Calvin Fokker
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Confused

Started this discussion. Last reply by D.J. Sep 10, 2013. 7 Replies

So, there's this girl (shocker). We've known each other for goin' on four years and have talked off and on. She lives in my home state and so this past New Years we got together and celebrated her…Continue

Dating Question

Started this discussion. Last reply by Bryant Herrera Feb 6, 2013. 13 Replies

So, I'm a long time reader, but only recently decided to actually put up a post or two. I've recently started out in the dating world, having spent the first two decades of my life under the…Continue

 

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D.J. replied to Calvin Fokker's discussion Confused
"I'm with Rick on this one. She found another guy. "
Sep 10, 2013
Steve replied to Calvin Fokker's discussion Confused
"Sounds like the initial kiss was never followed up by anything else romantically themed...maybe she was expecting you to follow up with a nice date or something and got bored waiting for you to make another advance on her...she may have even felt…"
Sep 10, 2013
Steve Dallas replied to Calvin Fokker's discussion Confused
"Everyone else has it right. You kissed, but then you moved out of the picture. Sure, you still talked, but the kiss was forgotten. Also what usually happens is that while you are in a situation like the two of you were, a fantasy of the other…"
Sep 6, 2013
Jack Bauer replied to Calvin Fokker's discussion Confused
"No cause for confusion.  She just changed her mind.  Chicks are known to do that.  She's gone.  Put her out of your mind, and find someone else to put in her place. Sorry, chief. JB"
Sep 5, 2013
Will replied to Calvin Fokker's discussion Confused
"She's not that into you.  It happens.  That's my guess."
Sep 5, 2013
Hampton Kennedy replied to Calvin Fokker's discussion Confused
"Did you commit into a relationship with her, or did y'all simply "hang out"? Because if y'all just hung out then maybe she was looking for a commitment of some sorts but never got it, so then she moved on"
Sep 5, 2013
Rick Shelton replied to Calvin Fokker's discussion Confused
"She found someone else.  Sorry.  Some girls find it difficult to let the guy know when it's over, heck most guys are the same way."
Sep 5, 2013
Calvin Fokker posted a discussion

Confused

So, there's this girl (shocker). We've known each other for goin' on four years and have talked off and on. She lives in my home state and so this past New Years we got together and celebrated her birthday with a couple of friends. We got along really well and the next time I was in town, we went out to see a movie. A few days later, we went to my a party at a friend's house. Once again, we got along well and right before she left, we kissed out in the parking lot. I went back to school a few…See More
Sep 5, 2013
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Pipe & Co

A place to discuss the return of the pipe and the world of pipe smoking.See More
Jul 20, 2013
Calvin Fokker replied to David Freiberg's discussion How to Smell like a Man?
"Napalm and cordite my good sir. Nothing beats the smell of victory.Be seriously, if nothing else, stay away from Axe. Please, for the love of all that is right in this world."
Mar 24, 2013
Calvin Fokker replied to Hyrum Higgins's discussion How Can I Live My Life Without Escapism?
"If I may, I've found that the responsible, legal use of firearms in a safe, controlled environment really helps to relieve tension. Again, the key parts of that statement being responsible, legal and safe. Nothing like the smell of cordite to…"
Mar 24, 2013
Calvin Fokker replied to Mitchell Bradley Gray's discussion Favorite Firearms
"Gotta say, I'm a fan of the classics myself. Of course I've never met a gun I didn't like. Some favorites are the M1 Garand, the Mosin Nagant, the AK-47 (in all its permutations) and the "scary black rifle" itself, the…"
Mar 24, 2013
Calvin Fokker replied to thedifference's discussion Friend and I kissed, now I haven't heard from her.
"I'm with David on this one. You've done enough. If she doesn't get back with you, then it might just be time to move on."
Mar 18, 2013
Bryant Herrera replied to Calvin Fokker's discussion Dating Question
"Be careful, don't fall into the friend zone ...."
Feb 6, 2013
L De Guzmán replied to Calvin Fokker's discussion Dating Question
"Just relax and keep it cool Calvin. The next time you find yourself sitting next to her, just give her a smile and ask how she is. This works all the time. you will thank me later brother. And remember, time waits for no man, so, better do it soon.…"
Feb 2, 2013
Johnny replied to Calvin Fokker's discussion Dating Question
"why worry about being obvious. obviously you want to be tactful but you often shoot yoursel fin the foot benig too passive or standoffish. thats how you get in the dreaded friend zone i actually watched an intereting shw on mtv the other day where…"
Feb 2, 2013

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