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Started this discussion. Last reply by Joseph CB Jan 28. 9 Replies 0 Likes
This is something I've been wondering recently. How to set limits and boundaries, and how to enforce them in a relationship.I don't quite know how to define this, and I can only resort to examples,…Continue
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Michael D. Denny replied to JD Good's discussion Enforcing boundaries"Anyone wanna guess how I am going to answer this one ??
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Three words for ya, big guy.
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Rebekah replied to JD Good's discussion Enforcing boundaries"Different people have different relationships with and attitudes towards exes. And exes are different. Most of mine are deeply broken people that don't pose a romantic "threat" to my husband. He and I both acknowledge that bigger…"
Todd Serveto replied to JD Good's discussion Enforcing boundaries"JD; there is only one person you can change, and that is you. So when you say "enforce boundaries", all you can really do is determine what YOU are going to do--you can't "make" your girlfriend do anything. She…"
Jack Bauer replied to JD Good's discussion Enforcing boundaries"As a general rule, committed couples -- and particularly married couples -- ought not spend unnecessary alone-time with the opposite sex. Nothing wrong with friendship, or group time, or double dates, or parties, or whatever ... but, going…"
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This is something I've been wondering recently. How to set limits and boundaries, and how to enforce them in a relationship.I don't quite know how to define this, and I can only resort to examples, which is why I'm posting it here.For example There is already a thread here 'Girlfriend having dinner with her ex' as an example of boundaries being crossed. Taking that, without and back history posts.Is she doing something possibly wrong? Not necessarily. But is she being dishonest and…See More
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JD Good replied to Ian's discussion Found that girlfriend's ex takes her out for dinner"It is possible that she is not doing anything wrong, even if she is acting dishonorably in doing so.
You definitely need to confront her about this. Calmly. She has stepped out of line, and has to acknowledge that and do something to rectify it. Yu…"
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It's not that difficult to do, but its just enough hassle to…"
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