Being a black woman is like being at the bottom of the barrel. Rotten food and mold collect at the bottoms of barrels.I feel like nobody wants/desires to be with dark skinned women in general and if…Continue
"I'm curious where you first came to this conclusion, maybe thinking back to what put this idea in your head is the answer.
But truth is there are 'black women' such as Waris Dirie here who might be able to inspire…"
"For what it's worth:
I think speaking to more black women, especially black women who feel or have grown to feel comfortable and empowered with their identity as such, about the way you feel would probably be very helpful.
And, if that…"
"People need your talents. The great thing about volunteering is that you only give as much time as you can spare. Just show up when you say you will. You sound like a person with gifts. Please share them."
""Milo's a gay black guy - Pale Horse is a young white southern fundamentalist christian, JB is a Texan, Liam is a gypsy from Chicago (Roma, as he prefers it) - Lumbertjoe is a Canadian."
Basically we're the cast of the greatest…"
"I understand where you're coming from but when I read the responses I wondered if my issue was an attraction of males (non-blacks) or if it was something else....embarrassingly enough at a party...I danced with an Asian dude that's too…"
"I used to draw or invest my time in art, however, I failed several classes due to absence. My teacher loved my work. He told me that I used simple dots and circles in one of the most cryptic ways he's ever seen, and ever since I failed art (and…"
"Ameretta, what do you do that brings you joy and gets you around people? Forget about men right now. Concentrate on being with all kinds of people doing interesting things. I'm not making light of your predicament, trust me on…"
"hmmm, from at least my perspective, no one said anything was easy. You could call it oversimplifying, and you'd be right.
Like I said, this is out of my depth, but it seems similar to the phrase "love yourself" in general. Everyone…"
"I wanted to be straightforward with the title, but this is how I truly feel, and I think that the person you mentioned is oversimplifying the problem because how would you feel if you were told you were the highest rate of…"
"This seems out of my depth on so many levels.
But just a note, I think the title is the thing that draws people's skepticism most as opposed to the content of what you wrote. Any time someone mentions killing themselves on the internet…"
"I wouldn't call it "bizarre", though I think 'shared interests' can be over-emphasized.
Shared values are far more important. Shared goals. Friendship ... which is different from merely liking the same…"
""To me this just seems... weird, and doesn't seem to jive with history; romantic relationships to me are primarily about attraction and love, and the specific 'activities' you do together aren't really that important,…"
"I understand what you're saying. But, in a capitalist society, the potential for profit (rather than the overall greater good) is one of the few ways to motivate people to actually innovate, discover and develop anything of value. If you take…"