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Girl Hangs Out With Lots Of Guys

Started this discussion. Last reply by Loki Dec 10, 2012. 19 Replies

I've known this girl for a while, and have always kind of been attracted to her. Only until recently did I find myself wanting to ask her and get to know her more. There is one problem with her that…Continue

 

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Loki replied to brandon's discussion Girl Hangs Out With Lots Of Guys
"It's fine she has male friends. I mean I have female friends, my girlfriend doesn't mind. It's an issue if she keeps these friends secret from you (as in doesn't want you to know she's talking to them. Doesn't want you…"
Dec 10, 2012
Jack Bauer replied to brandon's discussion Girl Hangs Out With Lots Of Guys
"Define "hang out".  Are we talking chicken wings in a sports bar, or gangbang in her living room? None of the guys "just want to be friends".  That's not how guys work. Its not really your business until…"
Dec 9, 2012
Justin Cook replied to brandon's discussion Girl Hangs Out With Lots Of Guys
"i think you guys read to much into the wiley ways of the female mind. when it comes to relatsonships is keep it a possitive one and if it becomes a negtive get out."
Dec 9, 2012
Nathanael replied to brandon's discussion Girl Hangs Out With Lots Of Guys
"I think you might be reading too much into some of that, though I agree OP is kinda clueless.  Still, he got her to go on a date with him, so I see no reason for him not to try to keep going.  Worst case, she decides to only keep him…"
Dec 9, 2012
Chuck Knight replied to brandon's discussion Girl Hangs Out With Lots Of Guys
"So you've moved out of your comfort zone, taken this girl out on a date, both enjoyed yourselves, and wish for this relationship to evolve.   And your biggest concern is the makeup of her friends.   Do you not see a problem, here?"
Dec 9, 2012
Beowulf87 replied to brandon's discussion Girl Hangs Out With Lots Of Guys
"In my personal opinion, I would just cautiously (as in protecting your feelings and not getting too attached too soon) move on.  A pet peeve of mine is when guys go nuts when I'm friends with their girlfriend, so I get it."
Dec 9, 2012
Nathanael replied to brandon's discussion Girl Hangs Out With Lots Of Guys
"Done, no change to my opinion."
Dec 9, 2012
Nathanael replied to brandon's discussion Girl Hangs Out With Lots Of Guys
"You're not the one that's friendzoned, so your jimmies shouldn't be rustled. "
Dec 9, 2012
Nick H replied to brandon's discussion Girl Hangs Out With Lots Of Guys
"Yes, they probably are secretly wanting to date her. No, she doesn't want to date them, regardless of whether she's naive or not. You are freaked out and its only been the first date. Listen to your gut and move on."
Dec 9, 2012
Justin Cook replied to brandon's discussion Girl Hangs Out With Lots Of Guys
"yes or no if she seems to like to keep men on side than yah get out of there but i would say a good most of the time girls that hang out with guys just like the company better guys are simpler and less stressful and im sure most ladies that read…"
Dec 9, 2012
Philip replied to brandon's discussion Girl Hangs Out With Lots Of Guys
"This is an issue.  Woman like this lead men on deliberately, albeit seemingly innocently enough.  It is a boundary issue, and if you let yourself become emotionally attached, you might lead yourself to heartache when it ends, and she…"
Dec 9, 2012
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Girl Hangs Out With Lots Of Guys

I've known this girl for a while, and have always kind of been attracted to her. Only until recently did I find myself wanting to ask her and get to know her more. There is one problem with her that I can't seem to get passed, that she like to hang out with lots of guys. I mean lots. One of her best friends is someone she used to date almost a year ago, and all the conversations I've seen her have have been with other guys. One of my primary concerns here is that so many guys really have secret…See More
Dec 8, 2012
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