I've known this girl for a while, and have always kind of been attracted to her. Only until recently did I find myself wanting to ask her and get to know her more. There is one problem with her that…Continue
"It's fine she has male friends. I mean I have female friends, my girlfriend doesn't mind.
It's an issue if she keeps these friends secret from you (as in doesn't want you to know she's talking to them. Doesn't want you…"
"Define "hang out". Are we talking chicken wings in a sports bar, or gangbang in her living room?
None of the guys "just want to be friends". That's not how guys work.
Its not really your business until…"
"I think you might be reading too much into some of that, though I agree OP is kinda clueless. Still, he got her to go on a date with him, so I see no reason for him not to try to keep going. Worst case, she decides to only keep him…"
"So you've moved out of your comfort zone, taken this girl out on a date, both enjoyed yourselves, and wish for this relationship to evolve.
And your biggest concern is the makeup of her friends.
Do you not see a problem, here?"
"In my personal opinion, I would just cautiously (as in protecting your feelings and not getting too attached too soon) move on. A pet peeve of mine is when guys go nuts when I'm friends with their girlfriend, so I get it."
"Yes, they probably are secretly wanting to date her. No, she doesn't want to date them, regardless of whether she's naive or not.
You are freaked out and its only been the first date. Listen to your gut and move on."
"yes or no if she seems to like to keep men on side than yah get out of there but i would say a good most of the time girls that hang out with guys just like the company better guys are simpler and less stressful and im sure most ladies that read…"
"This is an issue. Woman like this lead men on deliberately, albeit seemingly innocently enough. It is a boundary issue, and if you let yourself become emotionally attached, you might lead yourself to heartache when it ends, and she…"
I've known this girl for a while, and have always kind of been attracted to her. Only until recently did I find myself wanting to ask her and get to know her more. There is one problem with her that I can't seem to get passed, that she like to hang out with lots of guys. I mean lots. One of her best friends is someone she used to date almost a year ago, and all the conversations I've seen her have have been with other guys. One of my primary concerns here is that so many guys really have secret…See More
"Jon-Pierre, I am not sure of the mental health care in your country, but it sounds very much like you could use some true help rather than just friendly advice. Your current state of mind has been so low for so long that it is affecting your entire…"
"I have a little Stihl MS 210 with a 16" bar. Works great however I wish the chains had a couple more teeth. Sharpen the chains on the saw and only by hand. I've had a lot of practice at this as I worked as a landscaper for 8 years and we…"
"Thanks for the comments it is really appreciated. I did mean physically sick, I always go to the doctor but they can't seem to figure out what is wrong (I get bad sinus problems, difficulty breathing, random back pains, chest pains) but…"
It's not even Halloween, and...I'm already seeing a lot of internet "business" posts about retailers not opening on Thanksgiving Day, and a bunch on which store will be open on Thanksgiving Day. That's the US Thanksgiving Day.Anybody else old enough to remember when the retailers open on Thanksgiving were liquor stores and Standard Oil stations? I mean in states without blue laws.See More