I've known gay guys who were slobs, dressed horribly and brutish in manner, and very girly guys who were downright straight perverts when you got to know them.
There are lots who fit the stereotypes as well, enough to generate it…"
"That's the other thing. I'm a teacher. I love teaching because its never dull and faces change, but I get enough time with kids at work. Definitely don't want to come home to them. I used to be a journalist,…"
"They can be manly if they can take rejection without trying to push the issue or 'lead into a situation'. There are gay assholes (no pun intended but whatever) who won't take no for an answer and keep trying to 'turn'…"