"You'll figure it out and you'll be fine. I was involved in both my both's births which was cool and frightening at the same time.
And as for bonding, well there are early opportunities. Letting her sleep on your chest, or just…"
"On the flip side I am not a heavy caffeine drinker (one to two cups a day) by any means but noticed a massive difference.
- felt more awake and refreshed with none
- the need to drink it went away
- overall just felt good once the withdrawal went…"
"Well first of all I don't really see the general daily need of say a pocket knife in the theme park. What could possibly need cutting so urgently. Wallet? Yeah sure. Keys? Uh huh. Even lip balm if you are chronically dehydrated. 9mm? My…"
"Can somebody explain the pocket knife situation?
I like pocket knives. I in fact have that Opinel pictured above.
But I'd not take it to work, or when i drop the kids off at school, or to get groceries or to my soccer game. In fact in some of…"
"You're coming on too strong at stage 4 and communicate too much. Everything is out there, and there is no challenge left.
At stage 4, you let her message you. Or don't message at all. I know it sounds weird. Just try it. You need PATIENCE…"
"Join a team. I do soccer and you have a greater degree of accountability to the rest of the team to show up.
I do weights (body weight stuff and mace training that Brett posted here) in the garage after kids are in bed each night.
And I run on…"
"I am one of those that Paul mentions as having "The Gift of Singleness." It was never my intention to be single for as long as I have. Most of the women I've dated have been dissatisfied with aspects of who I am. So instead of…"
"Seem dead may actually be damn alive and kicking but you cannot and will not see it. My wife and I have a had an argument in front of friends and they ever realized it. Its the subtle things that carry allot of weight in some…"
"There probably was a better word to use ... mostly, because it's not gay. Disfavored epithets have their moments, but it ought to make sense.
If you're going to use politically incorrect terms like that, just own it. …"
"My guess would be that you're vastly overestimating ... and, you're probably not as attuned to marital health as you think you are. You're not married; you probably don't know as much as you think you do.