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I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Conor on Saturday. 80 Replies

So it's been six weeks since i posted this:…Continue

I'm going under. I feel like such a loser and it kills me.

Started this discussion. Last reply by terry sperling Feb 17. 25 Replies

So my girlfriend and I broke up. I think. We haven't really had it that good for a while now. She's really unstable and I've been trying to be supporting but she keeps abusing me. She has done a lot…Continue

Having a really hard time with a girl i was involved with.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Nick H Jan 31, 2016. 37 Replies

Last year i met this girl in class, she contacted me and that was pretty new to me, atleast now when i was a bit older i guess. We started to hang out and even tho i had my doubts, suspicions and was…Continue

I'm having a hard time in this "relationship" i found myself in.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Conor Dec 8, 2015. 16 Replies

Okay. It's been a long road to get where i am today and i feel very much lost, depressed and alone. I know i should just leave. I know i shouldn't talk to her. These are the advice i have gotten from…Continue

 

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Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Probably my last update. Things are getting better now, a lot of stuff seems like they are falling in place and it feels good. I got extansion at work for the next year which feels really nice and it kinda validates me that i do something right.…"
Saturday
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Thank you, thinks are actually starting to look up even tho i miss her alot now and then. But it comes in waves now, it's not always there like it was before. "
Saturday
Mike Spivak replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Hey Connor, it doesn't sound like you were the most important person in her life. It sounds like she was the most important person in her life. You sound like you have a lot of love to give. Take time to heal and go get yourself a nice girl,…"
Jun 16
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"It's been over 4 months now, still feels like yesterday all of the shit went down that eventually lead to her leaving me. I still have a really hard time and i still miss being with her, it's really tough. The roughest part that i…"
May 15
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Thank you, i really hope to find that special one that makes everyone else disappear into the background. I will do my best to concentrate on myself and get better and as i said above i will get help eventually by a therapist and i think that will…"
May 4
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Thank you. That's what's so messed up with me, i'm still holding on and i can't seem to let go, i somehow still hope she will come back and it's pretty disturbed. She treated me so poorly and right now i would take her back…"
May 4
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Thank you, i've heard that writing stuff down really helps and i will take your advice and buy me a notebook and a good pen and sit down at a café and just write, i feel like writing here helps so i guess writing it down on paper will be…"
May 4
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"I was drinking when i wrote this message and i guess alot of the underlying stuff that really bothering me came up because i remember sitting at my computer typing this and just crying my eyes out, i also wrote apologize-letters to two of my exes…"
May 4
Sir replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Well, I am replying again as promised, but that's still mostly what I had to say:  that I am seeing how depression is lying to you as it did to me.  "Never" my ass.  I wasn't the one who would never get the girl…"
May 3
Drew replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Haven't been in your exact situation but I do know what its like to feel like you'll be single the rest of your days. I was painfully shy & suffered from social anxiety (still do) and thought I'd never find anyone but I…"
May 3
John Landes replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"When I went through my divorce many years ago, one of the things that helped me with all the negativity that flooded inside me was pouring it out on paper.  I would visit a coffee shop near my dilapidated house (this was all way before…"
May 2
Sir replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
""This is [depression]" -- yep, truer words have never spoken.  It's like depression's in charge and is writing your post for you. I'm going to reply more later, but in the meantime:  psychiatrist's right (it…"
May 1
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Yeah, i've been depressed in the past and this is it. I feel like nothing really matters anymore and that everyone i love will eventually leave or die so i'll just be left all alone in the end anyways. My anxiety has always been there but…"
May 1
Sir replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Sounds like time for a shift.  Here are some ideas: * Read up on depression, or consult a professional.  Does it describe you well?  I know there are commonalities in grief and depression, but grief is situation-driven and fades (IDK…"
Apr 28
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"It sounds like something good to do but i just don't have the power. I feel so weak, tired and i just work and when i come home i just walk around waiting for time to pass, waiting for the pain to go away but it never does. Everything reminds…"
Apr 28
Shane replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Dive into yourself. Don't go out. Dont log in to chat rooms or forum boards. Don't do anything except work on you. Start lifting and eating right. Learn everything you can about exercise and nutrition. Take the nofap challenge. When…"
Apr 22

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At 10:54am on February 27, 2017, Mongoose said…

Note: you've been asking for help for quite some time. And you have read through MANY responses, and none of them have helped. None of the techniques or advice you have got from anywhere else has helped.

It's time to see a professional psychiatrist and psychologist.

 
 
 

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