hi there,recently I found someone who I admire as a father figure in my life. As far as I can tell he's maybe aware of it because he treats me a little bit differently from the others at work, more…Continue
"Personally, I would not discuss it. I see no point in bringing it up. If you do, there's a good chance he may back away, which I assume you don't want him to do. Just be cool and allow him to decide what to do while…"
hi there,recently I found someone who I admire as a father figure in my life. As far as I can tell he's maybe aware of it because he treats me a little bit differently from the others at work, more on a fairly subtle personal note. It's hard for me to describe it because he's pretty much a straight poker face in everything he says or does if he really wants to. On the other hand, for some reasons, it feels from time to time like he wants to teach me something and cares for me when we're…See More
"For that matter I'm not sure that someone naive enough to believe someone on the internet they don't know is "happily" married merely because of say-so is really that experienced on the subject in question, I think it'd be…"
"I think you're misunderstanding the point; obviously couples will end up developing common interests in the natural course of things, however the trend today I see is folks who are seeking a partner looking for a specific "list" of…"
"If you want to know whether it works better to have common interests with a spouse, or not to, well, this is the sort of thing that evidence is relevant to. No need to speculate. Ask happily married people.
My wife and I have common…"
"Sounds good. :)
As long as you're at it, google "counseling insubordinate employee" and "counseling employees with attitude problems." You'll get lots of links to good articles by business websites and HR companies.