"Well Jess, I said "sometimes you need to just forget about what you want and help others"..did not say "make her good enough for you"..what I meant was as proposed by another fellow member, its just fun to workout with a friend,…"
""Based on her major and your efforts to keep fit, could you tactfully get her to work to lose weight, perhaps by inviting her to work out with you, or join you in some nutritional approach?"-Nathanael
Y dont u try this? She is a friend as…"
"Keep her as a good friend. If you have to convince yourself to be attracted to her then there is no attraction, nothing wrong with that. If all it takes is for her to lose a few pounds and you might feel attracted to her what happens if she gains…"
"I'm of the "like her as she is now, not as you want her to be" opinion. If she's overweight, it is likely to be something that she's going to struggle with for the rest of her life. The statistics showing how many people…"
"First thing. Don't ask for a girl for advice on who you should date since she will always suggest you date her friend who has trouble getting a man usually because she is overweight and probably a bit socially awkward. (There's a Denny…"
"This makes sense and is more mature than I expected when I started reading the post. I think you're right, if you're not attracted to her physically, you shouldn't date her, especially if marriage is in the cards (it seems you…"
"Personally, I don't have a problem with not dating someone you're not attracted to, as long as you're nice about it. ("I just don't have romantic feelings towards you" is better than "I'm not attracted to…"
"If you don't want to date her ... don't. But, I wouldn't try to change her into something she isn't to try to make her 'dateable'. What happens if she gets in shape, you get attracted, get married ... and…"
Hey everyone so here's my dilemma. I'm 21and have a good friend of mine, a girl, who is in my close circle of friends and has been for about a year since we met. Our situation is that I have two roommates, and one of them had a girlfriend, now fiancee, who brought her roommate over to our apartment to hangout with us 3 guys and herself. Over time, the 5 of us have basically become best friends and hangout all the time. We all share the same sense of humor, enjoy the same movies and games, and…See More
"I know it's a tad outdated, but this conversation caught my eye. I've had problems with boundaries with my family since before I got married and now that my son was recently born, it seems like the issues have resurfaced. For example, over…"
"I personally carry when the situation merits it-i.e. walking through my neighborhood (not exactly the best place, to be honest-drugs are a serious issue, the sheriff just shut down TWO meth labs within 6 miles of my house), going into a seedy part…"
I have come to the realization that I have a fondness for the Golden Leaf, in virtually all it's forms. I love a good cigar with a nice scotch (or just walking around the neighborhood), nothing like a pipe to calm the nerves after a long, hard day, hookah is just ace, and well, as much as I hate to admit it, even a good Class A Cigarette has it's place in my weekly tobacco usage (more on that in a moment).I want to learn all I can about tobacco as a hobby (not growing it, YET)-the different…See More
Hey everyone, I recently graduated college last December with a B.S. in biology and am currently pursuing a research career in the medical field. I began applying about four months ago, and have filled out nearly a hundred applications spanning multiple hospitals and states. I have had 2 interviews at the same hospital which came down to me and one other individual, but in both circumstances, the applicant who was chosen had worked the same position previously.I currently hold a part time job…See More
"I have a handgun and a concealed carry permit. I don't ordinarily carry a gun. I've never been in a situation where I would have used it if I had had it, and the odds of such a situation arising are, for me, usually…"