I've known this girl for a while, and have always kind of been attracted to her. Only until recently did I find myself wanting to ask her and get to know her more. There is one problem with her that…Continue
"It's fine she has male friends. I mean I have female friends, my girlfriend doesn't mind.
It's an issue if she keeps these friends secret from you (as in doesn't want you to know she's talking to them. Doesn't want you…"
"Define "hang out". Are we talking chicken wings in a sports bar, or gangbang in her living room?
None of the guys "just want to be friends". That's not how guys work.
Its not really your business until…"
"I think you might be reading too much into some of that, though I agree OP is kinda clueless. Still, he got her to go on a date with him, so I see no reason for him not to try to keep going. Worst case, she decides to only keep him…"
"So you've moved out of your comfort zone, taken this girl out on a date, both enjoyed yourselves, and wish for this relationship to evolve.
And your biggest concern is the makeup of her friends.
Do you not see a problem, here?"
"In my personal opinion, I would just cautiously (as in protecting your feelings and not getting too attached too soon) move on. A pet peeve of mine is when guys go nuts when I'm friends with their girlfriend, so I get it."
"Yes, they probably are secretly wanting to date her. No, she doesn't want to date them, regardless of whether she's naive or not.
You are freaked out and its only been the first date. Listen to your gut and move on."
"yes or no if she seems to like to keep men on side than yah get out of there but i would say a good most of the time girls that hang out with guys just like the company better guys are simpler and less stressful and im sure most ladies that read…"
"This is an issue. Woman like this lead men on deliberately, albeit seemingly innocently enough. It is a boundary issue, and if you let yourself become emotionally attached, you might lead yourself to heartache when it ends, and she…"
I've known this girl for a while, and have always kind of been attracted to her. Only until recently did I find myself wanting to ask her and get to know her more. There is one problem with her that I can't seem to get passed, that she like to hang out with lots of guys. I mean lots. One of her best friends is someone she used to date almost a year ago, and all the conversations I've seen her have have been with other guys. One of my primary concerns here is that so many guys really have secret…See More
"Business Insider is copying a Washington Examiner item about Trump's campaign finances. Having made a huge deal out of paying his own way in the primary campaigns, it appears that his campaign people are making a pitch to get public money…"
"Spanish semi-translation. Native phrase "Colijolmanoc" phonetically rendered as "Carne Humana." Formally and legally the name of a Mexican Land Grant in Northern California.
Yep. Ranch of the Human Flesh.…"
"If you read the newspapers, you don't get enlightened, and you hate reading even more! :P
Lots of good suggestions here; I like them all. Why do you hate reading? My guess is it's work. It becomes less work the more you…"
"Carl, Thank you so much for the kind words. I am thinking about giving 5/3/1 another go (I gave it a go a year or so ago). I just have to decide on the template I want. I am happy for any suggestions you may have since you have more experience with…"
"In the short term, podcasts, NPR, and youtube. Start with Ted Talks and Kahn Academy - just follow rabbit-holes of topics that sound interesting and see where they lead you.
But longer term, I'd suggest you need to get over "I hate…"