"The best thing you can do is realise that your not alone with this problem. Lack of motivation isn't something you lack, and everyone else has; motivation isn't a trait, its an act. You have to consciously decide to be motivated; to choose…"
I think it goes without saying that almost anyone on these forums wants to be manly, and is on a personal quest to attain manliness. While there are some that don't fall into this category (women who don't want to be manly, men who reject labels), I believe it is safe to say that the vast majority want to be manly.Problems arise, however, because each man defines manliness in their own terms. Naturally we all want to forge the title of "man" in our own likeness. Short of admitting our…See More
"If that's not depression, I don't know what is.
See my AoM blog on how to get out of it (at least, a way that worked for me). Meanwhile: meds may make things feel less black.
Surely the problem is that you never knew where to…"