Hey,I know this question probably gets asked alot but I can't seem to find a post similar to mine so hoping you guys can help.I an 28 and my gf is 26. We met at work and have been dating for 2 years.…Continue
Everything you said was about how SHE affects YOU...what she does that annoys you, hoping SHE will change--nothing about are YOU right for HER, what you are doing to meet HER needs or even to meet her on her terms. That's…"
"Just end it, as has been said you already made up your mind you just want us to confirm your decision so you know you're making "the right one".
Look break ups always hurt 1 or both people that is unavoidable.
"your doing more damage than good,
your only prolonging the inevitable, better to get out now than to decide to stay with her and hurt her more in the long run.. and if for some reason you did go against your better judgement and get married a…"
"It sounds like you *may* have commitment issues to an extent. Clearly you have no problem committing to a long term "dating" relationship, however for some reason it sounds like you can't bite the bullet and say "this is what I…"
"If you dont feel that your feelings will change about her, if she stays just as she is.. you should probably part ways. At this point you should know..its been long enough, so you may only be prolonging your anxiety and increasing her…"
"I agree with Jack and Rebecca--the problem isn't her, it's you. You clearly have commitment issues, because while you think these women you date are good enough to spend years of your life with, you get skittish at the prospect of…"
"I don't think the problem is she's not the girl for you. The problem is you're not the guy for her.
You'll burn her by breaking it off now. But, you'll burn her worse the longer you wait ... or if you marry her,…"
"For the most part people don't change. If she works a lot now chances are she always will. If she's a spender she'll probably always be a spender.
It's worth it for the two of you to sit down and talk about…"
"You either accept her or you don't and it sounds like you don't. End it. You said sometimes you can see marrying her and sometimes you don't. If you're not sure then you're not ready. If you go into…"
"Sounds like you're looking for a custom fit in an off the rack world. Do you really think she will change? If she does change for you what makes you think she won't revert back to prior habits or resent you for not wanting her…"
"I love your enthusiasm and your clear-cut respect for service and the uniform.
However I must disagree with you on several points.
I don't think the OP was about people who pretend that they were military, or are otherwise poseurs. That…"
"I use dove for men body wash shampoo and deodorant, I'm pretty dead set on the brand really love it.
As for a cologne, I've picked up alot of different brands and scents over the last while it really depends on what Im doing that…"
"My musical guilty pleasure: Lady GaGa. In fact, my fiance and I first bonded over the fact that we both like her music. "You and I" will likely be played at our wedding. Say what you want about her outfits ("what the...") or her…"
"Can't stand them. While I can appreciate their prowess as musicians (I used to be in a band, and it's hard work!), their music just sounds like whiney, folk-pop to me. Just not my cup of tea, I guess. They come on the radio, I pop in my…"