"Gave it a try. Could only let it get so long because of work. I think it might have looked better if I was taller. Ended up getting it cut. Tried shaving my goatee off as well and that lasted about two weeks. Was told I…"
Thought I'd chime in if you don't mind. I usually wear my hair short since I work outside a lot and the wind makes a mess of it. No matter how much hair spray I use it doesn't help when it's windy. Also I…"
"Well Jess, I said "sometimes you need to just forget about what you want and help others"..did not say "make her good enough for you"..what I meant was as proposed by another fellow member, its just fun to workout with a friend,…"
""Based on her major and your efforts to keep fit, could you tactfully get her to work to lose weight, perhaps by inviting her to work out with you, or join you in some nutritional approach?"-Nathanael
Y dont u try this? She is a friend as…"
"Keep her as a good friend. If you have to convince yourself to be attracted to her then there is no attraction, nothing wrong with that. If all it takes is for her to lose a few pounds and you might feel attracted to her what happens if she gains…"
"First thing. Don't ask for a girl for advice on who you should date since she will always suggest you date her friend who has trouble getting a man usually because she is overweight and probably a bit socially awkward. (There's a Denny…"
"This makes sense and is more mature than I expected when I started reading the post. I think you're right, if you're not attracted to her physically, you shouldn't date her, especially if marriage is in the cards (it seems you…"
"Personally, I don't have a problem with not dating someone you're not attracted to, as long as you're nice about it. ("I just don't have romantic feelings towards you" is better than "I'm not attracted to…"
"If you don't want to date her ... don't. But, I wouldn't try to change her into something she isn't to try to make her 'dateable'. What happens if she gets in shape, you get attracted, get married ... and…"
Hey everyone so here's my dilemma. I'm 21and have a good friend of mine, a girl, who is in my close circle of friends and has been for about a year since we met. Our situation is that I have two roommates, and one of them had a girlfriend, now fiancee, who brought her roommate over to our apartment to hangout with us 3 guys and herself. Over time, the 5 of us have basically become best friends and hangout all the time. We all share the same sense of humor, enjoy the same movies and games, and…See More
"See if I get this right-you don't yourself identify with any of the listed sexual minorities but you set up this group for dialog? Possibly you have an intellectual interest in the topic? These are people's LIVES you're discussing and…"
"Ian, he used do exactly that on the topic all the time. I suppose he's changed his stripes for whatever reason. If you think his religious beliefs (unless he's changed them) aren't the seeds of war I've a great bridge to…"
"Well Jack always wanted to denounce homosexuality on principle by saying the act was wrong in "god's eyes." I guess that's dialog. Why is it necessary to explain to people who condemn you that you even exist? Hell,…"