Brian Burnham
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  • Williamsburg, VA
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Brian Burnham's Discussions

End of the "Man-cesion"

Started this discussion. Last reply by Shane Jul 11, 2011. 12 Replies

Joining the National Guard

Started this discussion. Last reply by J Roman Nov 6, 2010. 13 Replies

Good Dress Shoes?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Mitch Feb 20, 2012. 75 Replies

 

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Paul MacAlindin commented on Brian Burnham's group Remembering Dad
"What a wonderful group. My dad passed on New Year's Eve. He was admitted to hospital and a week later, was gone. He donated his body to St Andrews University for medical research because he wanted to be as useful after life as during it. My…"
Aug 9
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Remembering Dad

This is a group for men who have lost their fathers. It is a place to mourn, celebrate, and remember our fathers and a place for men to share experiences and draw strength from one another.See More
Aug 9
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Remembering Dad

This is a group for men who have lost their fathers. It is a place to mourn, celebrate, and remember our fathers and a place for men to share experiences and draw strength from one another.See More
Jun 24
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Remembering Dad

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Remembering Dad

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Remembering Dad

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Apr 4
Kenneth commented on Brian Burnham's group Remembering Dad
"Thanks Michael. It's still painful, but I suppose in light of everything, we're doing all right under the circumstances. You can really tell when people are praying for you."
Mar 19
Michael J. K. commented on Brian Burnham's group Remembering Dad
"Kenneth I hope the next few months go okay for you and your mom."
Mar 17
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Remembering Dad

This is a group for men who have lost their fathers. It is a place to mourn, celebrate, and remember our fathers and a place for men to share experiences and draw strength from one another.See More
Mar 1
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Remembering Dad

This is a group for men who have lost their fathers. It is a place to mourn, celebrate, and remember our fathers and a place for men to share experiences and draw strength from one another.See More
Feb 25
Kenneth commented on Brian Burnham's group Remembering Dad
"Thanks Ryan. I'm trying to do the right thing, and just take each day as it comes. Someone on here said it best, I am acutely aware of Dad's absence."
Feb 12
Ryan James commented on Brian Burnham's group Remembering Dad
"Ken, you're definitely doing the right thing. Offer your support and help and check on her as frequently as you feel you can. She'll come around and it will take time for her, and you to process the sudden change in life as you knew it,…"
Feb 11
Kenneth commented on Brian Burnham's group Remembering Dad
"Scott, thanks for confirming that I'm doing the right thing by giving Mama her time and some breathing room to process Dad's death, and her emotions, in her own way. I know we're both hurting, and ultimately we each have to find our…"
Feb 11
Scott L Ferrell commented on Brian Burnham's group Remembering Dad
"You are doing the right thing. I backed off when my father died and I let my mother have her space. She will include you when she is ready. "
Feb 10
Kenneth commented on Brian Burnham's group Remembering Dad
"Today marks one month since I lost Dad, and I still can't really "accept" that he's gone. I feel like I don't really have anyone in my life that I can spill my guts to, and I am trying not to let it render me totally…"
Feb 10
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Feb 10

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Interests
Medieval Reenacting, History, Psychology, Home Brewing, Camping, Backpacking, Archery, Science Fiction
Books
The Modern Gentleman by Phineas Mollod and Jason Tesauro, The Five People You Meet in Heaven by Mitch Albom, The Three Musketeers by Alexander Dumas, Stranger in a Strange Land by Robert Heinlein
Movies
The Last Samurai, Braveheart, Kingdom of Heaven, Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Michael Collins
Music
Carbon Leaf, Matchbox 20, Bryce de Byram, Celtic Music, Jazz
Quote
"A king may move a man, a father may claim a son. But remember that, even when those who move you be kings or men of power, your soul is in your keeping alone. When you stand before God you cannot say 'but I was told by others to do thus' or that 'virtue was not convenient at the time' This will not suffice. Remember that." - Edward Norton as King Baldwin IV in Kingdom of Heaven

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Brian Burnham's Blog

Brian's Manly Mental Health Minute for 3/1/10 Living Up to Your Values Part 2: Understanding Self Control and Its Limits

Posted on March 1, 2010 at 10:30pm 0 Comments



Many of the values expressed by men on various parts of this forum are what one called call "traditional values" and many of these values center around controlling one's impulses. Many men consider self control to be a virtue in and of itself. However things that are easy are rarely considered virtues and for men honestly struggling to live up to there values the admonishment to simply control themselves better is often less than helpful. In this manly mental health minute I will examine… Continue

Brian's Manly Mental Health Minute for 2/22/10: The Pitch: How Salesmen Sell us Things We Never Knew We Needed.

