Talked to a friend last Friday night. Convo gets around to I'm working on my car replacing front wheel bearings. . . she says "hey, you think you can replace a distributor?"Ah,. . . probably, what's…Continue
"Time. That's it.
Women react to what they feel right now. Later on she may change her mind or feel differently. I don't know if anyone asked yet but
Do you want to have kids?
That is as an important of a question as the question of your…"
"Sorry it didn't go your way. Hopefully we motivated you to crush it. More importantly as you reflect you learn and improve yourself from the experience. It may not be accurate to call it a failure. . . if you improve from the experience it is…"
"Marketing. . . isn't that about 'pitching' ideas? This 'pitch' is your best idea. . . YOU! Management's minds are made up huh? Why would they give you a shot. Remember the question about the 'pitch'? If…"
"This is semantics. . . but what you are describing "perfect in your eyes, to your standards" is what I call excellence. I think perfection is a lie. Okay, Miles Davis 'Blue 'n Green' is the exception."
"Forgot to mention the coarseness or fineness of the grind. It's a surface area thing. Finer grind = more surface area for same amount of beans. Another example. . . put room temp beer or soda in a cooler with just ice. . . it takes along time…"
"Water temperature of the drip machine may be part of the problem. Hotter water = stronger flavor. Also using a wire screen filter instead of paper makes a stronger brew, it lets the oils through which get trapped by the paper."
"I don't understand this "creepy" emotion! They don't have kids, they aren't married, they aren't engaged, they don't even live together. Most, not all, women want something/someone around. . . most of the time.…"
"Disclaimer: I used to say that if it is a guy and a girl (even engaged/married) "if he can't keep her TOO BAD! He isn't doing something right but, I won't be a 'home wrecker' if they have kids together." Kids…"
"The phrase "shit test" may be from the PUA's but I've seen "testing" in other places not related to PUA. It is definitely a defense mechanism.
Most PUA's are disappointing they may get dates/sex but, usually not…"
"It's not weird. . . you've never been to a bar. It happens in ten minutes sometimes less. That's not just the "lets go on a date" either. There is NOTHING weird about it. You're a heterosexual male, she is a…"
"Women are all about emotions and what feels right. She may very well be seeing someone else. . . but you cannot know for sure. Also don't be so sure what the mom says often they don't really know their daughters. Think about what you would…"
Music,Playing Guitar (and all that goes with it) Art, Life, Self-improvement, gaining experience, learning for them, sharing them. The teachings of Buddha that are practical in the modern world.
Freakonomics and Super-Freakonomics, Outliers, The Tipping Point, Way of the Superior Man, Dealing With People You Can't Stand, Mastery: The Keys to Success and Long-Term Fulfillment, Poker Wisdom of a Champion (aka According to Doyle).
Brad Paisley, Eddie Van Halen, Eminem, George Strait, Marty Stuart, Kenny Burrell, Some Coltrane, Bruce Hornsby, Bela Fleck, Some Miles Davis, JS Bach.
Not everything that is a struggle is worthwhile but, most things that are worthwhile will be a struggle.
David Francois is exactly right. I am 22 and have been in the exact same situation since I started college.
The secret is to be continue to be yourself around them. They are your friends and they need you. But don't let them pull you into…"
"Near nightmare scenario. Dog breaks free of leash and bolts on a cold night. Lose track of him at an unlit corner - no idea which direction he ran. Nobody is outdoors (too cold) to help guide the search. Happy ending - 19 hours later (after a…"