Hi there Ethan. Welcome to AoM! Also, I'd like to give you a friendly invite to check out my group, The Great Debate. Just click on "Groups." It's the one with the colorful galaxy picture. It's also one of the most active groups on AoM. In any case, great to have you with us.
"not gonna give the same "get out" advice but something else.
Get out of the game. you can be respectful but face your fear and ask out girls. if they say no you can still have fun with them. learn to dance and flirt.…"