"I got married younger (22) and have been that way longer (15+ years) - and I approve wholeheartedly this message.
And I'll add this - nothing else I would have done in my 20s would have made me a better human being, man, or even…"
""But the 'real soul-mate' is the one you are actually married to."
No, the one you're currently married to is the one with who's crap you are willing to put up with, for now. She's also the one who you have…"
"If God or the universe or whatever did indeed provide you with a perfect spouse with whom you are experiencing fairytale happiness, then I congratulate you on your good fortune. You have been blessed in a way that very few people ever will…"
"Opening up the door for legally obligated cake baking despite the baker's objections and convictions is similar to fundamentalist christian's efforts to "get god back in schools" or "teach the controversy", in that it…"
""So the problem with the self seems to be that it's whatever anyone says whenever anyone says, & it can changed endlessly."
I think God changes at near the same rate as the self, which, I suspect, is less swift and less endless…"
"A friend of mine is shy about being seen shirtless because he is a little overweight. So how would I get him to start walking around the house with his shirt off more frequently come spring and summer?"