"I had a long distance relationship. We lived about 3.5 hours away and only saw each other perhaps once a month. She was finishing undergrad and I was in graduate school. We did that for two years until I moved closer to her.…"
"I met a police officer with a master's degree in psychology. Of course it is doable. There is a lot of opportunity in law enforcement for someone with your credentials and academic success. However, you have to fit the police…"
"I am forced to get a flu shot every season because I work in a healthcare environment and the administration decided I need one because in theory it will reduce risk to patients. I probably wouldn't get one otherwise.
"That's valid, I'm not a fan of our government either. Also consider some of the other areas of the military such as coast guard, navy and air force. An old friend swore that the coast guard changed his life for the better.…"
"It is good that you recognize this at this point. You are still young. It is hard to change your habits though, I would suggest just picking one thing to do at a time. Follow the rest of the advice here.
Have you ever considered…"
"I've been there my man. In my case jealously was never a trust issue, but it had to do with insecurity. Pretty much exactly what Claude said.
First, never act out of jealousy. Bad idea. But doing nothing is really tough.…"
"Speaking as someone from the medical field I can tell you that a huge part of what physicians do is cure worry. Many people who get annual physicals don't necessarily get them because they think something is wrong, they get them because…"
"I'm going to depart from what a few people said.
I think you've done enough. Anything more and you will cross over into the desperate category. Maybe you are desperate, I certainly have been, but acting out of desperation…"
"Unless you're talking about fighting for sport, which I don't think you are, you want to avoid the ground at all cost.
Say your fighting in a bar and someone gets you on the ground. It's over. Everyone has friends in bars and you will…"
"I'm going to echo what everyone else has said because I think it is important.
1. Get a lawyer
2. Get a divorce
3. Get the kids
You don't need me to tell you that your life with her is only miserable. You need to do what is best for you…"
""Who said anything about sins and repenting?"
I did, because it seems to be a concept outside of your own psychological oddities. You can correct me if I'm wrong, but I have the impression that what you're objecting to…"
"So yes you will have trouble finding a girl with those values in the world we live in . so you change your values or you have trouble , that's your choices."
Who is one as a man who adjusts his values simply to not be…"
""A self-righteous prig like you doesn't deserve a woman who has honestly sinned and repented. "
Who said anything about sins and repenting? The fact that you quickly resort to name-calling like this in a *discussion*…"
"I generally agree.
OP, from what you wrote, it seems like you have an objection to any woman who has "had sex outside of a loving relationship," regardless of whether this is something from years ago that she now regrets or something she…"
"With interest rates so low, consider putting a good chunk of that $10k into very safe securities, usually government bonds. Also, consider whether you need a whole 6-month emergency fund as an Australian. The…"