Hi,I found this site only a few days ago as I was searching on google for tips on how to handle a break up as a man. Some of the articles and especially the comments of yours have been extremely…Continue
"Csaba, I have just broken up with my girlfriend (after 17 months) and this post and the replies are giving me lots of things to think over. I too am working out more, eating healthier and working on myself a lot more. I am also putting a lot of time…"
"Report after a year - I apologize for bringing back such an old thread.
Of course, the 3 week break meant the end of our relationship. She told me plainly that she wasn't in love with me anymore. It hurt like hell, but I was a man - and…"
"Well, it's a bit different story. People get angry from time to time - it's absolutely a normal thing. However guys like the OP or me have something that's abnormal. These outbursts of anger are extremely destructive and you need all…"
"Sorry for bringing up this topic, but I have exactly the same problem. It ruined my last relationship with a wonderful woman who I still love by all my heart. Had I started working on the issue earlier, we might be still together. Anyway, there are…"
"if you really care about this girl i wouldn't really advise the whole 'well fine you want a break don't ever talk to me again'. As yes she may be using these 3 weeks to meet other guys and perhaps engage in more than just…"
"I think you're too hard on yourself. That said, I think you're going through what every man does after a break-up. I think that if you have recognized an issue with your behavior that bothers you, that can be a good thing as…"
"Not "other people". "ALL other people". ALL who have EVER lived. Not one single exception. 108,000,000,000 people have lived. ZER0 have not died. Subtract the 7,000,000,000 currently alive if you like. 101,000,000,000 to 0.
"It does, but reality happens every second of every day. Why assume that perfection is not possible? You have that idea in your mind but you do not question it. You have only one life to live, why can't it be in paradise? If not now, then make…"
Hi all,Have been thinking of relationships recently and as I didn't grow up with happily married parents I didn't have a good role model to understand what they are about.But a theory I have is that a relationship is not so much about the person you are together with, it's more about having a commitment to the relationship itself. So it doesn't matter so much whether your wife annoys you or pleases you, whatever happens you are committed to the idea of being togeher and forming this…See More
"I see some readers would like a shorter version. Okay, to summarize, basically if you could create your own paradise, what would it be like? And, do you genuinely think you know yourself well enough to know what that paradise really would…"
"Your argument collapses if I never die though right? And since, I have never before been dead, why should I assume that I will? Just because other people have? I am my own individual, all that is, exist because I have perceived it to…"
"Thank you sir. I do strive to be original. Frankly, many of the posts I have read seem rather mundane and petty, some of them. I think it is important to question one's sense of reality, as it can lead to greater insight into what this all…"