hi there,recently I found someone who I admire as a father figure in my life. As far as I can tell he's maybe aware of it because he treats me a little bit differently from the others at work, more…Continue
"He may not be aware of how you think of him, he is aware that he likes you and has taken you under his wing so-to-speak. I wouldn't bring it up as it may embarass him and end what you seem to enjoy about your work relationship. I…"
"Personally, I would not discuss it. I see no point in bringing it up. If you do, there's a good chance he may back away, which I assume you don't want him to do. Just be cool and allow him to decide what to do while…"
hi there,recently I found someone who I admire as a father figure in my life. As far as I can tell he's maybe aware of it because he treats me a little bit differently from the others at work, more on a fairly subtle personal note. It's hard for me to describe it because he's pretty much a straight poker face in everything he says or does if he really wants to. On the other hand, for some reasons, it feels from time to time like he wants to teach me something and cares for me when we're…See More
"Tom, I know how you're feeling man, I do. I actually had a post up in this sub-forum, but took it down due to reasons I won't discuss. But I know how it feels to feel like you've found that one girl you want to spend your life with.…"
"Its clear she's not marriage material at this point. She's volatile. She's untrustworthy. Not a good combination. So, you have two options -- you can rip off the bandaid quickly, or slowly. Barring a…"
"Yeah I read the replies on the original thread too. The advice seems pretty clear.
Ok, so with that said, I have to ask, and get a little sentimental for a moment, and perhaps sound a little sensitive. How the F do I make the conscious decision to…"