Good evening!I bring you yet another problem of mine that involves women or particularly one woman.Long story short I met her at New Years Eve party. We danced for whole night, exchanged phone…Continue
Greetings, gentlemen!The type of topic that I'm about to start is very generic and has been most likely talked over numerous of times but I will take my chances.Long story short I met a girl on a…Continue
"Feel your pain man my last relationship broke apart because of distance too.
Last year i knew a girl from germany who was going to school at my university. I connected better with her than any girl ever before in my life it was great however once…"
"I understand why you might not want to pursue a relationship that there are obstacles to continuing. I don't know what her motives and perspectives are; you can only report your own.
That's an interesting dichotomy. I suggest sending her a…"
"I called her on mobile and apologized then she said she has to take shower and we will talk later on skype.
Well we figured out that we both still 'fancy' each other and I will most likely visit her and go on a date on…"
"Let me propose a corollary to the Brad Pitt Rule: If she doesn't volunteer any reason, it's the equivalent of a reason she wouldn't give Brad Pitt. She's just not that into you, and you've been a nosy, annoying, jerk."
"If you like her, I'd give it another shot with her. There's plenty of good reasons to decline a spur-of-the-moment invitation like that. Maybe she already had a date for Valentine's Day. Maybe she had other plans and…"
Heh, yeah. Indeed she might not like getting into long-distance relationship and that's why she didn't want to meet.
Well all the reasons she listed were in sms message and when I called her I didn't really allow…"
Also, if we women don't give a reason for our declining dates, you men can't apply the Brad Pitt Rule [look it up on the main site]. If you think her reasons aren't the reasons she'd give to Brad Pitt, well, you know what to…"
"I wouldn't call it acting like a wuss, a wuss would have sat there and kept calling and talking all the time.
You were overly emotional. You realized that there was a problem which was a great step, but your reaction SUCKED.
Good evening!I bring you yet another problem of mine that involves women or particularly one woman.Long story short I met her at New Years Eve party. We danced for whole night, exchanged phone numbers. Nothing else happened. Next day she messaged me and thanked for a night. I was hesitant to reply because I knew I would grow to like her and we live far away from each other (about 400 km). But I did it anyway, we spent whole next day (held hands, hugged and she gave me a kiss for goodbye).I…See More
"I'm really grateful for your support John. I've sent an e-mail and I'm waiting for the response as well as hoping to bump into her somewhere out at the university.
I will updatee if anything happens.
"My advice for someone your age is not to over think it. I was pushing 30 before I knew myself well enough to know where my talents and my weaknesses were. I was pushing my mid 30s before I had narrowed the field enough to start really creating…"
This has always been the area I've struggled with most in my life....finding out what to do for a career. I've never had a passion for one specific thing. There isn't one job that seems to "stick out" over the others. I'm kind of in every direction when it comes to choosing careers. One day I'll think welder, the next it's logistics, the next it's cyber security. At 20 years old this feeling of uncertainty is not where I want to be, so I'm really trying to figure out not just what I want to do…See More