"I suggest working out, working with tools, hiking, reading manly things (I like sports books and biographys), collecting something nostalgic (pocket knives for me), watching sports, being with family, helping with chores to give some relief, and…"
"In no particular order:
- Getting up early
- Cold Showers
- Touching gloves with a guy immediately before a sparring session
- Touching gloves with (and almost tearfully hugging) a guy immediately after a sparring session
- Having fixed…"
"Doing anything for my Fiancee that makes me feel like I'm providing for her. Buying her engagement ring, and furniture for our new house gives me that bread winner feeling that's really important to me. "
- Growing a beard. I've had plenty of stubbles and a couple short beards before, but I'm currently growing my first "serious" beard. I used to just let it grow on its own and shave it all off when I felt like it…"
"Hiking, shooting, fishing, hunting, camping, lifting weights and exercise in general, karate practice, starting a fire, intimacy with my wife, taking my boys out for an excursion, being protective of my daughter, working on projects for the Church,…"
"Ramona, my 2 cents'... STOP IT. Ok, you love camping. Get a group of like-minded gals and camp with them. Get YOUR needs met without canging him. You and him will find y'all's own thing.
honest, you will find much more happiness and…"
"I remember being a kid and building all kinds of stuff from snow and ice with friends and family members. I even remember building tunnels you could crawl through and a little cavern in a snow drift after a big blizzard. "
"Good food. He'll enjoy it a lot more if he's eating some smoked venison instead of cold Chef Boyardee. I don't know what you customarily sleep on, but he will probably want an air matress or cot as well."
"If you are trying to stop a "it makes me feel good" cycle that you feel is unhealthy/unwanted, then simply find what you are trying to smooth over or compensate for. Go back and take care of that.
Your appetite for the alternate…"