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I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.

Started this discussion. Last reply by John Muir 6 hours ago. 6 Replies

So it's been six weeks since i posted this:…Continue

I'm going under. I feel like such a loser and it kills me.

Started this discussion. Last reply by terry sperling Feb 17. 25 Replies

So my girlfriend and I broke up. I think. We haven't really had it that good for a while now. She's really unstable and I've been trying to be supporting but she keeps abusing me. She has done a lot…Continue

Having a really hard time with a girl i was involved with.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Nick H Jan 31, 2016. 37 Replies

Last year i met this girl in class, she contacted me and that was pretty new to me, atleast now when i was a bit older i guess. We started to hang out and even tho i had my doubts, suspicions and was…Continue

I'm having a hard time in this "relationship" i found myself in.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Conor Dec 8, 2015. 16 Replies

Okay. It's been a long road to get where i am today and i feel very much lost, depressed and alone. I know i should just leave. I know i shouldn't talk to her. These are the advice i have gotten from…Continue

 

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John Muir replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Nobody is over a relationship six weeks after it ends. In fact, in my experience, it takes at least a year to mostly get over it, and then about as long as the relationship lasted to totally get over it. You have to go through the birthdays,…"
6 hours ago
Mongoose replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"At six weeks, most people are disengaged from the former relationship than you are. I do highly recommend working with a professional (psychiatrist) to determine if you have OCD or another condition which is interfering with your closure and…"
7 hours ago
John Muir replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"First off:  Sorry, dude. It hurts, and there is no way around that. Secondly, I'd offer these few bits of advice -  box up/get rid of everything that reminds you of her - pictures, etc. Keep them somewhere because in a few years…"
8 hours ago
Forge replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"First of all, dude... Take some time to take care of yourself. Make sure you are getting the sleep you need and eating right. In a similar situation, I found that those were major in getting depression under control.  Second- 6 weeks, not a…"
8 hours ago
David F. replied to Conor's discussion I'm going under. I feel like such a loser and it kills me.
"Sleep will be hard.  I have a journal next to my bed to try to write out the ruminations.  Especially with a break up, take the time to set up a schedule to bed. What I am trying to do: Read out of bed a physical book.   Drink some…"
Jan 13
Anonymous replied to Conor's discussion I'm going under. I feel like such a loser and it kills me.
"Dude she's crazy get the hell away from that. "Avoid the unhappy and the unlucky" lest you become infected by their negative temperament yourself."
Jan 13
Forge replied to Conor's discussion I'm going under. I feel like such a loser and it kills me.
"This is exactly right. Get your things if you can and get out. If you keep trying to follow up with her, it can easily be colored as you being the psycho -ex who wont let go. I just about guarantee you that's already what she has cast you as to…"
Jan 12
John Landes replied to Conor's discussion I'm going under. I feel like such a loser and it kills me.
"Getting back your personal items and receiving closure should go hand in hand.  Her father would be the best bet to contact getting your things back.  Bouncing back from a relationship that involved unfaithfulness is hard, especially if…"
Jan 12
Gentleman Engineer replied to Conor's discussion I'm going under. I feel like such a loser and it kills me.
"As one for whom an experience of events of a manner not entirely dissimilar was of experience, one may state in am manner lacking in equivocation that fortune should most like proffer improvements for the future. Recuperation and reflection…"
Jan 12
Mongoose replied to Conor's discussion I'm going under. I feel like such a loser and it kills me.
"I do NOT recommend reaching out to her. Her father has stepped in, and I suspect he is protective. There's a chance that, if you reach out to her again, the father will take out a restraining order or something. I am sorry to say this, but the…"
Jan 12
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I'm going under. I feel like such a loser and it kills me.
"Thank you. I will take your advice and try to find a therapist that will help me. I will get out of town tomorrow and see the one friend i do have. We don't really hang out much because of the distance but i felt now was a good time to hang…"
Jan 12
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I'm going under. I feel like such a loser and it kills me.
"Thank you. I guess it will suck for a while, it's just bad timing since i just started my new work and i feel like i don't contribute when i'm up in this mess. I just want to lay in bed and cry, be angry, cry some more and so on. All…"
Jan 12
Mongoose replied to Conor's discussion I'm going under. I feel like such a loser and it kills me.
"Conor, you will heal. It will take time. That being said, the shortest way to gain closure and move on is to work with a professional. I do not know if you "need therapy," nor am I saying you need therapy. What I do see you doing is…"
Jan 12
Sir replied to Conor's discussion I'm going under. I feel like such a loser and it kills me.
""Right now it all feels meaningless." Yes.  It's been about a day.  You get to spend a few days feeling like everything's awful (more, if you need).  It would be shocking if you broke up with a long-time girlfriend…"
Jan 12
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I'm going under. I feel like such a loser and it kills me.
"I wish this is true, right now it all feels meaningless. I just don't see myself finding someone new, this girl found me pretty much and i don't really have any friends so i don't know. "
Jan 12
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I'm going under. I feel like such a loser and it kills me.
"This is the worst part. Why do i even want her? When we're in a fight i'm out, i'm like "i want to break up, please go away" and when the dust has settled i still love her and i still want to try again... But i know it will…"
Jan 12

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John Muir replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Nobody is over a relationship six weeks after it ends. In fact, in my experience, it takes at least a year to mostly get over it, and then about as long as the relationship lasted to totally get over it. You have to go through the birthdays,…"
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