This is something I've been wondering recently. How to set limits and boundaries, and how to enforce them in a relationship.I don't quite know how to define this, and I can only resort to examples,…Continue
"Interesting responses. I left this a little open-ended, as it tends to generate more creative responses depending on personal interpretations.
I am curious where the marriage perception came from, my use of the word "relationship"? For…"
"Different people have different relationships with and attitudes towards exes. And exes are different. Most of mine are deeply broken people that don't pose a romantic "threat" to my husband. He and I both acknowledge that bigger…"
"JD; there is only one person you can change, and that is you. So when you say "enforce boundaries", all you can really do is determine what YOU are going to do--you can't "make" your girlfriend do anything. She…"
"As a general rule, committed couples -- and particularly married couples -- ought not spend unnecessary alone-time with the opposite sex. Nothing wrong with friendship, or group time, or double dates, or parties, or whatever ... but, going…"
This is something I've been wondering recently. How to set limits and boundaries, and how to enforce them in a relationship.I don't quite know how to define this, and I can only resort to examples, which is why I'm posting it here.For example There is already a thread here 'Girlfriend having dinner with her ex' as an example of boundaries being crossed. Taking that, without and back history posts.Is she doing something possibly wrong? Not necessarily. But is she being dishonest and…See More
"I have to disagree on the "accessibility" part. Accessibility is a big component of any self-control regime. For example, it's much harder to ruin a diet with chocolate if you never buy it when you shop, and consequently it is never…"
"It is possible that she is not doing anything wrong, even if she is acting dishonorably in doing so.
You definitely need to confront her about this. Calmly. She has stepped out of line, and has to acknowledge that and do something to rectify it. Yu…"
"An alternative option is to put all your regular adult sites into your hosts file. This redirects the URL to a specified IP address, such as null, which makes the site inaccessible.
It's not that difficult to do, but its just enough hassle to…"
"Check. Is there any way you can give me a passage or quote that backs up your claims, as I have done above? I see Epictetus talking about God all over the place but I am not reading what you are reading, obviously."
"Has there been some lies that actually mattered, cause honestly, your examples rather suck as things to get your panties in a wad over.
As far as her taking responsibility, like one of the others stated, you have to stand your ground, remain…"
"Roger that! God (no matter what name He is called by) directs the Universe by His Providence. That is a critical tenant of Stoicism, because what happens was meant to happen and is out of our control. People's personal philosophies may or may…"
"Too much depends on the concept of god you are talking about. Even Plato/Socrates god varies widely from what Epictetus was talking about. Name has nothing to do with it.
Are they important within their philosophies? Yes. Are they important…"
"Your bump to this thread is most welcome.
Looks like you're off to a good start. I'd recommend adding a more substantial knife and a flashlight. Maybe a Fenix E01 would work as an addition to your keychain.
"If you're gonna keep all of your tattoos with the same style they wont "clash". doesn't matter if you get a microwave with some pillows on the side, If it's the same style 95% of the time it works together."