J. Tyler Henderson
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I Lost My Newborn Son

Started this discussion. Last reply by Claude Apr 16, 2013. 24 Replies

I've been reading Art of Manliness for awhile now, and just recently signed up for the community. This is the first thing I've ever posted in the forum, but I figure this is as good a place as any to…Continue

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Claude replied to J. Tyler Henderson's discussion I Lost My Newborn Son
"Not wise enough to offer you anything better than what's been said already.  Can only imagine this pain.  God bless you and your wife.  Hang in there, my friend. "
Apr 16, 2013
C. Grant replied to J. Tyler Henderson's discussion I Lost My Newborn Son
"my goodness brother, my heart breaks for you and your wife. My first child, a daughter is two weeks old tomorrow, and I'm choked up to even imagine. Three years ago my best friend lost a son this exact way. I know I don't have his…"
Apr 16, 2013
Kit the Odd replied to J. Tyler Henderson's discussion I Lost My Newborn Son
"Wounds take time to heal, whether or the body or of the heart.  If not cared for they can become septic and even more dangerous than the original wound.  You and your wife have been dealt a very serious wound.  Take time to…"
Apr 16, 2013
Ben replied to J. Tyler Henderson's discussion I Lost My Newborn Son
"I'm very sorry for your loss, you have my deep sympathies.  "
Apr 14, 2013
Josh replied to J. Tyler Henderson's discussion I Lost My Newborn Son
"Tyler, I am very sorry for your. There are words describing the pain you and your wife feel at the moment. "
Apr 14, 2013
Peter A. Wolf replied to J. Tyler Henderson's discussion I Lost My Newborn Son
"Sorry for your loss J. Tyler.  I wish I had words to comfort you.  Hang in there."
Apr 14, 2013
J. Tyler Henderson replied to J. Tyler Henderson's discussion I Lost My Newborn Son
"I just wanted to take a moment to let all of you know that I have read all of the words, thoughts, advice and condolences you've shared with me over this post. I greatly appreciate each of you who took the time to read and to add your own…"
Apr 13, 2013
Jay replied to J. Tyler Henderson's discussion I Lost My Newborn Son
"Thank you, Tyler, for such a heartfelt and well stated posting.  I felt very touched by how you related your experience, and I hope that you have been able to find something of what you need from this site.  -- Jay"
Apr 12, 2013
Larry replied to J. Tyler Henderson's discussion I Lost My Newborn Son
"absolutely."
Apr 11, 2013
J. Hughes replied to J. Tyler Henderson's discussion I Lost My Newborn Son
"I do not believe I can compose any words better than those that were written before mine. You have been offered some good advice and thoughtful words. As I read your post I am truly saddened by your family’s loss… I am sorry for you and…"
Apr 11, 2013
Todd Serveto replied to J. Tyler Henderson's discussion I Lost My Newborn Son
"Oh, Tyler....what a HORRIBLE, tragic thing to have to go through.  I feel your pain and grief as I read your post.  While I've never gone through the grief of losing a child (pre-born or otherwise), I do know about grief and loss,…"
Apr 11, 2013
Stephen Cavanaugh replied to J. Tyler Henderson's discussion I Lost My Newborn Son
"Tyler, I know something of what you and your wife are feeling. My wife and I lost a daughter who was stillborn in her 38th week, just like your son. As if it couldn't be any worse, she was delivered on my wife's birthday! It had been a…"
Apr 11, 2013
Milo Morris replied to J. Tyler Henderson's discussion I Lost My Newborn Son
"I am sorry for your loss. I think everyone who has posted so far has had some good things to say. I've never been in your position, but my mother has. I'm the eldest of 3 boys, but I was going to have an older brother. He ended up being…"
Apr 11, 2013
Rick Shelton replied to J. Tyler Henderson's discussion I Lost My Newborn Son
"I am so sorry for your loss."
Apr 11, 2013
David F. replied to J. Tyler Henderson's discussion I Lost My Newborn Son
"Larry wrote well.  I am posting just to let you know another has heard your pain but can not find words better to console you.   In sorrow David"
Apr 11, 2013
Jirby replied to J. Tyler Henderson's discussion I Lost My Newborn Son
"Well said, Larry. While I truly believe God has a plan, there are times like this when people don't want to be encouraged or told about His plan. They just want you to listen and offer comfort, not advice or cute anecdotes. People are…"
Apr 11, 2013

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At 12:28am on March 23, 2013, Larry said…

Thanks, Tyler! Blessings on you!

At 12:05am on March 18, 2013, Larry said…

Welcome to AoM, Tyler!  Thank you for your comment about the Second Amendment, in your blog!

 
 
 

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