Being a black woman is like being at the bottom of the barrel. Rotten food and mold collect at the bottoms of barrels.I feel like nobody wants/desires to be with dark skinned women in general and if…Continue
"I'm curious where you first came to this conclusion, maybe thinking back to what put this idea in your head is the answer.
But truth is there are 'black women' such as Waris Dirie here who might be able to inspire…"
"For what it's worth:
I think speaking to more black women, especially black women who feel or have grown to feel comfortable and empowered with their identity as such, about the way you feel would probably be very helpful.
And, if that…"
"People need your talents. The great thing about volunteering is that you only give as much time as you can spare. Just show up when you say you will. You sound like a person with gifts. Please share them."
""Milo's a gay black guy - Pale Horse is a young white southern fundamentalist christian, JB is a Texan, Liam is a gypsy from Chicago (Roma, as he prefers it) - Lumbertjoe is a Canadian."
Basically we're the cast of the greatest…"
"I understand where you're coming from but when I read the responses I wondered if my issue was an attraction of males (non-blacks) or if it was something else....embarrassingly enough at a party...I danced with an Asian dude that's too…"
"I used to draw or invest my time in art, however, I failed several classes due to absence. My teacher loved my work. He told me that I used simple dots and circles in one of the most cryptic ways he's ever seen, and ever since I failed art (and…"
"Ameretta, what do you do that brings you joy and gets you around people? Forget about men right now. Concentrate on being with all kinds of people doing interesting things. I'm not making light of your predicament, trust me on…"
"hmmm, from at least my perspective, no one said anything was easy. You could call it oversimplifying, and you'd be right.
Like I said, this is out of my depth, but it seems similar to the phrase "love yourself" in general. Everyone…"
"I wanted to be straightforward with the title, but this is how I truly feel, and I think that the person you mentioned is oversimplifying the problem because how would you feel if you were told you were the highest rate of…"
"This seems out of my depth on so many levels.
But just a note, I think the title is the thing that draws people's skepticism most as opposed to the content of what you wrote. Any time someone mentions killing themselves on the internet…"
"I see what you're saying; I suppose to me the problem is that if the ideal goal behind survival and thriving is the eventual creation of a 'perfect world' without suffering, as opposed to personal transcendence - then it would be…"
"And slightly tangential, but I'd have to say that if an individual has physical relations with someone they barely know and trust to the point they have to have a contract signed affirming consent, then if they are falsely accused of rape this…"
"Fact is fact. The actresses consented, by any definition of the term. You're suggesting legal technicalities to overturn that ... but that doesn't change the fact. She was mentally capable. She knew what her…"
"Down the rabbit hole we go.
Fact is fact. The actresses consented, by any definition of the term. You're suggesting legal technicalities to overturn that ... but that doesn't change the fact. She was mentally…"
"Well in the post above, you equated subjective legal definitions such as "grown up" which has varied greatly historically and legally with "objective reality", so you seem to be more confused on the subject matter than I…"
"Not to mention, what you're doing is equating subjective legal definitions such as that of 'grown up' with objective reality, which is inconsistent as that would mean that the government has some 'quasi-divine' authority to…"