Hi,I found this site only a few days ago as I was searching on google for tips on how to handle a break up as a man. Some of the articles and especially the comments of yours have been extremely…Continue
"Csaba, I have just broken up with my girlfriend (after 17 months) and this post and the replies are giving me lots of things to think over. I too am working out more, eating healthier and working on myself a lot more. I am also putting a lot of time…"
"Report after a year - I apologize for bringing back such an old thread.
Of course, the 3 week break meant the end of our relationship. She told me plainly that she wasn't in love with me anymore. It hurt like hell, but I was a man - and…"
"Actually, my motto is the last verse of the poem Invictus written by William Ernest Henley. It has inspired me so much that I got it tattooed on my arm.
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the…"
"Well, it's a bit different story. People get angry from time to time - it's absolutely a normal thing. However guys like the OP or me have something that's abnormal. These outbursts of anger are extremely destructive and you need all…"
"Sorry for bringing up this topic, but I have exactly the same problem. It ruined my last relationship with a wonderful woman who I still love by all my heart. Had I started working on the issue earlier, we might be still together. Anyway, there are…"
"Let it go...time to do what is best for you. She has sent you mixed messages, a friend of hers is involved. Says she is moving away. It is getting messy up in here. She wants it both ways and is perhaps playing with you until…"
"In short, it's time to move on.
There really is nothing to be gained by gestures or hoping to draw it out or change her mind (bar more disappointment), just let it go (easier said than done, I know, but that is life).
Chances are, you…"
"Um...first off, my anti-gun for self defense friend...ironic avatar you got there considering your argument. Which I shall now dismantle.
Actually, the saying goes: "Don't bring a knife to a gun fight." So there goes the first part…"
"I think that there's some truth to the essay, but I think that overthinking ways to reform that aspect of things can exacerbate that very problem. Trying to contrive artificial ways to get people to bond is exactly the kind of thing that…"