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Describe Your Ideal America

Started this discussion. Last reply by James B Mar 3. 24 Replies

I have an image of an ideal America in my mind. In my imagination, it is an awesome and great place to be. I believe in an America that is filled with opportunities and potential adventure, cool…Continue

How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated

Started this discussion. Last reply by J. D. Feb 8. 29 Replies

I was wondering if you fellas had some suggestions on this subject. As men, and I am sure most if not all of you have felt this at some point as I have, we are often underappreciated. Sometimes it…Continue

How to Become Godlike

Started this discussion. Last reply by Hesse Jun 26, 2016. 48 Replies

So I was wondering if you guys had some suggestions on how a man can be more "godlike". You know that old saying, "imitate Jesus", and the old question you are supposed to ask yourself when faced…Continue

The Anti-Christ

Started this discussion. Last reply by Liam Strain Oct 15, 2015. 26 Replies

Okay, I am referring mainly to the Christian theology here, but with some added reference to pop culture, regarding the concept of the Anti-Christ. Have you guys ever seen "The Stand" mini-series for…Continue

 

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James B replied to Chu Kim's discussion Describe Your Ideal America
"Your ideal America can be found in a comic book store; where the boys are."
Mar 3
J. D. replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"Chu Kim, I hope you're at least man enough to still be following this discussion and heeding the advice you're being given.  I agree with the general sentiment here that you're struggling with some humility and wrongful-judgement…"
Feb 8
King of the Dudes replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"So with all this superiority, what do you think, where's the catch that your not appreciated."
Feb 6
King of the Dudes replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"This is exactly what it is. But I think this debate is just a distraction from real problem he has."
Feb 6
Sir replied to Chu Kim's discussion Describe Your Ideal America
"We discussed it last night. My sense was that the divisive election is over, TGD is comparatively well-behaved now, and survey said put it on the feed, so we're giving it a try. In my view, politics is emphatically not what AoM is about. But if…"
Feb 6
Liam Strain replied to Chu Kim's discussion Describe Your Ideal America
"It should be noted that the decision to restore the board to the recent activity feed was made in advance of, and independent of this post. Though certainly the feelings of the community in general were taken into consideration in the decision. "
Feb 6
Lumberjoe replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"Reminds me of: (Chris Rock's use of the "n word" doesn't refer to all black men; it refers to black men who are low performers in life and/or who expect recognition for things most men take for granted.) "
Feb 6
Todd McFarland replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"The Bible is full of wisdom on humility."
Feb 5
Sir replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"If you're looking for validation, deciding not to likely won't work.   A better solution:  if you're hungry, eat.  Satisfy hunger, don't deny it. The way you're working to satisfy your hunger now -- comparing…"
Feb 5
Steve replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr Robert Glover. "
Feb 5
Alex Kameno replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"Telling someone to 'MAN UP' doesn't really solve the problem. Dude obviously has some self esteem issues. These won't disappear overnight. It's a process that can be a long one for most. Be a 'human' first before…"
Feb 5
Todd McFarland replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"Dude, seriously. As long as you are looking "out there" for validation as a man, you are not man.  Validation comes from within.  You know what you are.  Do not depend on others to recognize it. That said, if you live your…"
Feb 5
Sir replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"I don't know why this is striking me as so funny. I guess I'm picturing that trophy. WHERE'S MY TROPHY?!"
Feb 5
Liam Strain replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"You work hard, live and honest life, and handle your responsibilities? Great. But the world doesn't owe you anything. Not recognized to the extend we should be? What are you basing your expectations on? Do you want a trophy for doing your…"
Feb 4
James White replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"By any chance did you actually stop and read this before you sent it? Maybe try it out loud next time and listen to yourself. I don't want to be insulting but the only thing that comes to mind as I read this is that you need to Man Up and Stop…"
Feb 4
Sir replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"But... it's so hard!"
Feb 4

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Dominic replied to Pale Horse's discussion Our Current Western Zeitgeist in the group The Great Debate
"That's not an inappropriate interpretation. Your OP seems to smile on a time when gays faced physical violence as opposed to now, when you assert (erroneously) that there are laws against "stating your opinion on it.""
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Dominic replied to Pale Horse's discussion Our Current Western Zeitgeist in the group The Great Debate
"There are no laws against "stating your opinion on" homosexuality. In fact, the SCOTUS just ruled that hateful speech is still protected by the 1st Amendment. Cui bono? Everyone benefits from a more equal and equitable society that…"
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David Arbogast replied to Salt Dragon's discussion Saunas and work culture in the group Banya Men!
"Actually, I would like to see myself as I was on the day I was born.  The only thing that is said to improve with age is wine."
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Liam Strain replied to Pale Horse's discussion Our Current Western Zeitgeist in the group The Great Debate
"I don't know any laws about "stating your opinion" - unless your opinion can only be stated in a way that is considered hate speech, and even then it gets murky. By comparison - there were very many laws about homosexuality and…"
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Liam Strain replied to Pale Horse's discussion Our Current Western Zeitgeist in the group The Great Debate
"That gets to the general notion that there is no such thing as actual altruism anyway. If the end result is the same, I'm not opposed to them getting something out of it. "
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Liam Strain replied to Liam Strain's discussion June 27, 2017 - Chat not functioning
"Unlikely - given the nature and type of the hacks (ransomware), but I certainly don't know that for sure. This seems more a technical glitch, since the rest of the site works, and would be sent from the same servers. "
2 hours ago
David R. replied to Liam Strain's discussion June 27, 2017 - Chat not functioning
"I wonder if it could possibly be connected in some way to the international hacking that was talked about on today's news.  (Just a thought.)"
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Pale Horse replied to Pale Horse's discussion Our Current Western Zeitgeist in the group The Great Debate
"Seriously?"
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