Hi everyone, a few days ago I was having a conversation with a friend. She said how she liked the fact I'm not into expensive cars or clothes and such and prefer to spend my money traveling. I always…Continue
Hi everyone, my name is Ivan; I registered a few months ago, after I came across AoM's “Must Read Books” list, which I found it pretty adequate. I guess the reason I’m here is to hang out and have…Continue
"It looks to me like the traits we admire in young can be summed up in the words virtue. The root word of virtue is the Latin word "Vir", which means manliness. interestingly, to me at least, I discovered this site while doing…"
Turning 16 is a pivotal moment in a young man’s life, at least it was in mine. You’re at a moment in which you’re trying to discover who you are. I believe you should cut yourself some slack, though; you’re…"
"There a many great traits listed here to take into ones character. All I can really add is a healthy dose of humility. The ability to say, "I don't know everything and believe you have something worth while to teach me," goes a very…"
"Conviction-Stick to your guns, whether it be your beliefs, values, personal style, or what have you. Trends, politics, what is "cool" are constantly in flux, and younger men are especially vulnerable to this, having perhaps not found their…"
"1. Learn to be quiet. 2. Show respect to authority instead of rebellion.
3. Don't idolize wannabe gangsters.
4. Work your butt off. Earn your bread.
5. Exhibit adherence to your values.
6. Do what you say and say what you mean.
"To me, the situation is also relevant. Part of what you (should) learn as you grow up, which, it seems to me, is decreasingly appreciated in our culture these days, is that different situations have different standards of behavior.
When I get…"
"To me, cussing when you bang your head or get cut off by another driver is healthy.
But walking along in a public place, loudly dropping the f bomb when all I really mean is "gee", is not manly, it's coarse."
"It's one thing reading to pass the time, such as on a train. The Norman Rockwell is from a time when men were not expected to be especially interactive with their families; I don't see that as anything to emulate either, but then this post…"
"I saw a great photo of everyone on the tram reading a the newspaper with a note about how anti social it is. I have also seen a Norman Rockwell painting showing the Man of the house reading a newspaper at the dinner table.
I do agree that…"
""Who said anything about sins and repenting?"
I did, because it seems to be a concept outside of your own psychological oddities. You can correct me if I'm wrong, but I have the impression that what you're objecting to…"
"So yes you will have trouble finding a girl with those values in the world we live in . so you change your values or you have trouble , that's your choices."
Who is one as a man who adjusts his values simply to not be…"
""A self-righteous prig like you doesn't deserve a woman who has honestly sinned and repented. "
Who said anything about sins and repenting? The fact that you quickly resort to name-calling like this in a *discussion*…"
"I generally agree.
OP, from what you wrote, it seems like you have an objection to any woman who has "had sex outside of a loving relationship," regardless of whether this is something from years ago that she now regrets or something she…"
"With interest rates so low, consider putting a good chunk of that $10k into very safe securities, usually government bonds. Also, consider whether you need a whole 6-month emergency fund as an Australian. The…"