"Play out this scenario: you date her. You aren't attracted to her, but do it for pity. She finds out. Is she happy?"
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Jacob Rumschik
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Confusing Situation With Female Friend
Started this discussion. Last reply by Will May 6. 7 Replies 0 Likes
Always Wanted To Be A Doctor, Now I've Decided Against It. What Next?
Started this discussion. Last reply by Chu Kim Apr 3. 16 Replies 0 Likes
Moving After College and the Free State Project
Started this discussion. Last reply by Jacob Rumschik Feb 10. 5 Replies 0 Likes
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Allen replied to Jacob Rumschik's discussion Confusing Situation With Female Friend"I'm of the "like her as she is now, not as you want her to be" opinion. If she's overweight, it is likely to be something that she's going to struggle with for the rest of her life. The statistics showing how many people…"
"You aren't attracted and you have made it known. Move along."
Nick H replied to Jacob Rumschik's discussion Confusing Situation With Female Friend"First thing. Don't ask for a girl for advice on who you should date since she will always suggest you date her friend who has trouble getting a man usually because she is overweight and probably a bit socially awkward. (There's a Denny…"
Nathanael replied to Jacob Rumschik's discussion Confusing Situation With Female Friend"This makes sense and is more mature than I expected when I started reading the post. I think you're right, if you're not attracted to her physically, you shouldn't date her, especially if marriage is in the cards (it seems you…"
Rebekah replied to Jacob Rumschik's discussion Confusing Situation With Female Friend"Personally, I don't have a problem with not dating someone you're not attracted to, as long as you're nice about it. ("I just don't have romantic feelings towards you" is better than "I'm not attracted to…"
Jack Bauer replied to Jacob Rumschik's discussion Confusing Situation With Female Friend"If you don't want to date her ... don't. But, I wouldn't try to change her into something she isn't to try to make her 'dateable'. What happens if she gets in shape, you get attracted, get married ... and…"
Jacob Rumschik posted a discussionConfusing Situation With Female Friend
Hey everyone so here's my dilemma. I'm 21and have a good friend of mine, a girl, who is in my close circle of friends and has been for about a year since we met. Our situation is that I have two roommates, and one of them had a girlfriend, now fiancee, who brought her roommate over to our apartment to hangout with us 3 guys and herself. Over time, the 5 of us have basically become best friends and hangout all the time. We all share the same sense of humor, enjoy the same movies and games, and…See More
Jacob Rumschik joined Slavic Unity's group
Country Life & Self Sufficiency
Do you live (or want to live) on a farm/acreage/ranch? Are you interested in the country life, homesteading, back to basics, self-sufficiency, rural values?Then this group is for you.See More
Jacob Rumschik joined Kevin Young's group
Traditional Archery
A place to discuss all things archery - how to make bows and arrows, proper technique, or your best hunting stories.
Jacob Rumschik joined Matthew Hinton's group
Men Who Want to make a Difference
This groupe is for those men who want to do something with their live (besides being a couch potato). Despite opinions they take charge and make the difference, even if that means they must make a sacrafice.See More
Jacob Rumschik joined A Barton's group
Wilderness medicine
A forum for anyone interested in wilderness medicine at any level, first aid thru MD.
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- Interests
- CrossFit, Rugby, Singing, Reading, Nutrition
- Books
- Redwall series, Ilium/Olympos Cycle, Harry Potter series, Dan Brown books, Maximum Ride series, Babylon Rising series, Dirk Pitt series, Hatchet series, Percy Jackson and the Olympians Series
- Movies
- 300, Newsies, Two for the Money, Boondock Saints, Rush Hour 2/3, The Protector, Ong-Bak Thai Warrior, Ong-Bak 2, Longest Yard, Superhero movies, National Treasure series, Shawshank Redemption
- Music
- Michael Bublé, Josh Groban, Brantley Gilbert
- Quote
- "God put me on Earth to accomplish a certain number of things. Right now I'm so far behind I will never die."
"If you ever cut me open, I'd bleed (Bills) Red, White and Blue and that will never change." - Thurman Thomas
"There are no stupid questions, just stupid people."
"Strong people are harder to kill than weak people, and more useful in general." - Mark Rippetoe
"You can't make people smarter. You can expose them to information, but your responsibility stops there." - Mark Rippetoe
"It is better to say nothing and be thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt." - Abraham Lincoln
"What lies ahead of you, and what lies behind you mean nothing compared to what lies within you."
“Mikey looked death in the face that day and said, “You cannot take my brothers. I will go in their stead.” - One of the Navy Seals saved by Petty Officer Second Class Michael Monsoor
“To me, being an intellectual doesn’t mean knowing about intellectual issues; it means taking pleasure in them.” –Chinua Achebe
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Comment Wall (2 comments)
- At 11:20am on January 14, 2011,
t-train said… - Welcome to Armchair Generals! Nice to have you onboard.
- At 7:58am on November 30, 2009,
Michael J. Austin said… - HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!!
Latest Activity
Matt Eo replied to Andrew Bennett's discussion The death of neck ties?"I think the neck tie is becoming less popular in some parts of the country and in some professions, but I don't think it will ever go away completely. I also think a guy's personal appearance is not necessarily based on the type of…"
Matt Eo replied to Nathan DeParis's discussion Man Mints"I am a Tic-Tac guy. The right size and just enough flavor to pop one every hour or so. I always have a pack on my desk and coworkers are always asking for them."
Dallas the Phallus added a discussion to the group Philology: A Group for Verbivores
Sex Symbols
From the Grammarphobia blog.Q: In a recent radio appearance, you said the idea that “he” can refer to any human being – man or woman – was introduced in the 18th century by a female grammarian. I think you’re wrong. The concept of male as universal has been around much longer.A: If by “male as universal,” you mean using male pronouns (“he,” “him,” and “his”) for women as well as men, the idea did indeed begin in the 18th century.Before then – for two centuries, in fact – it was considered…See More
Andrew Bennett posted a discussionThe death of neck ties?
I heard that according to researches that the neck tie is expected to become obsolete in the next few decades. Because more and more men are dressing more casually these days thanks to Facebook and google where the CEO shows up in jeans and a hoodie. So is the neck tie really becoming obsolete or are men just not caring about his personal appearance?Please feel free to give your taken on this.See More
Chuck Knight replied to michael mckeown's discussion something for summer in the group Manly Hats!"What are you looking for, in terms of style?
Where I live, a "white" straw cowboy hat is very common. Affordable, too.
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Chuck Knight commented on Steven C.'s group Exercise"Hello, Ivan. Welcome. And, thank you for the offer of assistance. I may have to take you up on your offer."
Ivan S replied to Brian Splash's discussion Progress shots in the group Exercise"I just need to lose some fat before I can share any progress pics. I've gained some muscle, but I don't look lean"
Ivan S commented on Steven C.'s group Exercise"I started working out a few years ago, but since 2011, I am taking it seriously. I've managed to gain 40+ pounds. I'm interesting in exchanging information to help each other out...anyone?"
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