Thank you so much for your comment of encouragement and wisdom. I took a couple of days off from AoM to put all the comments in perspective, and I decided to close the discussion. I will actually soon send a message to some of you to…"
"Stay strong my friend. I went through a veritable nightmare of a divorce a few years ago, lawyers financially destroyed me, but I didn't lose the most important things in my life, my kids. Life as a single father is difficult. Don't even…"
You're right, and of course I did read between the lines of your public comment. I know perfectly who you were referring to. Of course, I'm aware that I will have to take decisions by myself, and when that happens, I have to be…"
"As your emotions go up and down, Dario, there'll be times when that "devil's advocate" advice echoes in your mind. Do you want that to happen? It's going to be tough enough as it is. You might consider…"
":D That's a good one! :D
Ok, then: let's become millionaires.
Step 1) Go through her private messages
Step 2) Find her communication with someone she would for sure tell whether she had sex or not
Step 3) Look until you find a message when…"
"Dear Ken (if I may),
First of all, let me say that - while reading the comments to your post - I was positively surprised to learn that you are only 20. I'm a university professor, so I deal exactly with people of your age, and I can tell you…"
Stay strong my friend. I went through a veritable nightmare of a divorce a few years ago, lawyers financially destroyed me, but I didn't lose the most important things in my life, my kids. Life as a single father is difficult. Don't even think about divorce proceedings unless you're very serious. Things may be retrievable at this stage. No marriage is perfect and couples do work things out after worse things than this. Use rational thought and less emotion, difficult to do, but essential in my opinion. I sincerely hope that things work out well for you, John
As your emotions go up and down, Dario, there'll be times when that "devil's advocate" advice echoes in your mind. Do you want that to happen? It's going to be tough enough as it is. You might consider whether continuing to read words like "It's over" and "She's banging him" is going to be good for you (!). Just a thought. (I put this here because I'm not trying to start a fight on that thread, but I still wanted to say this.)
"Vytautas, I also dislike generalities that say boys and one way and girls another. What was important to me was how many/most girls deal with problems, compared to how many/most boys deal with problems. (I understand generalities being…"
"Route 1: Then why do you use technology? God presumably made Nature without naturally occurring refrigerators, eyeglasses, air conditioners, combustion engines, and toilet paper. Did God make a mistake? Everything touched by…"
"Does a dog have Buddha-nature? Don't know. But when you give your view on it, you lose your own Buddha-nature. (A Zen koan.)
Does somebody who says things you don't like have manly nature? Don't know. But…"
"It also only works among friends... if you aren't in my circle of friends (not just someone I talk to from time to time), I couldn't give a shit less how much you like the girl. If you are in my circle and violate that, I get to hit you in…"