"Sounds like you're overwhelming yourself man. But If it's so much that you put your fist through a wall, it sounds like you're going to need to seek some help outside of AoM. (talk to your wife, etc. and figure out a game plan to fix…"
"My Girlfriend just recently lost her Grandfather whom she was closer to than her own father. I simply just made sure that she knew I was going to be here for her and that I loved her.
Glad that you posted this btw Man! I'd been wanting to…"
"Heh. If you do it right, women like other 'rub' varieties quite a bit. I've seen it happen.
Not that I'd explicitly make the suggestion pre-marriage ... but, people keep making these weird comments as if romance and…"
"That's quite a nasty spin you put on it. Not exactly what I had in mind.
I figured they'd have a good-enough time alternating date-night-planning, and probably alleviate the ambush problem when she got a taste of it. I…"
"This is a very delicate matter. The very fact that you've been with her for years in spite of the lack of sex tells me that you are still in love with her and there are many other aspects of the marriage which you gain satisfaction from.
"By the way, I might've made fun of dropping-trou and saying "how 'bout it?" -- but, if you do the harder stuff; if you keep sex on her mind; if you romance her; if you touch her; if you keep it fun; if you get her off frequently;…"
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"What have you done to address the problem? Besides whining. Besides pathetically begging. Besides just dropping-trou and saying "how 'bout it?".
There are things you can do to make her more willing. Frankly, job one is making sure…"