"Well Jess, I said "sometimes you need to just forget about what you want and help others"..did not say "make her good enough for you"..what I meant was as proposed by another fellow member, its just fun to workout with a friend,…"
""Based on her major and your efforts to keep fit, could you tactfully get her to work to lose weight, perhaps by inviting her to work out with you, or join you in some nutritional approach?"-Nathanael
Y dont u try this? She is a friend as…"
"Keep her as a good friend. If you have to convince yourself to be attracted to her then there is no attraction, nothing wrong with that. If all it takes is for her to lose a few pounds and you might feel attracted to her what happens if she gains…"
"I'm of the "like her as she is now, not as you want her to be" opinion. If she's overweight, it is likely to be something that she's going to struggle with for the rest of her life. The statistics showing how many people…"
"First thing. Don't ask for a girl for advice on who you should date since she will always suggest you date her friend who has trouble getting a man usually because she is overweight and probably a bit socially awkward. (There's a Denny…"
"This makes sense and is more mature than I expected when I started reading the post. I think you're right, if you're not attracted to her physically, you shouldn't date her, especially if marriage is in the cards (it seems you…"
"Personally, I don't have a problem with not dating someone you're not attracted to, as long as you're nice about it. ("I just don't have romantic feelings towards you" is better than "I'm not attracted to…"
"If you don't want to date her ... don't. But, I wouldn't try to change her into something she isn't to try to make her 'dateable'. What happens if she gets in shape, you get attracted, get married ... and…"
Hey everyone so here's my dilemma. I'm 21and have a good friend of mine, a girl, who is in my close circle of friends and has been for about a year since we met. Our situation is that I have two roommates, and one of them had a girlfriend, now fiancee, who brought her roommate over to our apartment to hangout with us 3 guys and herself. Over time, the 5 of us have basically become best friends and hangout all the time. We all share the same sense of humor, enjoy the same movies and games, and…See More
I've been thinking about this kind of group for a long time and I'd like to share my own stories along with other people's stories about their body modification experiences. Please keep it clean and use only acceptable responses.
"Well when I first read this The first MAN that comes to mind is from the advertising campaign for Dos Equis, The Most Interesting Man in the World.
I wish I could have thought of someone Like Jesus or Hemingway, but that is my answer and I am…"
"My father was in law Enforcement. As I grew up he was always carrying. In the county that I lived in I could not qualify for a CCW. Just recently, new Sheriff, the rules changed and I can. It was a eye opener to go to the East Coast and see people…"
"This is a great first step.
I can say I have bought many shitty cars to just tear into. Even just pulling motors out and seeing how they work. By the way when you are done. Craigslist is a great place to make your money back. HA HA!!!!!!"