Thank you so much for your comment of encouragement and wisdom. I took a couple of days off from AoM to put all the comments in perspective, and I decided to close the discussion. I will actually soon send a message to some of you to…"
"Stay strong my friend. I went through a veritable nightmare of a divorce a few years ago, lawyers financially destroyed me, but I didn't lose the most important things in my life, my kids. Life as a single father is difficult. Don't even…"
"As your emotions go up and down, Dario, there'll be times when that "devil's advocate" advice echoes in your mind. Do you want that to happen? It's going to be tough enough as it is. You might consider…"
":D That's a good one! :D
Ok, then: let's become millionaires.
Step 1) Go through her private messages
Step 2) Find her communication with someone she would for sure tell whether she had sex or not
Step 3) Look until you find a message when…"
"Dear Ken (if I may),
First of all, let me say that - while reading the comments to your post - I was positively surprised to learn that you are only 20. I'm a university professor, so I deal exactly with people of your age, and I can tell you…"
Stay strong my friend. I went through a veritable nightmare of a divorce a few years ago, lawyers financially destroyed me, but I didn't lose the most important things in my life, my kids. Life as a single father is difficult. Don't even think about divorce proceedings unless you're very serious. Things may be retrievable at this stage. No marriage is perfect and couples do work things out after worse things than this. Use rational thought and less emotion, difficult to do, but essential in my opinion. I sincerely hope that things work out well for you, John
As your emotions go up and down, Dario, there'll be times when that "devil's advocate" advice echoes in your mind. Do you want that to happen? It's going to be tough enough as it is. You might consider whether continuing to read words like "It's over" and "She's banging him" is going to be good for you (!). Just a thought. (I put this here because I'm not trying to start a fight on that thread, but I still wanted to say this.)
"First, you need to know that dating is NOT about "winning" the other person. It's not about you doing what you can to "get" the other person. It's not about trying to get them to date you. It's CERTAINLY not about…"
I just figured we needed a thread to discuss how awesome vintage suits are.I just got lucky the other day and ordered a vintage 1950's suit from Hallaballoo... I mean Ballyhoo. It fits me perfectly, as if it was tailored for me. I plan to get the sleeves slightly adjusted when I have time to take it to a tailor, but other than that it fits perfectly. I plan to wear it with a black fedora that I have, and obviously with a dress shirt and a tie.…See More
I have a date tomorrow night with a girl I met online. While this may sound like great news and the answer to lifelong joy, I want to make sure that this leads to a second date, and that I don't make a "death move" to end all chances of seeing her again. This is the early cultivation phase of a relationship, the kind of relationship I have been praying for , that leads to romantic love, marriage and procreation. All of my experience with the few dating I have has been unsuccessfulSo, at this…See More