I've known this girl for a while, and have always kind of been attracted to her. Only until recently did I find myself wanting to ask her and get to know her more. There is one problem with her that…Continue
"It's fine she has male friends. I mean I have female friends, my girlfriend doesn't mind.
It's an issue if she keeps these friends secret from you (as in doesn't want you to know she's talking to them. Doesn't want you…"
"Define "hang out". Are we talking chicken wings in a sports bar, or gangbang in her living room?
None of the guys "just want to be friends". That's not how guys work.
Its not really your business until…"
"I think you might be reading too much into some of that, though I agree OP is kinda clueless. Still, he got her to go on a date with him, so I see no reason for him not to try to keep going. Worst case, she decides to only keep him…"
"So you've moved out of your comfort zone, taken this girl out on a date, both enjoyed yourselves, and wish for this relationship to evolve.
And your biggest concern is the makeup of her friends.
Do you not see a problem, here?"
"In my personal opinion, I would just cautiously (as in protecting your feelings and not getting too attached too soon) move on. A pet peeve of mine is when guys go nuts when I'm friends with their girlfriend, so I get it."
"Yes, they probably are secretly wanting to date her. No, she doesn't want to date them, regardless of whether she's naive or not.
You are freaked out and its only been the first date. Listen to your gut and move on."
"yes or no if she seems to like to keep men on side than yah get out of there but i would say a good most of the time girls that hang out with guys just like the company better guys are simpler and less stressful and im sure most ladies that read…"
"This is an issue. Woman like this lead men on deliberately, albeit seemingly innocently enough. It is a boundary issue, and if you let yourself become emotionally attached, you might lead yourself to heartache when it ends, and she…"
I've known this girl for a while, and have always kind of been attracted to her. Only until recently did I find myself wanting to ask her and get to know her more. There is one problem with her that I can't seem to get passed, that she like to hang out with lots of guys. I mean lots. One of her best friends is someone she used to date almost a year ago, and all the conversations I've seen her have have been with other guys. One of my primary concerns here is that so many guys really have secret…See More
I was just thinking about meditation and thought I'd bring the discussion here. What are your thoughts on meditation? Do you meditate? It doesn't have to be the seated silent meditation either. People meditate all the time doing all sorts of things (driving, walking, etc). I regularly practice yoga, and I'm happy that it's a form of exercise that has meditation built into it at the end of each session. I wish more sports incorporated it (I'm picturing guys chilling out meditating on the…See More
"Not what I meant. I'm sure you thought you were being light hearted, it is just that from my own experience of being your age and being in situations with others your age, the light hearted isn't as light as we thought we were being. Hell,…"
"The answer is simple.
If you haven't already, make your feelings for her clear. You don't want to walk away without knowing for sure that you are in the friend zone.
If she puts you in the friend zone, forget about her and move on.…"