My girlfriend of 8 months and I just broke up. I don't post here often, but it's almost easier to type out thoughts to random people that can offer objective criticism and encouragement rather than…Continue
I've been lurking this site for a while. Reading articles and generally being amused while learning at the same time. I figured I would join the community and hopefully participate in discussion,…Continue
"When I was 15 1/2 I got my first job at a local car wash. I'm not sure if it was manly or not, but I've always loved cars so being able to be inside of a variety of cars (especially the very nice ones) was a great…"
"Sounds like you know she wasn't right and while it was a tough thing to do, you did the right thing. So now comes a couple of weeks doubting yourself, but as the person who broke it off with her, you will bounce back quicker.
"I completely agree with everything Rob says here, and he makes a lot of good points regarding exchange of value and spending time with friends and family and focusing on yourself to find your happiness again.
The only thing I would change /…"
"You are probably feeling down from the breakup. Sorry bro.
Maybe you feel that way, but being someone who still has something to learn about making relationships work does not make you a terrible person. A terrible person would never have invested…"
"Beats me what it is. Without knowing you better I can't offer feedback on that.
You and your now ex-girlfriend sound similar to me and my recent ex-girlfriend. My ex and I didn't share many interests either and it was hard at times…"
My girlfriend of 8 months and I just broke up. I don't post here often, but it's almost easier to type out thoughts to random people that can offer objective criticism and encouragement rather than friends or family.Everything spiraled down hill quickly. We had planned on moving in together, and really just rushing everything. She lives out of town, and we both work in different cities. Out of those 8 months we got to see each other less than a hundred times. It really takes it's toll when…See More
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A bodega I used to…"
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As for retirement funds, that is set up very well here. I will start paying extra into it once i…"
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"yep, i have read that. the snowball method got me out of debt!
I will most likely follow his methods, although i think the terminology is a little different here in Australia, so I will need do a bitmore research."
"I guess it does sound simple when you put it like that. But should I allow my opinion on the subject make or break a relationship? What if she says that she'll stop? Does this make things more complicated?"