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I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Sir yesterday. 66 Replies

So it's been six weeks since i posted this:…Continue

I'm going under. I feel like such a loser and it kills me.

Started this discussion. Last reply by terry sperling Feb 17. 25 Replies

So my girlfriend and I broke up. I think. We haven't really had it that good for a while now. She's really unstable and I've been trying to be supporting but she keeps abusing me. She has done a lot…Continue

Having a really hard time with a girl i was involved with.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Nick H Jan 31, 2016. 37 Replies

Last year i met this girl in class, she contacted me and that was pretty new to me, atleast now when i was a bit older i guess. We started to hang out and even tho i had my doubts, suspicions and was…Continue

I'm having a hard time in this "relationship" i found myself in.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Conor Dec 8, 2015. 16 Replies

Okay. It's been a long road to get where i am today and i feel very much lost, depressed and alone. I know i should just leave. I know i shouldn't talk to her. These are the advice i have gotten from…Continue

 

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Sir replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Sounds like time for a shift.  Here are some ideas: * Read up on depression, or consult a professional.  Does it describe you well?  I know there are commonalities in grief and depression, but grief is situation-driven and fades (IDK…"
yesterday
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"It sounds like something good to do but i just don't have the power. I feel so weak, tired and i just work and when i come home i just walk around waiting for time to pass, waiting for the pain to go away but it never does. Everything reminds…"
Friday
Shane replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Dive into yourself. Don't go out. Dont log in to chat rooms or forum boards. Don't do anything except work on you. Start lifting and eating right. Learn everything you can about exercise and nutrition. Take the nofap challenge. When…"
Apr 22
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"What does that mean?"
Apr 22
Shane replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Go cocoon mode."
Apr 22
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Hard to tell. Our relationship started badly, it was bad and it ended badly. I should never have gotten involved with her in the first place but the feeling that someone show interest in me and wanted to be with me was too good I guess. Before I met…"
Apr 22
Shane replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Why don't you explore those memories? When did you become dependent on her? Why is this connection so much a part of your being?"
Apr 22
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"I'm trying to do this but it's hard. All my friends either have families or live far away so i can't see them so often and i've been trying to do fun stuff but so much reminds me of her that it's hard to do certain things.…"
Apr 22
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"I've been trying really hard. I haven't spoken to her for over a month now and i always seem to run into her when i'm out. It's like the universe fucks with me and every time i see her i fall deeper down this black hole. I'm…"
Apr 22
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"I never drank before and now i've been drinking every day the past week and the thing is i don't actually feel any better while drunk, i'm still sad and angry so i don't really know why i drink. I've always had a hard time…"
Apr 22
Nick DeChane replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Get out and do some fun activities with other people, even if you don't feel like it. Friends are your best tool, use them to help keep you accountable. It's easy to slip back into what you know and have a past with. I'm sure your…"
Apr 20
Sir replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"These feelings insist on being felt.  Sorry that they're so awful."
Apr 19
Kit the Odd replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"It is rough.  My 2 cents: 1) I think the drinking is a bad idea.  It numbs the pain temporarily, but doesn't actually fix the problem.  And it can lead to other problems, especially if you make big decisions under the…"
Apr 19
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"You guys must be so tired of my whiny ass by now but i just feel like i need to write out my thoughts and feelings. It's been over 3 months now and my mood and feelings going up and down like the bumpiest roller coaster ever. I don't know…"
Apr 19
Conor replied to Rodolfo Espinosa's discussion Relationship Breakup
"Listen to the advice you get here is my advice. I went through a break up myself three months ago and I came here seeking advice but I was stupid and didn't really listen and I paid the price for it, I am still paying the price for it. I wish I…"
Apr 14
Kit the Odd replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Good!  It sounds like you are making progress on this, Conor.  It is a process and will take time, but it sounds like you are doing well."
Apr 3

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At 10:54am on February 27, 2017, Mongoose said…

Note: you've been asking for help for quite some time. And you have read through MANY responses, and none of them have helped. None of the techniques or advice you have got from anywhere else has helped.

It's time to see a professional psychiatrist and psychologist.

 
 
 

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