"I think the issue here is treatment, so I offer a treatment of sorts, based on the courses I took last semester at school.
1. From the Catholic doctrine perspective, a woman is the most important thing on earth. Doctrine says "her place is to…"
"People in general should treat people in person in ways that would not hurt them.
On line it is another story esp here. You can say anything you want you are not in the same place as them. Some women are stronger than some men. Yes…"
"It seems obvious to me that if you were to treat a woman in the exact same way as you would treat a man, she would think that you hate her. Women expect to be treated differently than men treat each other. They don't want to be equal. They want…"
"Sure Lucius, you get to choose your duds. The fems have a rough time concealing their physical mannerisms though. And from my experience choice of clothes, activity, correlates somewhat with that. I dress mostly like my Dad's…"
"I missed the memo on this tradition of male messing with each other long ago, women don't do that sort of thing.
I know now I've probably deep-sixed more than a few developing friendships because of misinterpreting that.