Conor
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I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Sir on Wednesday. 49 Replies

So it's been six weeks since i posted this:…Continue

I'm going under. I feel like such a loser and it kills me.

Started this discussion. Last reply by terry sperling Feb 17. 25 Replies

So my girlfriend and I broke up. I think. We haven't really had it that good for a while now. She's really unstable and I've been trying to be supporting but she keeps abusing me. She has done a lot…Continue

Having a really hard time with a girl i was involved with.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Nick H Jan 31, 2016. 37 Replies

Last year i met this girl in class, she contacted me and that was pretty new to me, atleast now when i was a bit older i guess. We started to hang out and even tho i had my doubts, suspicions and was…Continue

I'm having a hard time in this "relationship" i found myself in.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Conor Dec 8, 2015. 16 Replies

Okay. It's been a long road to get where i am today and i feel very much lost, depressed and alone. I know i should just leave. I know i shouldn't talk to her. These are the advice i have gotten from…Continue

 

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Sir replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Owning Your Own Shadow.  Codependent No More or The Language of Letting Go.  A book with "inner child" in the title.  Inner Work."
Wednesday
Jack Bauer replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"What would you be doing if you had "moved on"? How would you act? How would you speak to the girl that left? Or, would you at all? Where would you go? Who would you see? Who would you ask out? What would you think about? What would you…"
Tuesday
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Yet another update. I relapsed. Or something. I contacted her. Stupid move one might think but i think it actually helped me gain a bit more emotional seperation. I asked her if we could talk, and she asked about what so i told her that i wanted to…"
Tuesday
Shannon N. Clark replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"I can't give you too much advice on it other than just to do it. Do whatever helps you to feel confident such as dressing a way that makes you feel comfortable or that you like the way you look in. Try something that you've always wanted…"
Monday
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"I guess that's true but it scares me, i never done that before in my life and i'm scared they will laugh at me and think i'm pathetic and unworthy or something. I work with kids so that's helping some, i feel somewhat needed…"
Monday
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"It's hard to be. I'm tired of myself and how i have wasted my life on meaningless stuff, i'm tired of feeling too strong about everything, i'm tired of never being good enough for anyone. I just wish my brain was different…"
Monday
Shannon N. Clark replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"No girls that you go to talk to at a bar can damage your confidence any more than someone you care about biting your hand or your family having to watch her freak out. They can do no worse. Good luck and I'm sure things will move forward. Break…"
Monday
Salt Dragon replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Gentle, gentle, please be more gentle with yourself.  That is where the roots of being a gentleman lie:  your self-respect.  "
Monday
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"No problem, i feel like there will be more updates in time. And thank you for your kind words and thank you and everyone else for taking your time reading and replying to my ramblings. It's so hard everything, today has been rougher than usual…"
Monday
Salt Dragon replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Thanks for the update.  Im impressed by your openness and the level of care and concern in this community.  You're not alone, man. You're making progress.  The best is not letting yourself engage with her, not giving away…"
Monday
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Thank you. I'm doing all that, going over our relationship over and over again, trying to figure out what went wrong, i'm longing for the good moments we have, i can't get her out of my mind and since yesterday when i found out she…"
Monday
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Yeah, i guess that's true. I've always found a comfort and a calm in helping others. Especially as a kid, i remember it helped with my anxiety a lot to try and help others, even if it only were small things like going downstairs to get a…"
Monday
MavrikM replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Wow, buddy, it sounds like you're going through a really rough patch right now. I'm sorry to hear that. To be honest, reading your story, I'm reminded of the time I got broken up with. The stories aren't exactly the same, but…"
Monday
Shannon N. Clark replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Umm maybe you like to help people? Why not try to find another more healthy outlet for that? Also go out and try talking to other girls. If you feel like they are wrong you don't have to start anything, but try to at least get a rush of…"
Monday
Conor replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Okay, another update. I guess i'm doing a little bit better. I still feel the pain but it's not as numbing as it was in the beginning, i can function normally while still being sad at times. Last week i broke down crying, first time in a…"
Sunday
Salt Dragon replied to Conor's discussion I need help moving on, it's been six weeks now.
"Conor! How are you doing now?  Willing to provide another update?  Good wishes to you! "
Sunday

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At 10:54am on February 27, 2017, Mongoose said…

Note: you've been asking for help for quite some time. And you have read through MANY responses, and none of them have helped. None of the techniques or advice you have got from anywhere else has helped.

It's time to see a professional psychiatrist and psychologist.

 
 
 

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