"I got married younger (22) and have been that way longer (15+ years) - and I approve wholeheartedly this message.
And I'll add this - nothing else I would have done in my 20s would have made me a better human being, man, or even…"
""But the 'real soul-mate' is the one you are actually married to."
No, the one you're currently married to is the one with who's crap you are willing to put up with, for now. She's also the one who you have…"
"If God or the universe or whatever did indeed provide you with a perfect spouse with whom you are experiencing fairytale happiness, then I congratulate you on your good fortune. You have been blessed in a way that very few people ever will…"
"I see what you're saying, but I wouldn't considered it "cheating" or "extramarital" for the single one, since a single person has no commitments to cheat against, hence the distinction between extramarital vs…"
"Play with it a little. First, imagine that in your universe, nobody ever cheats. So that's 0 hetero extramarital/amarital sex acts for women, 0 for men.
Uh-oh. Somebody did one. It's hetero, so there's 1 man…"