Thank you so much for your comment of encouragement and wisdom. I took a couple of days off from AoM to put all the comments in perspective, and I decided to close the discussion. I will actually soon send a message to some of you to…"
"Stay strong my friend. I went through a veritable nightmare of a divorce a few years ago, lawyers financially destroyed me, but I didn't lose the most important things in my life, my kids. Life as a single father is difficult. Don't even…"
"As your emotions go up and down, Dario, there'll be times when that "devil's advocate" advice echoes in your mind. Do you want that to happen? It's going to be tough enough as it is. You might consider…"
":D That's a good one! :D
Ok, then: let's become millionaires.
Step 1) Go through her private messages
Step 2) Find her communication with someone she would for sure tell whether she had sex or not
Step 3) Look until you find a message when…"
"Dear Ken (if I may),
First of all, let me say that - while reading the comments to your post - I was positively surprised to learn that you are only 20. I'm a university professor, so I deal exactly with people of your age, and I can tell you…"
Stay strong my friend. I went through a veritable nightmare of a divorce a few years ago, lawyers financially destroyed me, but I didn't lose the most important things in my life, my kids. Life as a single father is difficult. Don't even think about divorce proceedings unless you're very serious. Things may be retrievable at this stage. No marriage is perfect and couples do work things out after worse things than this. Use rational thought and less emotion, difficult to do, but essential in my opinion. I sincerely hope that things work out well for you, John
As your emotions go up and down, Dario, there'll be times when that "devil's advocate" advice echoes in your mind. Do you want that to happen? It's going to be tough enough as it is. You might consider whether continuing to read words like "It's over" and "She's banging him" is going to be good for you (!). Just a thought. (I put this here because I'm not trying to start a fight on that thread, but I still wanted to say this.)
"That wasn't really the system last year. People were allowed to use the restroom of whatever sex they looked like ... not of whatever they were 'comfortable with'. It was more about what others were comfortable with. …"
"A tyranny of the majority actually is better than a tyranny of the minority. No tyranny at all would be preferable ... but, with a tyranny of the majority, at least most people are on board. With a tyranny of the minority, most people…"
"This is exactly what I don't get. Did I miss something major in the news over the last year or something? I don't understand why all of a sudden what bathroom Transgender individuals use is all of a sudden an issue. Has…"
"If that's not a defense of the status quo, what would be? What can people who don't want men to be allowed in the ladies' room do to keep that status quo? How would you write the 'status quo' into a written rule…"
"Thanks great points. I should have said the reason I know my son has a 60% shot at learning disabilities is because I have them, Dyslexia and ADD. So we are looking for them but also trying not to jump to the idea that he does have it.…"