"The advice offered above is very good and I only have one cent to add. You say you have been consistently laid off for not being able to keep up which gives the impression you've been doing manual jobs. Maybe you aren't…"

"I knew there was some reason I disabled texting on my phone. I think you're doing great."

"I would say to keep doing what you are doing. Except for the looking her up online and looking at her videos, but you knew that was a moment of weakness. It can be tough but you will get over her. It is not a bad thing to want her back. After 3…"

"Sounds like you know exactly what you are doing. No real advice from here other than a shout out to stay strong brother..."

"No ridicule, you're ahead of the curve as you know you have a problem and you've identified what it is.  One of the things I've come across is Adult ADHD, which you may have and there are things you can do that will help. …"

"I've gone from Merrill Lynch to head creative guy where I work...done both. Both are valid. I would't want some trendy, sharp dressed guy selling me bonds, and some fusty button-downed guy selling my a website design."

"I am running with my wife, no way in hell will she let me wear short shorts"

"A good point has been raised here.  What is your field and what type of position are you looking for?"