So I went to my Junior Prom last Saturday with this girl who I’ve liked for about 2 months. We didn’t talk much before, but I didn’t see why she would say “No”. I mustered up the courage to ask, and…Continue
"I hear what you're saying. When I say "relationship", I mean it in the most basic sense. Anyway, I've taken in a lot of the advice put out here and talked to my friends about this (again). And I've found the direction that I…"
"Women do that. The same thing happened at my senior prom a long time ago. After the dance it was as if I didn't exist. Some of my friends went through the same shpeel. You'd be surprised what women would do just to go to an event WITH…"
"Validate her beliefs even if you don't agree with them, by agreeing with the good intentions behind them. If you do agree, then emphasize agreement.
Take a personal interest in her and her accompishments. Follow up compliments (make her earn…"
"Heevis took a girl to prom in a worthless pursuit. That is not all that bad because at least he got a date out of it and a chance to dress up and experience taking a girl out. I'm sure I'm not the only one who has done much dumber things…"
"I think you were 'friend-zoned' before you even went to the prom. This may sound cold-hearted or even callous but she used you to take her to a dance no one else had asked her to. You were never in contention for her…"
"I think you might have read too much into her reaction when you asked her to prom. You liked her and she got excited so you thought she was interested. She may have just been desperately waiting for someone to ask her to the prom. Nothing against…"
"I met a girl one time. My friends had met this group of girls while I was out of town and when I came back they said they'd invited them over (to my house, where we always hung out on weekends) that night. I saw the one and liked…"
"You had your date, she decided no.
That is all it is. In the future that date might be coffee, out for a few drinks at the bar, a walk in the park, could be a concert, could be anything. It could be you saying those lines the next time.
You had your…"
"Just tell her how you feel and ask if she feels the same. Worst case scenario, she doesn't and you two stop talking (not like you are talking much now any way). She may have friendzoned you because you never made a move. I mean, come on…"
"I can relate. True story: A few years ago, I invited a woman I liked to accompany me to a friend's wedding. I knew her from a course I was taking and thought she was attractive, so was using this as the first opportunity…"
"What relationship? What are you not comfortable with?
You have no relationship. You have a woman you have feelings for who only sees you as a friend. That isn't a real relationship. Its a false one and one that is going to do nothing other…"
"Wow, I appreciate the extra input, that's a really touching story. But I guess I don't feel comfortable doing that yet, and am also worried about how it will change our relationship if I'm denied. Do you really think I should confess…"
"I had to take out the average amount of debt a US student graduates with in order to go to the school I wanted and go through the program I wanted. I graduated with about $24,000 but got a job I couldn't have without that degree. I'm now…"
If you are as lucky as I am, winter came early this year. With the early arrival of the season many people are running to find a big jacket, a warm hat, and some insulated boots. Although all these things are important, we tend to overlook something simple and necessary like socks and we settle for something that is borderline trash.My suggestion this winter is to pick up a few good pairs of Merino Wool socks. Merino Wool differs from classic wool in that it doesn't itch, stretch, shrink, or…See More