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Acting like a wuss

Started this discussion. Last reply by Conor Feb 9, 2013. 14 Replies

Good evening!I bring you yet another problem of mine that involves women or particularly one woman.Long story short I met her at New Years Eve party. We danced for whole night, exchanged phone…Continue

Need an advice.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Antonivs Apr 24, 2012. 5 Replies

Greetings, gentlemen!The type of topic that I'm about to start is very generic and has been most likely talked over numerous of times but I will take my chances.Long story short I met a girl on a…Continue

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Conor replied to Antonivs's discussion Acting like a wuss
"Feel your pain man my last relationship broke apart because of distance too. Last year i knew a girl from germany who was going to school at my university. I connected better with her than any girl ever before in my life it was great however once…"
Feb 9, 2013
Rob replied to Antonivs's discussion Acting like a wuss
"I understand why you might not want to pursue a relationship that there are obstacles to continuing. I don't know what her motives and perspectives are; you can only report your own. That's an interesting dichotomy. I suggest sending her a…"
Feb 8, 2013
Steve Dallas replied to Antonivs's discussion Acting like a wuss
"Should have had her skype while showering!!!!!"
Feb 8, 2013
Antonivs replied to Antonivs's discussion Acting like a wuss
"I called her on mobile and apologized then she said she has to take shower and we will talk later on skype. Well we figured out that we both still 'fancy' each other and I will most likely visit her and go on a date on…"
Feb 8, 2013
Antonivs replied to Antonivs's discussion Acting like a wuss
"Never thought about it like that, thanks."
Feb 8, 2013
Penelope replied to Antonivs's discussion Acting like a wuss
"Let me propose a corollary to the Brad Pitt Rule: If she doesn't volunteer any reason, it's the equivalent of a reason she wouldn't give Brad Pitt. She's just not that into you, and you've been a nosy, annoying, jerk."
Feb 8, 2013
Antonivs replied to Antonivs's discussion Acting like a wuss
"No, I asked once. Next day I got sms with 'I can't because "reasons", "don't have time"'. Called her told her if she didn't want to she could just say no and that we should keep contact. Eh"
Feb 8, 2013
Jack Bauer replied to Antonivs's discussion Acting like a wuss
"If you like her, I'd give it another shot with her.  There's plenty of good reasons to decline a spur-of-the-moment invitation like that.  Maybe she already had a date for Valentine's Day.  Maybe she had other plans and…"
Feb 8, 2013
Penelope replied to Antonivs's discussion Acting like a wuss
"Your instincts are right. In general, the more excuses someone gives, the more likely they're just fishing for an out. But maybe you pressured her with a bunch of "Why not?s" and "But if you...""
Feb 8, 2013
Antonivs replied to Antonivs's discussion Acting like a wuss
"@Jack Bauer Heh, yeah. Indeed she might not like getting into long-distance relationship and that's why she didn't want to meet. @Rebekah Well all the reasons she listed were in sms message and when I called her I didn't really allow…"
Feb 8, 2013
Penelope replied to Antonivs's discussion Acting like a wuss
"+1 Also, if we women don't give a reason for our declining dates, you men can't apply the Brad Pitt Rule [look it up on the main site]. If you think her reasons aren't the reasons she'd give to Brad Pitt, well, you know what to…"
Feb 8, 2013
Steve Dallas replied to Antonivs's discussion Acting like a wuss
"I wouldn't call it acting like a wuss, a wuss would have sat there and kept calling and talking all the time.   You were overly emotional. You realized that there was a problem which was a great step, but your reaction SUCKED.   Next…"
Feb 8, 2013
Jack Bauer replied to Antonivs's discussion Acting like a wuss
"You overreacted.  Contact her and apologize for being an ass, and hope she's more forgiving than you were.   JB"
Feb 8, 2013
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Acting like a wuss

Good evening!I bring you yet another problem of mine that involves women or particularly one woman.Long story short I met her at New Years Eve party. We danced for whole night, exchanged phone numbers. Nothing else happened. Next day she messaged me and thanked for a night. I was hesitant to reply because I knew I would grow to like her and we live far away from each other (about 400 km). But I did it anyway, we spent whole next day (held hands, hugged and she gave me a kiss for goodbye).I…See More
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Feb 8, 2013
Antonivs replied to Antonivs's discussion Need an advice.
"I'm really grateful for your support John. I've sent an e-mail and I'm waiting for the response as well as hoping to bump into her somewhere out at the university. I will updatee if anything happens. Cheers! "
Apr 24, 2012

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