Hey guys, glad I stumbled upon this little gem.I am very into self improvement, excellence, and success as a man. I do a little bit of lifestyle/dating coaching, and run a blog about such things. I…Continue
"This comes with practice. One cannot just "Be funny" It comes with practice and social calibration. Understanding what is funny, how to come up with stuff on the spot, and thinking ahead. This comes with actually socializing. Just as you…"
Hey guys, glad I stumbled upon this little gem.I am very into self improvement, excellence, and success as a man. I do a little bit of lifestyle/dating coaching, and run a blog about such things. I am always interested in bringing back more of what it means to really be a man. Society has i believe went in a little but of a slump lately when it comes to men really BEING the man they are supposed to be, in life, AND in relationships. …See More
"Oh, and based on what you disclosed, you certainly have not made a grand mistake: the fact that she is still into you means she did not feel it was a deal-breaker. It means she still finds that you have significant worth to her.
I do advise you to…"
"Thanks for your thoughtful response. The analogy with the volume knob definitely makes sense, I certainly love her on one level, as I think she is amazing and feel very strong emotions when thinking about her. I just haven't know her very long…"
"I suspect communication will make both of you feel better.
What happened is very natural and does not mean a bad thing has happened.
She said something that you were not prepared for. Silence was your brain pausing so it could process…"
"I think it's ok to apologize, tell her that she caught you a bit off-guard and in that moment you were not sure how to respond. That you really like her, are happy to know how she feels, and to give you a little time to let your feelings catch…"
Hi there,I've been seeing a girl for about two months and last Friday we were out at two of her friends' engagement party, everyone was drinking a lot of alcohol and after we left the bar we were walking along and she told me that she loved me. I was pretty drunk and didn't know how to respond. Unfortunately, her response was met by silence, which I feel pretty bad about. She put her heart on the line and I didn't respond.I suppose I felt that two months was too soon to really be feeling things…See More
"I'm an investment manager and manage private client portfolios. We don't earn anywhere near as much as people managing funds, but I enjoy it most of the time. There's always stressful periods, like when the markets are tanking, but I…"