Thank you so much for your comment of encouragement and wisdom. I took a couple of days off from AoM to put all the comments in perspective, and I decided to close the discussion. I will actually soon send a message to some of you to…"
"Stay strong my friend. I went through a veritable nightmare of a divorce a few years ago, lawyers financially destroyed me, but I didn't lose the most important things in my life, my kids. Life as a single father is difficult. Don't even…"
"As your emotions go up and down, Dario, there'll be times when that "devil's advocate" advice echoes in your mind. Do you want that to happen? It's going to be tough enough as it is. You might consider…"
":D That's a good one! :D
Ok, then: let's become millionaires.
Step 1) Go through her private messages
Step 2) Find her communication with someone she would for sure tell whether she had sex or not
Step 3) Look until you find a message when…"
"Dear Ken (if I may),
First of all, let me say that - while reading the comments to your post - I was positively surprised to learn that you are only 20. I'm a university professor, so I deal exactly with people of your age, and I can tell you…"
Stay strong my friend. I went through a veritable nightmare of a divorce a few years ago, lawyers financially destroyed me, but I didn't lose the most important things in my life, my kids. Life as a single father is difficult. Don't even think about divorce proceedings unless you're very serious. Things may be retrievable at this stage. No marriage is perfect and couples do work things out after worse things than this. Use rational thought and less emotion, difficult to do, but essential in my opinion. I sincerely hope that things work out well for you, John
As your emotions go up and down, Dario, there'll be times when that "devil's advocate" advice echoes in your mind. Do you want that to happen? It's going to be tough enough as it is. You might consider whether continuing to read words like "It's over" and "She's banging him" is going to be good for you (!). Just a thought. (I put this here because I'm not trying to start a fight on that thread, but I still wanted to say this.)
"My logic is that if you're offended by that, you're easily offended.
You ought to look up "ironic". Irony is being offended by somebody thinking you're easily offended. It isn't being disappointed by…"
"There might be a better word than "flatulent".Notice how "oink (oi)" refers to a pig snorting for example.(On the same note an actual pig oinking doesn't particularly sound like the word "oink however)."
"You lost me early, and it got worse from there. Not sure I followed well enough to fully respond.
Women aren't too weak to hear bad language. People who think women aren't too weak to hear bad language aren't weak --…"
"But, I was answering to your strange notion that certain sounds (phonemes (not directly related to body processes) have certain meanings that cross cultures. They don't.
That's an assertion but most evidence I've seen makes me…"
"Your logic makes my head hurt. If you claim that woman isn't weak, you are displaying that you are sensitive and weak, therefor you are proving that in fact women are weak and can't be cussed around because they got offended/sensitive…"