I've known this girl for a while, and have always kind of been attracted to her. Only until recently did I find myself wanting to ask her and get to know her more. There is one problem with her that…Continue
"It's fine she has male friends. I mean I have female friends, my girlfriend doesn't mind.
It's an issue if she keeps these friends secret from you (as in doesn't want you to know she's talking to them. Doesn't want you…"
"Define "hang out". Are we talking chicken wings in a sports bar, or gangbang in her living room?
None of the guys "just want to be friends". That's not how guys work.
Its not really your business until…"
"I think you might be reading too much into some of that, though I agree OP is kinda clueless. Still, he got her to go on a date with him, so I see no reason for him not to try to keep going. Worst case, she decides to only keep him…"
"So you've moved out of your comfort zone, taken this girl out on a date, both enjoyed yourselves, and wish for this relationship to evolve.
And your biggest concern is the makeup of her friends.
Do you not see a problem, here?"
"She is having sex with every single on of them (sometimes simultaneously) except for you, and she will not stop if you start dating her. I recommend 20 minutes of continually slapping yourself in the face every night until it all becomes clear."
"In my personal opinion, I would just cautiously (as in protecting your feelings and not getting too attached too soon) move on. A pet peeve of mine is when guys go nuts when I'm friends with their girlfriend, so I get it."
"Yes, they probably are secretly wanting to date her. No, she doesn't want to date them, regardless of whether she's naive or not.
You are freaked out and its only been the first date. Listen to your gut and move on."
"yes or no if she seems to like to keep men on side than yah get out of there but i would say a good most of the time girls that hang out with guys just like the company better guys are simpler and less stressful and im sure most ladies that read…"
"This is an issue. Woman like this lead men on deliberately, albeit seemingly innocently enough. It is a boundary issue, and if you let yourself become emotionally attached, you might lead yourself to heartache when it ends, and she…"
I've known this girl for a while, and have always kind of been attracted to her. Only until recently did I find myself wanting to ask her and get to know her more. There is one problem with her that I can't seem to get passed, that she like to hang out with lots of guys. I mean lots. One of her best friends is someone she used to date almost a year ago, and all the conversations I've seen her have have been with other guys. One of my primary concerns here is that so many guys really have secret…See More
"I know, as tempting as it is it would only create trouble. My wife and I joke about that with her ex because of the stupid games he plays with our kids (he's the bio-dad) especially our daughter. Like when my daughter graduated high…"
Gents, I'm on Day 3 of the 30 day Be a Better Man quest. Just a quick update:Day 1: Core Values.This was a tough one for me. In the AF, we have a set of core values drilled into us. It took some real soul searching and understanding that it was okay to be different. 1. Be genuine. I haven't always walked around without a mask, but I've always tried to be genuine to who I am. Integrity, Actions, Sincerity all go hand in h...and with that.2. Empathy. Use it and keep an open mind. 3. Self…See More
"Lawyer, separation (why on earth is she still around him this much?), restraining order if needed. If he violates that restraining order, she should immediately call the cops, and be prepared to shoot him if he threatens violence."
"Mostly what I've noticed is the people who own those "Pavement Princesses" don't wave.
The other day I saw a Rubicon go by with the Rubicon lettering modified to LSUBICON, and another that is owned by a woman has…"
"Support your sister by supporting your sister ... not by beating the asshole senseless. Might be momentarily satisfying, but unless its self-defense, you'll make things worse. You'll land in jail. You'll get the…"