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Can Open Relationships work and last

Started this discussion. Last reply by Forest May 9, 2014. 17 Replies

I have been married for 22 years I love my wife and she loves me. I have carried a lot of childhood issues that caused me to treat my wife badly for a long time and it took it's toll on  her even…Continue

 

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Forest replied to Chris's discussion Can Open Relationships work and last
"I encourage you to read the book Surviving an Affair by Dr. Bill Harley. You can also read his articles on www.marriagebuilders.com. "
May 9, 2014
Thomas Patrick replied to Chris's discussion Can Open Relationships work and last
"Sorry OP, it sucks your wife is unfaithfulBut if I were you, I'd tell her to drop him or she can get out and find a new place to live. Don't let your woman cuckold you, lay down the law."
May 3, 2014
David F. replied to Chris's discussion Can Open Relationships work and last
"I walked at tangled path to get to my place in life.  Glad I made a few mistakes/learning pain before I dated the woman who would agree to be my wife. "
May 2, 2014
Regular Joe replied to Chris's discussion Can Open Relationships work and last
"All I'll say is that functional open relationships do not usually start off as experiments to fix dysfunctional closed relationships. "
May 1, 2014
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May 1, 2014
Chris replied to Chris's discussion Can Open Relationships work and last
"Thank you for your words I will read the book and move forward from there. You have given much more incite than I could have expected."
May 1, 2014
David F. replied to Chris's discussion Can Open Relationships work and last
"Can it work, for some, for very few, it has.   How territorial are you?  Can you really deal with another man being with your wife?  If the answer is that you cannot, which is what most fine.  Then this will not work, and trying…"
May 1, 2014
Rick Shelton replied to Chris's discussion Can Open Relationships work and last
"First: You say you love her, still, but the question becomes "Does she love you?".  If both parties in a relationship are not in the same place in that relationship then the relationship is in trouble. Second: If she has this intimate…"
May 1, 2014
Rick Shelton replied to Chris's discussion Can Open Relationships work and last
"Fear would be my first guess, inertia would be my second."
May 1, 2014
Nate Thallas replied to Chris's discussion Can Open Relationships work and last
"There ya go."
May 1, 2014
N. Vest replied to Chris's discussion Can Open Relationships work and last
"There is no point in staying married to some one the clearly doesn't want to be married to you.  Might just be me, but having sex with a woman who is clearly which I was some one else is not what I would describe as exciting."
May 1, 2014
Leto Atreides II replied to Chris's discussion Can Open Relationships work and last
"Unpossible. You don't have one of those."
May 1, 2014
Michael D. Denny replied to Chris's discussion Can Open Relationships work and last
"I can only speak as to what I would do.  Which is throw her face first out of my house. "
May 1, 2014
Sir replied to Chris's discussion Can Open Relationships work and last
"I would like to add a further agreement:  I don't really know what she's thinking, so it's grain of salt time, but if you're worth so little to her she would do this demand, is she going to think more highly of you if you…"
Apr 30, 2014
Jack Bauer replied to Chris's discussion Can Open Relationships work and last
"I wouldn't have much faith in an open relationship working for very long ... but, you're not in an open relationship.  You're being coerced into living with an affair with the dude she wanted to burn your life to the ground…"
Apr 30, 2014
Sir replied to Chris's discussion Can Open Relationships work and last
"It's probably a lost cause.  I'm sorry this happened."
Apr 30, 2014

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