hi there,recently I found someone who I admire as a father figure in my life. As far as I can tell he's maybe aware of it because he treats me a little bit differently from the others at work, more…Continue
"Personally, I would not discuss it. I see no point in bringing it up. If you do, there's a good chance he may back away, which I assume you don't want him to do. Just be cool and allow him to decide what to do while…"
hi there,recently I found someone who I admire as a father figure in my life. As far as I can tell he's maybe aware of it because he treats me a little bit differently from the others at work, more on a fairly subtle personal note. It's hard for me to describe it because he's pretty much a straight poker face in everything he says or does if he really wants to. On the other hand, for some reasons, it feels from time to time like he wants to teach me something and cares for me when we're…See More
"This is a very delicate matter. The very fact that you've been with her for years in spite of the lack of sex tells me that you are still in love with her and there are many other aspects of the marriage which you gain satisfaction from.
"By the way, I might've made fun of dropping-trou and saying "how 'bout it?" -- but, if you do the harder stuff; if you keep sex on her mind; if you romance her; if you touch her; if you keep it fun; if you get her off frequently;…"
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"What have you done to address the problem? Besides whining. Besides pathetically begging. Besides just dropping-trou and saying "how 'bout it?".
There are things you can do to make her more willing. Frankly, job one is making sure…"