"Ramona, my 2 cents'... STOP IT. Ok, you love camping. Get a group of like-minded gals and camp with them. Get YOUR needs met without canging him. You and him will find y'all's own thing.
honest, you will find much more happiness and…"
"I remember being a kid and building all kinds of stuff from snow and ice with friends and family members. I even remember building tunnels you could crawl through and a little cavern in a snow drift after a big blizzard. "
"Good food. He'll enjoy it a lot more if he's eating some smoked venison instead of cold Chef Boyardee. I don't know what you customarily sleep on, but he will probably want an air matress or cot as well."
"If you are trying to stop a "it makes me feel good" cycle that you feel is unhealthy/unwanted, then simply find what you are trying to smooth over or compensate for. Go back and take care of that.
Your appetite for the alternate…"