I've known this girl for a while, and have always kind of been attracted to her. Only until recently did I find myself wanting to ask her and get to know her more. There is one problem with her that…Continue
"It's fine she has male friends. I mean I have female friends, my girlfriend doesn't mind.
It's an issue if she keeps these friends secret from you (as in doesn't want you to know she's talking to them. Doesn't want you…"
"Define "hang out". Are we talking chicken wings in a sports bar, or gangbang in her living room?
None of the guys "just want to be friends". That's not how guys work.
Its not really your business until…"
"I think you might be reading too much into some of that, though I agree OP is kinda clueless. Still, he got her to go on a date with him, so I see no reason for him not to try to keep going. Worst case, she decides to only keep him…"
"So you've moved out of your comfort zone, taken this girl out on a date, both enjoyed yourselves, and wish for this relationship to evolve.
And your biggest concern is the makeup of her friends.
Do you not see a problem, here?"
"She is having sex with every single on of them (sometimes simultaneously) except for you, and she will not stop if you start dating her. I recommend 20 minutes of continually slapping yourself in the face every night until it all becomes clear."
"In my personal opinion, I would just cautiously (as in protecting your feelings and not getting too attached too soon) move on. A pet peeve of mine is when guys go nuts when I'm friends with their girlfriend, so I get it."
"Yes, they probably are secretly wanting to date her. No, she doesn't want to date them, regardless of whether she's naive or not.
You are freaked out and its only been the first date. Listen to your gut and move on."
"yes or no if she seems to like to keep men on side than yah get out of there but i would say a good most of the time girls that hang out with guys just like the company better guys are simpler and less stressful and im sure most ladies that read…"
"This is an issue. Woman like this lead men on deliberately, albeit seemingly innocently enough. It is a boundary issue, and if you let yourself become emotionally attached, you might lead yourself to heartache when it ends, and she…"
I've known this girl for a while, and have always kind of been attracted to her. Only until recently did I find myself wanting to ask her and get to know her more. There is one problem with her that I can't seem to get passed, that she like to hang out with lots of guys. I mean lots. One of her best friends is someone she used to date almost a year ago, and all the conversations I've seen her have have been with other guys. One of my primary concerns here is that so many guys really have secret…See More
"One of the things my friend has used is scheduling and sticking to the schedule as much as possible. Each of her work hours is scheduled for a particular part of her job and she does only that for that time period. The same can be used…"
"And I don't mean that like its a bad thing, I was a bad student, I just recognized that I had to work harder for worse grades and it sounds like you are in the same boat.
Be self aware. Once you are, I promise life will become a lot easier."
"You're over-achieving compared to the majority of your fellow countrymen so don't be too hard on yourself. And don't fall into the ambition trap, either. You could be making more and getting promotions (etc.) but someone else would…"
"I will admit there is some dissatisfaction in my heart. I know I could (should?) be doing better. In all of us there is some question of whether we could be or should be doing better than what we are doing. Some want/need for…"