I have a question as to how grown straight men show affection for each other. I'm 25 Years old, and I grew up in a very lonely household. I had no brothers, and my dad was always very cold. I was…Continue
"One of the aspects with showing affection to a male friend is the issue of touch. Whether to, or not. To hug, or not. The American culture, in particular, has trained men to have "their personal space." For many -- violate that, and you…"
"I don't think there is anything wrong with telling your friend you love him. I don't have a lot of friends, really only 3 and one of them is my brother. I have hugged my male friends and told one of them i loved him like a brother, was not…"
"One more about my uncle. . .
About a week or two before the bad news came down. . .
He called me and was looking for something. . . plans for a pipe welding job that he drew up a year or two before. I couldn't remember where they were at off…"
"Manly (straight) display of affection = one upmanship. A good ribbing. Light joking at a character flaw. My uncle (that I lost in December) used to give me shit about drinking watermelon gatorade.
My Uncle: "That pink shit you're drinking…"
"I am a woman and perhaps not the best-qualified to comment on this - sorry for barging in! We just say "best friends" "close friends" or "BFFs" but for some reason, the same relationship between men is called a…"
"As an only child I always had to relate to the guys around me with a lack of knowledge. Turns out I don't really have a problem doing that. I think a major thing to remember is to listen. Humans in general give off behavioral cues which I think…"
"LOL @ Shane.
Dude, your feelings are totally normal. You've got a man crush (read: non-sexual feelings of admiration) on your friend. Have you ever read Brett's article on the history of man friendships? To answer your…"
"Real men don't mind solid hugs when they have not seen each other in a while if they are chosen family. Give him a good handshake and pull him in for a hug if it appropriate. Other then that, I think the red scare removed…"
"As many have already said you have expressed to us exactly what you want to say.
So my advise would be always maintain your integrity, as this what defines us as men. If you want to show him this affection and you feel it is the right thing to do,…"
"Yea man, listen to your oneness. YOU know what you want to communicate to him, the only thing standing in your way is, ironically, YOU! Based on MY life experience, I suggest you stop thinking about it. Just let it take shape in…"
"Tell him exactly as written here, then sucker-punch him in the nuts. It will deflate the awkwardness and replace it with a growing urge to pummel you.
Drunken confessions are always good, too.
Just don't mention how the water…"
"Navy Rules for Gun Fighting
4. Shoot big guns
5. Shoot even bigger guns
6. Shoot the biggest guns you got
7. Send in the F-18s, F-14s, A7s, A6s, etc.
8. Shoot the guns on the F-18s, F-14s, A-7s, A-6s, etc.
9. Drop the bombs from the…"
"I think Krav Maga and, although I haven't seen it in action, the Marine Corps' hand to hand combat techniques. There is also a style based, so I've heard, on the Special Forces hand-to-hand techniques. Krav Maga teaches…"
I am a college student who is beginning to like football. I never really had the chance to enjoy it when I was younger and now going to school it is a huge deal. Over the last few years I've gotten familiar with the basics watching my school's games and some college ball on TV, but I would love to learn a lot more about it. I have been looking for books on football but am not quite sure which ones to read. I would like to learn more about the strategy and theory, but would also like to learn…See More
"My point exactly in that example. It's rude and inconsiderate.
Now, someone mentioned a few pages back about making a deal with my friends. "First person to pull their phone out (aside from emergency reasons) has to buy a round of…"