I have been married for 22 years I love my wife and she loves me. I have carried a lot of childhood issues that caused me to treat my wife badly for a long time and it took it's toll on her even…Continue
"Can it work, for some, for very few, it has.
How territorial are you? Can you really deal with another man being with your wife? If the answer is that you cannot, which is what most fine. Then this will not work, and trying…"
"First: You say you love her, still, but the question becomes "Does she love you?". If both parties in a relationship are not in the same place in that relationship then the relationship is in trouble.
Second: If she has this intimate…"
"There is no point in staying married to some one the clearly doesn't want to be married to you.
Might just be me, but having sex with a woman who is clearly which I was some one else is not what I would describe as exciting."
"I would like to add a further agreement: I don't really know what she's thinking, so it's grain of salt time, but if you're worth so little to her she would do this demand, is she going to think more highly of you if you…"
"I wouldn't have much faith in an open relationship working for very long ... but, you're not in an open relationship. You're being coerced into living with an affair with the dude she wanted to burn your life to the ground…"
"This reminds me of when people whine that a new Starbucks opens and pushes the little local guy out of business. They never seem to remember that the local guy's coffee was crap.
America doesn't force its entertainment on the world. The…"
"You gave an entire paragraph to the Obama admin and then finished it with one sentence about nazis. That is how your comment "got twisted".
But even if we are talking about isis. I still don't see the nazi connection. What I see is a…"
"I was speaking not of this admin, but of the political and social parallels in the middle east and the rise of ISIS. (Extreme nationalism -> extreme religious fervor; disenfranchised populace unwilling/incapable of confronting the extremism, mass…"
"It doesn't need to rise to the level of thought to have meaning.
Moving toward the sunlight means survival. I'm arguing for meaning within material existence, not that all material reactions are thoughts.
If there is meaning like this for…"
"Simplicity is your friend. Start with the half-dozen staples you eat all the time, and learn to cook them first. You don't need fancy gourmet meals ... you need the basics. Burgers. Steaks. Pork chops. …"
"Get an easy basic cookbook for people who've never done it before, with a title like Easy Basics or Where's Mom Now that I Need Her? It'll tell you the things other books assume you know, from how to boil an egg to…"