Thank you so much for your comment of encouragement and wisdom. I took a couple of days off from AoM to put all the comments in perspective, and I decided to close the discussion. I will actually soon send a message to some of you to…"
"Stay strong my friend. I went through a veritable nightmare of a divorce a few years ago, lawyers financially destroyed me, but I didn't lose the most important things in my life, my kids. Life as a single father is difficult. Don't even…"
"As your emotions go up and down, Dario, there'll be times when that "devil's advocate" advice echoes in your mind. Do you want that to happen? It's going to be tough enough as it is. You might consider…"
":D That's a good one! :D
Ok, then: let's become millionaires.
Step 1) Go through her private messages
Step 2) Find her communication with someone she would for sure tell whether she had sex or not
Step 3) Look until you find a message when…"
"Dear Ken (if I may),
First of all, let me say that - while reading the comments to your post - I was positively surprised to learn that you are only 20. I'm a university professor, so I deal exactly with people of your age, and I can tell you…"
Stay strong my friend. I went through a veritable nightmare of a divorce a few years ago, lawyers financially destroyed me, but I didn't lose the most important things in my life, my kids. Life as a single father is difficult. Don't even think about divorce proceedings unless you're very serious. Things may be retrievable at this stage. No marriage is perfect and couples do work things out after worse things than this. Use rational thought and less emotion, difficult to do, but essential in my opinion. I sincerely hope that things work out well for you, John
As your emotions go up and down, Dario, there'll be times when that "devil's advocate" advice echoes in your mind. Do you want that to happen? It's going to be tough enough as it is. You might consider whether continuing to read words like "It's over" and "She's banging him" is going to be good for you (!). Just a thought. (I put this here because I'm not trying to start a fight on that thread, but I still wanted to say this.)
"Sounds like, well, the implications of having a sexual relationship with purtty much anyone regardless of age.
What you just described was not the emotional and psychological issues of a 15 year old boy with a grown woman. What you just described…"
"Part of the problem is the assumption that not-fat people are healthy (and exercise and watch their diet) while fat people are unhealthy (they do not exercise or watch their diet). These are gross exaggerations. (For example, i am a fat…"
I was just wondering if any of y'all plan on contributing or doing anything for Movember this year? As you all (should probably) know Movember is a cause/movement where men grow mustaches for the month of November to raise awareness for mens health concerns and problems. It's a good cause and I am just wondering what you normally do? Last year I grew a mustache. I tried to find a picture but I guess I didn't take any. Feel free to share your mustache pictures from the past or for this year…See More
"I worked for years at a mental health agency that specialized in the treatment of survivors of sexual abuse. I'm just going to talk about cases of boys in their mid-teens who were willing sexual participants with much older…"
"I am over it. One of the main non-sexual issues it left for me (and for other boys molested by males) is the difficulty in trusting men -- when most of your bosses are men, that can be a big issue. Usually it takes a guy to reach his 30s…"