"Smoking weed is great. But judging if its manly depends on what you do when you high. I mean if you live in your Mom's basement and blaze while playing xbox 24/7 that's not very manly. But there is nothing wrong with having a…"
"I recommend putting up a visible indicator that makes it obvious that the discussion was pro-actively locked by moderators and the reason for said locking. Otherwise it just looks like a rapey discussion that's sitting there, inactive but…"
"Absolutely. I've been watching this play out on other forums in the gaming community, particularly the Board Game Geek facebook page, in which the vitriol against questioning or discussing the culture's activities is so hot that admins are…"
""Sure, particular individuals are making the gaming community unwelcoming for women but why is it that they are able to do so without being shut down by their peers?"
Exactly. When women who aren't fans of Sport X attend an event out…"
"Lumberjoe is making a good point. To add to it: If you treat a societal or community issue as an individual "problem person" issue, you miss all the ways in which that society or community reinforce the dysfunctional norms. Sure,…"