Hi,I found this site only a few days ago as I was searching on google for tips on how to handle a break up as a man. Some of the articles and especially the comments of yours have been extremely…Continue
"Csaba, I have just broken up with my girlfriend (after 17 months) and this post and the replies are giving me lots of things to think over. I too am working out more, eating healthier and working on myself a lot more. I am also putting a lot of time…"
"Report after a year - I apologize for bringing back such an old thread.
Of course, the 3 week break meant the end of our relationship. She told me plainly that she wasn't in love with me anymore. It hurt like hell, but I was a man - and…"
"Well, it's a bit different story. People get angry from time to time - it's absolutely a normal thing. However guys like the OP or me have something that's abnormal. These outbursts of anger are extremely destructive and you need all…"
"Sorry for bringing up this topic, but I have exactly the same problem. It ruined my last relationship with a wonderful woman who I still love by all my heart. Had I started working on the issue earlier, we might be still together. Anyway, there are…"
"if you really care about this girl i wouldn't really advise the whole 'well fine you want a break don't ever talk to me again'. As yes she may be using these 3 weeks to meet other guys and perhaps engage in more than just…"
"I think you're too hard on yourself. That said, I think you're going through what every man does after a break-up. I think that if you have recognized an issue with your behavior that bothers you, that can be a good thing as…"
"I know the subdivisions well-enough. The more radical second-wavers and third-wavers have pretty much taken over the dialogue, and poisoned the term 'feminist'. Most everybody believes in equality -- political, social,…"
"Agreed. There is lots of terminology but little concensus on said terminology.
And the closest comparison I can find to illustrate angry militant feminist VS person who believes in women's rights is straight edge VS teetotaller. "
"There are also normal men who believe in women's rights, and they also are called "feminists." There are some sub-divisions (eg, first, second, and third-wave; choice feminism). But they're poorly known/understood,…"
""Arguing with crazy people usually isn't worth it, unless you're just in it for the laughs, or there's an audience that might be swayed."
That's what it boils down to. There are crazy feminists and then there are…"