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Asking her Father

Started this discussion. Last reply by Nathanael Aug 25, 2013. 13 Replies

Dear reader,Main reason I read articles on The Art of Manliness is because I love traditions and love to receive some guidance. I've been dating a wonderful woman for the past year and at some point…Continue

Manly Movie Quotes (lines)

Started this discussion. Last reply by Shane Feb 5. 95 Replies

I presume most of us have read the article 100 Must See Movies: The Essential Men’s Movie Library. A number of…Continue

 

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Lucius Artorius Castus replied to Erik T L's discussion Manly Movie Quotes (lines)
"We don't read and write poetry because it's cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race. And the human race is filled with passion. And medicine, law, business, engineering, these are noble pursuits and…"
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Nathanael replied to Erik T L's discussion Asking her Father
"I don't think I'm the one with anger issues here."
Aug 25, 2013
Jeremy replied to Erik T L's discussion Asking her Father
"You are a very angry little man, aren't you?  Would you feel better if I patted you on the head and told you that you were right and a special little snowflake?"
Aug 25, 2013
Will replied to Erik T L's discussion Asking her Father
"This information helps. In Western civilization, where women are free to choose their husbands, the proposal comes before asking for the blessing from Dad.  Sure would be a problem if he agreed and she didn't!  I know…"
Aug 25, 2013
Nathanael replied to Erik T L's discussion Asking her Father
"More assumptions.  Given the difference in nationalities between mother and father, and the woman's age, I see no reason to think it was a matter under his control."
Aug 25, 2013
N. Vest replied to Erik T L's discussion Asking her Father
"To me it is simple, ask her if it is important to her to have you ask. If so ask. Just remember you are asking for his blessing not his permission."
Aug 25, 2013
Mr Bill replied to Erik T L's discussion Asking her Father
"I'd like to weigh in on this discussion and ask if you and her have gone to marriage counseling? If so, seek out someone around the area that is Muslim or at least knows the Koran to see how they think/act/believe/etc... If not, see if you can…"
Aug 25, 2013
Erik T L replied to Erik T L's discussion Asking her Father
"Thanks for you response.I've added a list of extra details according to your questions.- Never met him before- Good father, but not always the easiest- Would love to meet him before I propose. Want to know where she comes from. - She…"
Aug 25, 2013
Jeremy replied to Erik T L's discussion Asking her Father
"Yes, because he let his daughter go all the way to another country where she has obviously spent quite a bit of time because he has some kind of possessive control issues with her and doesn't value her ability to make decisions that affect her…"
Aug 25, 2013
Will replied to Erik T L's discussion Asking her Father
"I think it would be well to ask a sympathetic Muslim or ex-Muslim what's most reasonable.  I don't know their customs.  What's her religion?  And what does she think on this issue?"
Aug 24, 2013
Nathanael replied to Erik T L's discussion Asking her Father
"That's a lot of speculation about what a wonderful, loving dad OP's girlfriend has...based on what, exactly? Not all fathers love their daughters, or want what's best from them, and often the way in which they might think they do is…"
Aug 24, 2013
Todd Serveto replied to Erik T L's discussion Asking her Father
"There are a few factors that you haven't told us that could profoundly influence the matter.  First of all, how old is she, and how emancipated/independent is she, already?  Second, how old are you?  Are you established in a…"
Aug 24, 2013
Jeremy replied to Erik T L's discussion Asking her Father
"Meh.  Just be respectful to the man (the man may some day be your father, and he deserves your respect.  Remember, that's his little girl you are dating), then show him you care for his daughter and will work hard to make her…"
Aug 24, 2013
Nathanael replied to Erik T L's discussion Asking her Father
"Have you met him before?  What sort of role does he have in her life?  What's their relationship like?  Will you meet him before you would propose? I think that if he has a good relationship with her, or if it is important to…"
Aug 24, 2013
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Asking her Father

Dear reader,Main reason I read articles on The Art of Manliness is because I love traditions and love to receive some guidance. I've been dating a wonderful woman for the past year and at some point I'd like to marry her. She feels the same way which is terrific. That being said her father lives in Morocco and believes in the Quran, which is unfortunate since I'm agnostic and so is she. I'd like to ask him her hand in marriage because I believe it's the right thing to do, but I realize that I…See More
Aug 24, 2013
Kurt Swanson replied to Erik T L's discussion Manly Movie Quotes (lines)
"I did hear about that, it should be awesome!"
Feb 8, 2012

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At 6:08am on January 17, 2012, Lucius Artorius Castus said…

Sorry but does anyone know an equivalent webs tie to the art of manliness for women?

No... There used to be a community called the Art of Womanliness, but it never really took off... But no blogs like AoM... Why do you ask?

 
 
 

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