Hello everyone,I have been around posting, and forgot to introduce myself. My name is Adam. I work in IT and also am a Youth Pastor. I have a beautiful wife who I hope to have children with soon and…Continue
"I am non-denominational as well but totally understand. You need to find where your family is. You are completely right about not being born again to avoid Hell. The Love of God is so amazing that should be reason enough.
One point to help you…"
"Adam, I am totally with you in that struggle. My wife and I just had our daughter 8 months ago and the time that she was pregnant with her she had a low sex drive. She didn't really ever come out of it either until a little…"
"Hi Stein thanks for your comments. I am young but I do understand to a point. I have just become a father. I am super excited and my daughter is amazing, but I haven't had actual sex with my wife for at least 6 months which isn't quite a…"
"I find it interesting that those who have the addiction are the ones who defend their habit as healthy.
It is also unfortunate that some would ridicule a man who believes living for making his wife happy instead of making himself happy. To me it…"
"You are right. that church really should be welcoming of your entire family. You may have heard this from others, but you may want to consider a different church. I go to a church that loves kids incredibly so I know they exist. You shouldn't…"
"My advice is much like many of the other dads. It is very worth the time. Though My wife is still in recovery time...there is grace to endure and my little girl is very much worth the time and sacrifice."
"Roberto, good comment on being creative...there are so many ways to enjoy each other than penetrative sex..
",,,our sex life is outstanding,,,:
Ditto, Roberto...and as empty nesters in our late 60's...things haven't peaked, yet...no…"
"Sorry Prescott I didn't mean to downplay your issues.
I echo a lot of what the guys are saying here. Friendship comes first and you need to sit him down and tell him how you feel and what you are seeing. And if it is making you uncomfortable…"
""Two of my only true friends"....its hard but take a look at your life and expand your social circle...this is a bigger issue than your question. What happens when they break up and you potentially lose both of them?"
"I don't know...that's possible. But believe me, it's NOT like I'm hooked on some idea that I could be with her. Like I said, I know better than to cross that line. I hang out with them a lot because they are two of my only true…"
"Oh, and quit the roids, man. It has been documented to cause, small testicles, male pattern baldness, infertility, and heart issues. Your heart is a muscle, too. All those anabolic steroids affect it just like your biceps or quads."
"I had a good upper-body workout today: cables, with a few extra reps; 20 dead-hang pullups; three reverse pullups; 246 pushups over 11 sets, including 14 knuckle pushups [my best]; body rows, etc. Then I ran 4.75 miles in 45 minutes on the…"