"Sounds like you're overwhelming yourself man. But If it's so much that you put your fist through a wall, it sounds like you're going to need to seek some help outside of AoM. (talk to your wife, etc. and figure out a game plan to fix…"
"My Girlfriend just recently lost her Grandfather whom she was closer to than her own father. I simply just made sure that she knew I was going to be here for her and that I loved her.
Glad that you posted this btw Man! I'd been wanting to…"
"Heh. If you do it right, women like other 'rub' varieties quite a bit. I've seen it happen.
Not that I'd explicitly make the suggestion pre-marriage ... but, people keep making these weird comments as if romance and…"
"That's quite a nasty spin you put on it. Not exactly what I had in mind.
I figured they'd have a good-enough time alternating date-night-planning, and probably alleviate the ambush problem when she got a taste of it. I…"
"I think the temptation is to fit others, in this case women, into our framework. We tend to think "passive" is bad (I sure do), but my wife does not have "passive" as a bad word in her way of thinking. (Irresponsible,…"
"Thank you for the reply. I realize that different people are attracted to different people, but I'm just trying to get inside the head of people who are attracted to the type of woman who, on the surface, appears passive. Trying to…"