Posted on February 22, 2010 at 8:00pm 0 Comments

There is no doubt that managing your money is an important skill every man should possess as it is essential to ensure his own well being and providing for his family. That being said salesmen are experts in separating fools from their money and can usually separate even a wise man from his hard earned cash. This shouldn't be surprising as their own livelihood depends on this skill. However just what is it that they do that can turn the normal frugal man… Continue

Brian's Manly Mental Health Minute for 2/15/10: Living Up to Your Values Part 1: Recognizing Cognitive Distortions.

Posted on February 15, 2010 at 8:00am 2 Comments

One of the central themes of the Art of Manliness has been, and doubtless will continue to be helping men better define their manly values. While values will no doubt vary

from man to man, we are all in agreement that manly men strive to not

only have manly values, but to live up to them as well. However as

Adlai Stevenson put "It t is often easier to fight for

principles than to live up to them..."…

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Launching Brian's Manly Mental Health Minute

Posted on February 8, 2010 at 1:54pm 3 Comments

One thing I have noticed as I peruse the main sight and the forums is that a lot of the posts and discussions have to do with mental health. Discussions about interpersonal relationships (marriage, dating, friendships), about personal resiliency or "hardihood", coping with stressful circumstances, and becoming the best man you can be are all, in a broad sense at least, mental health discussions. So, as I have wanted to…

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At 8:38am on April 28, 2011, Steve M said…

Brian,

Here's wishing you a belated Happy 27th Birthday!

At 12:19am on March 20, 2010, Jason M. said…
Thanks for the add!
At 9:32pm on December 23, 2009, Michael J. Austin said…
Here's wishing you a most joyous Holiday season to you and yours and a great New Year :)
At 11:41pm on November 25, 2009, Michael J. Austin said…
Here's wishing you and yours a most joyous Thanksgiving !!!!
At 4:12pm on April 27, 2009, Michael J. Austin said…
Happy Birthday Brian !!!!!!!!!!
 
 
 

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Michael D. Denny replied to Mongoose's discussion As Said, Society Needs to Figure This Out in the group The Great Debate
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Xenias Latin replied to Xenias Latin's discussion How to handle insults? How to become unoffendable?
"I need a way to handle it on a more personal level. I can't help what management does which is why I am getting out of there as fast as possible. How do I handle this from a point of inner peace?"
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Xenias Latin replied to Xenias Latin's discussion How to handle insults? How to become unoffendable?
"Management isn't interested in handling the problem. This coworker is a problem, there was another person before me and when I leave I even think I know the coworker who will be next on the list. This is why I have chosen to leave. Other…"
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Liam Strain replied to Xenias Latin's discussion How to handle insults? How to become unoffendable?
"Comparing? no. Su"
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Xenias Latin replied to Xenias Latin's discussion How to handle insults? How to become unoffendable?
"I guess there are several reasons why the insults get to me. First, I am a very kind person and people have respected me for that so I am not overly use to be insulting in public. The insults are often aimed as who I think I am as a person- a rule…"
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Jay D replied to Xenias Latin's discussion How to handle insults? How to become unoffendable?
"Are you comparing getting molested by a squirrel every day on the way to work with having a coworker throwing insults at you everyday? This is something that just doesnt have to stand in a normal work enviroment. If someone of your staff comes to…"
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Xenias Latin replied to Xenias Latin's discussion How to handle insults? How to become unoffendable?
"HaHaHa, the squirrel visualization is hilarious. I have already had first a heart to heart and then the telling of enough. Still doesn't stop and I don't feel confident in my own social prowess to insult my coworker back. Yes, the insults…"
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Jay D replied to Mongoose's discussion As Said, Society Needs to Figure This Out in the group The Great Debate
"Sounds a bit like a "stick up my ass" issue. Who gives a fuck about demonstrating teenangers in one school? Half of the people demonstrating there are dudes who thought "Hey Bro, lets go demonstrate about that…"
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