Thought I'd chime in if you don't mind. I usually wear my hair short since I work outside a lot and the wind makes a mess of it. No matter how much hair spray I use it doesn't help when it's windy. Also I…"
"Well Jess, I said "sometimes you need to just forget about what you want and help others"..did not say "make her good enough for you"..what I meant was as proposed by another fellow member, its just fun to workout with a friend,…"
""Based on her major and your efforts to keep fit, could you tactfully get her to work to lose weight, perhaps by inviting her to work out with you, or join you in some nutritional approach?"-Nathanael
Y dont u try this? She is a friend as…"
"Keep her as a good friend. If you have to convince yourself to be attracted to her then there is no attraction, nothing wrong with that. If all it takes is for her to lose a few pounds and you might feel attracted to her what happens if she gains…"
"First thing. Don't ask for a girl for advice on who you should date since she will always suggest you date her friend who has trouble getting a man usually because she is overweight and probably a bit socially awkward. (There's a Denny…"
"This makes sense and is more mature than I expected when I started reading the post. I think you're right, if you're not attracted to her physically, you shouldn't date her, especially if marriage is in the cards (it seems you…"
"Personally, I don't have a problem with not dating someone you're not attracted to, as long as you're nice about it. ("I just don't have romantic feelings towards you" is better than "I'm not attracted to…"
"If you don't want to date her ... don't. But, I wouldn't try to change her into something she isn't to try to make her 'dateable'. What happens if she gets in shape, you get attracted, get married ... and…"
Hey everyone so here's my dilemma. I'm 21and have a good friend of mine, a girl, who is in my close circle of friends and has been for about a year since we met. Our situation is that I have two roommates, and one of them had a girlfriend, now fiancee, who brought her roommate over to our apartment to hangout with us 3 guys and herself. Over time, the 5 of us have basically become best friends and hangout all the time. We all share the same sense of humor, enjoy the same movies and games, and…See More
"Man, if you haven't done anything go and talk to your sister and tell her what she is doing is wrong.
She hasn't acused you, yet is treating you like you have been accused? Well, that's some horrid villification."
"Sorry Prescott I didn't mean to downplay your issues.
I echo a lot of what the guys are saying here. Friendship comes first and you need to sit him down and tell him how you feel and what you are seeing. And if it is making you uncomfortable…"
""Two of my only true friends"....its hard but take a look at your life and expand your social circle...this is a bigger issue than your question. What happens when they break up and you potentially lose both of them?"
"I don't know...that's possible. But believe me, it's NOT like I'm hooked on some idea that I could be with her. Like I said, I know better than to cross that line. I hang out with them a lot because they are two of my only true…"
"Oh, and quit the roids, man. It has been documented to cause, small testicles, male pattern baldness, infertility, and heart issues. Your heart is a muscle, too. All those anabolic steroids affect it just like your biceps or quads."
"I had a good upper-body workout today: cables, with a few extra reps; 20 dead-hang pullups; three reverse pullups; 246 pushups over 11 sets, including 14 knuckle pushups [my best]; body rows, etc. Then I ran 4.75 miles in 45 minutes on the…"