My office is fairly casual. It's a wide mix of programmers, project managers, executives, and so we get all kinds of dress and there isn't really any formal dress code. There is an expectation if…Continue
"Set your trimmer to 1/8th inch and keep the beard very tight and be done with it.
Keep it neat and slightly longer then "did not shave today" and it becomes your style. Don't keep it neat or have the "did not shave…"
"A clean, shaped "perpetual shadow," in my opinion, shows effort in grooming.
Though, I may be biased. I a thin, jawline beard that I trimmed w/ a #3 guard, and trimmed my mustache w/ a #1 guard up until recently.
"The trick is it needs to look intentional. Keep your neck shaved and any other areas that look less than neat. I trim my beard down to stubble once a week and shave my neck 2 or 3 times a week. If you don't maintain it, it looks sloppy within a…"
"It depends. If I had never dealt with you before and was meeting you for the first time, I would probably suspect that you had over-slept and that you were unprepared. From that point on it would be on you to overcome that impression."
"It's less an issue of being bearded, and more an issue of being groomed.
Make it look intentional, like you did it on purpose, and it shouldn't be a problem. Be sure to trim a neckline, and keep it neat. The "older…"
"Thanks for the replies. I work for a software company, but my clients come in all types - I have faith-based non-profit clients and I have progressive liberal association clients. So I guess there's really no one-size fits all.
"I've been using this for a while and no issues. As long as it looks like you put some effort into it, it's fine. When you let it crawl down the neck and get messy, that's not good, but you seem to have it under control."
"Yes. Before I went full beard, that was my standard for many years (at my wife's preference). I work both onsite and at clients in financial/legal/marketing consulting, and sit on professional and civic boards. No issues whatsoever. Appropriate…"
My office is fairly casual. It's a wide mix of programmers, project managers, executives, and so we get all kinds of dress and there isn't really any formal dress code. There is an expectation if you're meeting clients, sure, but other than that you generally wear what is appropriate for your position. At work I will generally go business / business-casual, occasionally sliding down to a dressed up casual (dressy jeans with nice shoes, polo or untucked button-down, v-neck sweater, etc). And I…See More
"Ramona, my 2 cents'... STOP IT. Ok, you love camping. Get a group of like-minded gals and camp with them. Get YOUR needs met without canging him. You and him will find y'all's own thing.
honest, you will find much more happiness and…"
"I remember being a kid and building all kinds of stuff from snow and ice with friends and family members. I even remember building tunnels you could crawl through and a little cavern in a snow drift after a big blizzard. "
"Good food. He'll enjoy it a lot more if he's eating some smoked venison instead of cold Chef Boyardee. I don't know what you customarily sleep on, but he will probably want an air matress or cot as well."
"If you are trying to stop a "it makes me feel good" cycle that you feel is unhealthy/unwanted, then simply find what you are trying to smooth over or compensate for. Go back and take care of that.
Your appetite for the alternate…"