Hi everyone, a few days ago I was having a conversation with a friend. She said how she liked the fact I'm not into expensive cars or clothes and such and prefer to spend my money traveling. I always…Continue
Hi everyone, my name is Ivan; I registered a few months ago, after I came across AoM's “Must Read Books” list, which I found it pretty adequate. I guess the reason I’m here is to hang out and have…Continue
"It looks to me like the traits we admire in young can be summed up in the words virtue. The root word of virtue is the Latin word "Vir", which means manliness. interestingly, to me at least, I discovered this site while doing…"
Turning 16 is a pivotal moment in a young man’s life, at least it was in mine. You’re at a moment in which you’re trying to discover who you are. I believe you should cut yourself some slack, though; you’re…"
"There a many great traits listed here to take into ones character. All I can really add is a healthy dose of humility. The ability to say, "I don't know everything and believe you have something worth while to teach me," goes a very…"
"Conviction-Stick to your guns, whether it be your beliefs, values, personal style, or what have you. Trends, politics, what is "cool" are constantly in flux, and younger men are especially vulnerable to this, having perhaps not found their…"
"1. Learn to be quiet. 2. Show respect to authority instead of rebellion.
3. Don't idolize wannabe gangsters.
4. Work your butt off. Earn your bread.
5. Exhibit adherence to your values.
6. Do what you say and say what you mean.
"To me, the situation is also relevant. Part of what you (should) learn as you grow up, which, it seems to me, is decreasingly appreciated in our culture these days, is that different situations have different standards of behavior.
When I get…"
"To me, cussing when you bang your head or get cut off by another driver is healthy.
But walking along in a public place, loudly dropping the f bomb when all I really mean is "gee", is not manly, it's coarse."
"It's one thing reading to pass the time, such as on a train. The Norman Rockwell is from a time when men were not expected to be especially interactive with their families; I don't see that as anything to emulate either, but then this post…"
"I saw a great photo of everyone on the tram reading a the newspaper with a note about how anti social it is. I have also seen a Norman Rockwell painting showing the Man of the house reading a newspaper at the dinner table.
I do agree that…"
"Gaybashing (going out to kick the shit out of gays just for the fun of it) was so common in the 80s and 90s that comedians used to joke about it on TV.Well that's pretty vague and doesn't include any measurable way of verifying just how…"
""And even in the most liberal city in Sweden, the residents of a poor impoverished ghetto are still going to beat up gays just because they can, regardless of whether some "pride hashtag" is trending on Twitter or not."
"I voted for Trump, and while I don't exactly worship the ground he walks on, I don't regret my vote one bit. I love how he takes the media to task, has rolled back a lot of regulations,, and got a conservative guy on the supreme…"
"Identity politics can be deconstructive / Balkanistic or they can be increasingly inclusive. They work in both directions:I suppose it would depend on how widely the group is defined, but from the definition you posted identity politics is based…"
""There haven't been any real, measurable social changes beyond the legal victories such as the legalization of same-sex marriage - beyond that nothing has really changed in any measurable way beyond the "bandwagon" that people…"