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Need advice on the relationships: should I move out and live separately or not

Started this discussion. Last reply by R. Max 2.0 Apr 18. 15 Replies

Hello everyone,I so need your advice on relationships! Here’s my story, I will try to be concise as possible:I’m 28. I had been married for 2 years until I met a new girl at work and fell for her. I…Continue

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R. Max 2.0 replied to Alex Traum's discussion Need advice on the relationships: should I move out and live separately or not
Apr 18
Lumberjoe replied to Alex Traum's discussion Need advice on the relationships: should I move out and live separately or not
"100% with Jack on this one. OP is making himself the tragic hero when, in fact, he's the prick."
Apr 18
blackjack replied to Alex Traum's discussion Need advice on the relationships: should I move out and live separately or not
"It was funny in the beginning"
Apr 18
Paul H replied to Alex Traum's discussion Need advice on the relationships: should I move out and live separately or not
"I enlarged that just to see if you made it with the OP's actual post haha."
Apr 18
Lumberjoe replied to Alex Traum's discussion Need advice on the relationships: should I move out and live separately or not
Apr 18
Tarquin Anstruther replied to Alex Traum's discussion Need advice on the relationships: should I move out and live separately or not
"My Goodness, glad I didn't meet someone like you. You are childish in your thinking and your self interest"
Apr 18
Sir replied to Alex Traum's discussion Need advice on the relationships: should I move out and live separately or not
"Maybe he'll know it now.  We shall see."
Apr 15
Todd McFarland replied to Alex Traum's discussion Need advice on the relationships: should I move out and live separately or not
"New relationships are exciting.  Here's the thing: eventually the excitement wears off, and unless you are prepared to commit and develop a deep and loving relationship (as opposed one based on thrill and lust), you are always going to be…"
Apr 15
R. Max 2.0 replied to Alex Traum's discussion Need advice on the relationships: should I move out and live separately or not
"her: "You don’t mean it really, you actually love it because it doesn’t let you become bored.” you: "And for me it’s important to speak about movies, games, music, books, it’s paramount."   Your…"
Apr 15
Jack Bauer replied to Alex Traum's discussion Need advice on the relationships: should I move out and live separately or not
"Self-absorption and self-awareness rarely coexist. Post actually makes complete sense. He's the problem ... and he's to self-involved to figure out he's the problem. JB"
Apr 15
Nick H replied to Alex Traum's discussion Need advice on the relationships: should I move out and live separately or not
"Your post doesn't make sense. It's clear in the first few paragraphs that you are self-absorbed and possibly narcissistic. You cheated on and then abandoned your wife to have a new relationship with all that comes with it (fresh…"
Apr 15
Jack Bauer replied to Alex Traum's discussion Need advice on the relationships: should I move out and live separately or not
"You need to be single until you figure your shit out. You use women until you get tired of them, then find an excuse to kick them to the curb ... and start the cycle all over again. You burned your wife -- a woman you theoretically committed your…"
Apr 14
R. Max 2.0 replied to Alex Traum's discussion Need advice on the relationships: should I move out and live separately or not
"As possible."
Apr 14
John Muir replied to Alex Traum's discussion Need advice on the relationships: should I move out and live separately or not
"Yu call that concise?"
Apr 14
Sir replied to Alex Traum's discussion Need advice on the relationships: should I move out and live separately or not
"You're a temporary-relationship kind of guy, 3 years, 2 years, maybe less.  You find the sex amazing at least sometimes, but you get by, for a while, by sweeping your hurt under the rug, forget about it... until it doesn't work any…"
Apr 14
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Need advice on the relationships: should I move out and live separately or not

Hello everyone,I so need your advice on relationships! Here’s my story, I will try to be concise as possible:I’m 28. I had been married for 2 years until I met a new girl at work and fell for her. I tried to stay away from her, but then I quickly stopped trying. We had our issues with my wife, I told her about my feeling to this girl, then, after a couple weeks, I moved out and a month later we divorced.I started dating this girl and we somehow ended up living together at my place. I think,…See More
Apr 14

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