Hi there warrior. Welcome to AoM. Also, thought I'd give you a friendly invite to check out my group, The Great Debate. Just click on "Groups." It's the one with the colorful galaxy picture. It's also one of the most active groups on AoM. In any case, great to have you aboard.
"I am one of those that Paul mentions as having "The Gift of Singleness." It was never my intention to be single for as long as I have. Most of the women I've dated have been dissatisfied with aspects of who I am. So instead of…"
"Seem dead may actually be damn alive and kicking but you cannot and will not see it. My wife and I have a had an argument in front of friends and they ever realized it. Its the subtle things that carry allot of weight in some…"
"There probably was a better word to use ... mostly, because it's not gay. Disfavored epithets have their moments, but it ought to make sense.
If you're going to use politically incorrect terms like that, just own it. …"
"My guess would be that you're vastly overestimating ... and, you're probably not as attuned to marital health as you think you are. You're not married; you probably don't know as much as you think you do.