Howdy,So I had a thought: Do guys really need a man cave? Is it important to have a space all your own separated from your family? The reason I ask is a good friend of mine who is a father of 3 has…Continue
Howdy,I am the father of a newborn girl, my first child. She is awesome. My wife (her Mother) is also awesome. Right now she is in auto pilot mode of sleeping, eating and pooping and this part is…Continue
"Its worth a watch. The film touches on the idea of the darkness and evil that lurks in the mundane and boring world of middle class America and how we are all affected by it. Very good film and Frank Booth (the films bad guy) is one of those…"
"Of course I will throw in some cold shouldered indifference every now and then too: Ignore her when she speaks, make her open the door for ME, slowly control every aspect of her life and make her give up contact with friends and family...
"I agree. I think that the most important thing to do overall is to love her Mom and treat her like a queen so my kid can see the example.
That seems to be a very prevalent response in this thread and I am defiantly taking note. "
"Thats interesting. Yeah ultimately if she chooses it and her mom and I deem it acceptable media for our household we won't deny her (princess orientated films) but I figure I can limit access to it at least or as you mentioned, we can…"
"It must fill some psychological need.
Sort of like Rescue Bots, Doctor Who (I supervise this one closely), Transformers, Batman, &c. &c., fill one for my little boy. I wasn't a superhero type, but boy is he."
"If you're worried about the "old school" princess (the useless damsel in distress), check out some of the newer films like Brave, Wreck It Ralph, or Shrek, and to an extent you could use the real Star Wars trilogy as well."
"Considering my daughter is 4, almost 5 now... and we've actually TRIED* to "push" her away from the princess thing. It doesn't really work. If she ends up going through a princess phase just run with it as you only have so long…"
This man gets it.
Tricky part; it means you treat your wife, her mother, exactly as you would expect her future husband to treat her.
Also; YOU go have some fun with your wife. YOU get her out. YOU be her stress relief.
"We have a public health system which is really good for emergencies. But i also have private health to cover things like dental, optical and physio.
As for retirement funds, that is set up very well here. I will start paying extra into it once i…"
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"yep, i have read that. the snowball method got me out of debt!
I will most likely follow his methods, although i think the terminology is a little different here in Australia, so I will need do a bitmore research."
"I guess it does sound simple when you put it like that. But should I allow my opinion on the subject make or break a relationship? What if she says that she'll stop? Does this make things more complicated?"