
"Yuck Man! No one should have to put up with that kind of primitive lack of hygiene! You gotta say something...it's already bothering you and hurting your relationship. It's bound also to be affecting your sexual relations with…"
"Oh, Max -- your story brought tears to my eyes. There is special trauma when a guy is sexually abused by a girl/woman (because many persons will say he is "lucky" since it was a female). But then to have that video made and…"