Good evening!I bring you yet another problem of mine that involves women or particularly one woman.Long story short I met her at New Years Eve party. We danced for whole night, exchanged phone…Continue
Greetings, gentlemen!The type of topic that I'm about to start is very generic and has been most likely talked over numerous of times but I will take my chances.Long story short I met a girl on a…Continue
"Feel your pain man my last relationship broke apart because of distance too.
Last year i knew a girl from germany who was going to school at my university. I connected better with her than any girl ever before in my life it was great however once…"
"I understand why you might not want to pursue a relationship that there are obstacles to continuing. I don't know what her motives and perspectives are; you can only report your own.
That's an interesting dichotomy. I suggest sending her a…"
"I called her on mobile and apologized then she said she has to take shower and we will talk later on skype.
Well we figured out that we both still 'fancy' each other and I will most likely visit her and go on a date on…"
"Let me propose a corollary to the Brad Pitt Rule: If she doesn't volunteer any reason, it's the equivalent of a reason she wouldn't give Brad Pitt. She's just not that into you, and you've been a nosy, annoying, jerk."
"If you like her, I'd give it another shot with her. There's plenty of good reasons to decline a spur-of-the-moment invitation like that. Maybe she already had a date for Valentine's Day. Maybe she had other plans and…"
Heh, yeah. Indeed she might not like getting into long-distance relationship and that's why she didn't want to meet.
Well all the reasons she listed were in sms message and when I called her I didn't really allow…"
Also, if we women don't give a reason for our declining dates, you men can't apply the Brad Pitt Rule [look it up on the main site]. If you think her reasons aren't the reasons she'd give to Brad Pitt, well, you know what to…"
Good evening!I bring you yet another problem of mine that involves women or particularly one woman.Long story short I met her at New Years Eve party. We danced for whole night, exchanged phone numbers. Nothing else happened. Next day she messaged me and thanked for a night. I was hesitant to reply because I knew I would grow to like her and we live far away from each other (about 400 km). But I did it anyway, we spent whole next day (held hands, hugged and she gave me a kiss for goodbye).I…See More
"I'm really grateful for your support John. I've sent an e-mail and I'm waiting for the response as well as hoping to bump into her somewhere out at the university.
I will updatee if anything happens.
"if you run into her before she replies, just act like you never sent it, and ask her if she wants to do something (pick a specific something, on the weekend (next weekend if it''s after Tuesday)... An afternoon date in a public place is…"
"Thanks, I think I will do it. But one thing about bothers me. If she doesn't check it regulary my message can lie there for some time and what if I meet her somehow before she gets it. I can't imagine it as anything else besides awkward.…"
"I think the temptation is to fit others, in this case women, into our framework. We tend to think "passive" is bad (I sure do), but my wife does not have "passive" as a bad word in her way of thinking. (Irresponsible,…"
"Thank you for the reply. I realize that different people are attracted to different people, but I'm just trying to get inside the head of people who are attracted to the type of woman who, on the surface, appears passive. Trying to…"