Hi,I found this site only a few days ago as I was searching on google for tips on how to handle a break up as a man. Some of the articles and especially the comments of yours have been extremely…Continue
"Csaba, I have just broken up with my girlfriend (after 17 months) and this post and the replies are giving me lots of things to think over. I too am working out more, eating healthier and working on myself a lot more. I am also putting a lot of time…"
"Report after a year - I apologize for bringing back such an old thread.
Of course, the 3 week break meant the end of our relationship. She told me plainly that she wasn't in love with me anymore. It hurt like hell, but I was a man - and…"
"Well, it's a bit different story. People get angry from time to time - it's absolutely a normal thing. However guys like the OP or me have something that's abnormal. These outbursts of anger are extremely destructive and you need all…"
"Sorry for bringing up this topic, but I have exactly the same problem. It ruined my last relationship with a wonderful woman who I still love by all my heart. Had I started working on the issue earlier, we might be still together. Anyway, there are…"
"if you really care about this girl i wouldn't really advise the whole 'well fine you want a break don't ever talk to me again'. As yes she may be using these 3 weeks to meet other guys and perhaps engage in more than just…"
"I think you're too hard on yourself. That said, I think you're going through what every man does after a break-up. I think that if you have recognized an issue with your behavior that bothers you, that can be a good thing as…"
"I've made friendships with at least 3 pastors. I consider it my gift - befriending pastors. :) But, you are dead on. It's hard. Most either share too much or too little for the exact reasons you described.…"
"What's ery intersting about this thread is how the procrastinating OP has managed to involve the well-intentioned AoM community in enabling his procrastination.
To the OP: You need to drop all the social media stuff for a while. If…"
"While I am not in full-time ministry I am a minister and can relate to your position to some degree.
Ministry can be a long and lonely road to begin with. People expect a lot out of you. People often times want more than you can give and they…"