"I suggest working out, working with tools, hiking, reading manly things (I like sports books and biographys), collecting something nostalgic (pocket knives for me), watching sports, being with family, helping with chores to give some relief, and…"
"In no particular order:
- Getting up early
- Cold Showers
- Touching gloves with a guy immediately before a sparring session
- Touching gloves with (and almost tearfully hugging) a guy immediately after a sparring session
- Having fixed…"
"Doing anything for my Fiancee that makes me feel like I'm providing for her. Buying her engagement ring, and furniture for our new house gives me that bread winner feeling that's really important to me. "
- Growing a beard. I've had plenty of stubbles and a couple short beards before, but I'm currently growing my first "serious" beard. I used to just let it grow on its own and shave it all off when I felt like it…"
"Michael Martin makes a good point. Would you be tempted to write this letter right now had you actually landed some dates?
Do you genuinely want to get back with this girl or are you just having a self-pity party because things didn't…"
"I cannot credit that men in Iraq and Syria are crossing the Med so they can then send for their families. You'd really leave your wife and babies in the hands of people famous for decapitating children and selling their mothers as rape…"