"I suggest working out, working with tools, hiking, reading manly things (I like sports books and biographys), collecting something nostalgic (pocket knives for me), watching sports, being with family, helping with chores to give some relief, and…"
"In no particular order:
- Getting up early
- Cold Showers
- Touching gloves with a guy immediately before a sparring session
- Touching gloves with (and almost tearfully hugging) a guy immediately after a sparring session
- Having fixed…"
"Doing anything for my Fiancee that makes me feel like I'm providing for her. Buying her engagement ring, and furniture for our new house gives me that bread winner feeling that's really important to me. "
- Growing a beard. I've had plenty of stubbles and a couple short beards before, but I'm currently growing my first "serious" beard. I used to just let it grow on its own and shave it all off when I felt like it…"
"Hiking, shooting, fishing, hunting, camping, lifting weights and exercise in general, karate practice, starting a fire, intimacy with my wife, taking my boys out for an excursion, being protective of my daughter, working on projects for the Church,…"
"" We saw that even if you're from the far side of the world, speak a different language, and have a different religion, you still think and live like a white upper-middle-class progressive American."
""OP's perspective that white-collar jobs make good money but involve wearing suits, living in a cubicle, and not being particularly masculine."
Not all white collar or 6-figure jobs required you to wear suits.
Whether or not…"
""Koreans and Chinese are ethnically distinct"
You have a point there.
"I will beat the shit out of you". Childish, peevish, juvenile response. Try a more grown-up approach to disagreement.
There were Asian slaves,…"
""At 20 years old this feeling of uncertainty is not where I want to be"
It's normal not to know exactly what you want to do in life. You're only 20. Don't stress out too much over it. The important thing is to do something…"