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Describe Your Ideal America

Started this discussion. Last reply by Vendetta Feb 6. 23 Replies

I have an image of an ideal America in my mind. In my imagination, it is an awesome and great place to be. I believe in an America that is filled with opportunities and potential adventure, cool…Continue

How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated

Started this discussion. Last reply by J. D. Feb 8. 29 Replies

I was wondering if you fellas had some suggestions on this subject. As men, and I am sure most if not all of you have felt this at some point as I have, we are often underappreciated. Sometimes it…Continue

How to Become Godlike

Started this discussion. Last reply by Hesse Jun 26, 2016. 48 Replies

So I was wondering if you guys had some suggestions on how a man can be more "godlike". You know that old saying, "imitate Jesus", and the old question you are supposed to ask yourself when faced…Continue

The Anti-Christ

Started this discussion. Last reply by Liam Strain Oct 15, 2015. 26 Replies

Okay, I am referring mainly to the Christian theology here, but with some added reference to pop culture, regarding the concept of the Anti-Christ. Have you guys ever seen "The Stand" mini-series for…Continue

 

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J. D. replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"Chu Kim, I hope you're at least man enough to still be following this discussion and heeding the advice you're being given.  I agree with the general sentiment here that you're struggling with some humility and wrongful-judgement…"
Feb 8
King of the Dudes replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"So with all this superiority, what do you think, where's the catch that your not appreciated."
Feb 6
King of the Dudes replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"This is exactly what it is. But I think this debate is just a distraction from real problem he has."
Feb 6
Vendetta replied to Chu Kim's discussion Describe Your Ideal America
"This is excellent. Thanks.I'll do my part to keep it civil."
Feb 6
Sir replied to Chu Kim's discussion Describe Your Ideal America
"We discussed it last night. My sense was that the divisive election is over, TGD is comparatively well-behaved now, and survey said put it on the feed, so we're giving it a try. In my view, politics is emphatically not what AoM is about. But if…"
Feb 6
Liam Strain replied to Chu Kim's discussion Describe Your Ideal America
"It should be noted that the decision to restore the board to the recent activity feed was made in advance of, and independent of this post. Though certainly the feelings of the community in general were taken into consideration in the decision. "
Feb 6
Lumberjoe replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"Reminds me of: (Chris Rock's use of the "n word" doesn't refer to all black men; it refers to black men who are low performers in life and/or who expect recognition for things most men take for granted.) "
Feb 6
Vendetta replied to Chu Kim's discussion Describe Your Ideal America
"God forbid the mods even entertain the idea of putting it back up.So much for "its up for discussion". I and several other people have brought this up to them probably dozens of times without so much as a response.Anyone with a lick of…"
Feb 6
Todd McFarland replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"The Bible is full of wisdom on humility."
Feb 5
Sir replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"If you're looking for validation, deciding not to likely won't work.   A better solution:  if you're hungry, eat.  Satisfy hunger, don't deny it. The way you're working to satisfy your hunger now -- comparing…"
Feb 5
Steve replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr Robert Glover. "
Feb 5
Alex Kameno replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"Telling someone to 'MAN UP' doesn't really solve the problem. Dude obviously has some self esteem issues. These won't disappear overnight. It's a process that can be a long one for most. Be a 'human' first before…"
Feb 5
Todd McFarland replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"Dude, seriously. As long as you are looking "out there" for validation as a man, you are not man.  Validation comes from within.  You know what you are.  Do not depend on others to recognize it. That said, if you live your…"
Feb 5
Sir replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"I don't know why this is striking me as so funny. I guess I'm picturing that trophy. WHERE'S MY TROPHY?!"
Feb 5
Liam Strain replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"You work hard, live and honest life, and handle your responsibilities? Great. But the world doesn't owe you anything. Not recognized to the extend we should be? What are you basing your expectations on? Do you want a trophy for doing your…"
Feb 4
James White replied to Chu Kim's discussion How to Deal with Not Being Appreciated
"By any chance did you actually stop and read this before you sent it? Maybe try it out loud next time and listen to yourself. I don't want to be insulting but the only thing that comes to mind as I read this is that you need to Man Up and Stop…"
Feb 4

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The Cost Disease

[I]n the past fifty years, education costs have doubled, college costs have dectupled, health insurance costs have dectupled, subway costs have at least dectupled, and housing costs have increased by about fifty percent. US health care costs about four times as much as equivalent health care in other First World countries; US subways cost about eight times as much as equivalent subways in other First World countries...[A]ll of the numbers above are inflation-adjusted....And this is especially…See More
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Sir replied to David R.'s discussion "Iron sharpens iron" in the group The Great Debate
""Jewish person": one modern wordsmithing technique is to emphasize the person not the grouping. Jewish person, not Jew; person with Down syndrome, not Mongoloid; child with special needs, not cripple (ack). It's hard for me to see a…"
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Pale Horse replied to David R.'s discussion "Iron sharpens iron" in the group The Great Debate
"Yeah I understand it, just wanted to point out that semantic shifts have happened with the Jewish race as well. Also, it's probably more justified than the other shifts for the reasons you mentioned, except for maybe the word negro."
4 hours ago
Liam Strain replied to David R.'s discussion "Iron sharpens iron" in the group The Great Debate
"And that's totally understandable. But that doesn't mean you may not be subject to social repercussions, even if misguided. Buck the system all you want, but it is much more likely to hurt you, than the system. I choose to pick my battles…"
6 hours ago
Liam Strain replied to David R.'s discussion "Iron sharpens iron" in the group The Great Debate
"It has to do with how it is used.  A non-jewish person saying "Oh, you know Peter, he's a real Jew..." often carries some negative connotations. The way the term has been used by some, nearly puts in in a pejorative category -…"
6 hours ago
Pale Horse replied to David R.'s discussion "Iron sharpens iron" in the group The Great Debate
"That's true, but I do think it's noteworthy that some people get their feathers ruffled when you say "Jew," the noun. Now it's "Jewish person.""
7 hours ago
Pale Horse replied to David R.'s discussion "Iron sharpens iron" in the group The Great Debate
"Censoring, in some cases, is a strong word. But it is a strong word when it applies to political correctness as well. At the least, those fixated on being PC will shut you out or label you for using the word that isn't "in," or…"
7 hours ago
Liam Strain replied to David R.'s discussion "Iron sharpens iron" in the group The Great Debate
""if there needs to be a change, the leaders of the change should be members of the group. For self-appointed guardians to decide for other ethnicities what they should be offended by seems pretty demeaning."Of course. By the same token,…"
10 hours ago

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