Hello GuysMy name is Adam and this is my first post here.First a little background.I fell in love with a beautiful woman about 6 years ago and eventually my feelings were reciprocated, i was/am the…Continue
"Oh come on. Did you even read further than the title?
He did not cheat at all, his girlfriend (who isn't even his wife) is obviously abusive, and his "love" for her seems more like Stockholm Syndrome, than like anything else."
"You are living like a family without actually being one. It is the bridge to nowhere! My suggestion is move out immediately. Who gets the kids is up to the two of you but regardless, you'll do more harm than good staying together…"
"Tough one, not married and your reasons are your own. I can how you feel you cheated in that you were less than faithful in your communications with this other girl. Thought about, talked about, acted out. Everything begines…"
"Thanks, I played around trying to fix it but it wasn't happening.
However I don't think that Adam would feel the birth of his children was something he "allowed to happen to him" or that it was something…"
"Move out, and it's over.
People living together w/o a marriage license do sometimes go for a marriage license. The hurt of breakup is going to be just as horrid on the kids as if their parents were married already, and significant to the…"
""I cheated and wish to ease my wife's pain."
First and foremost, I do believe you wish to ease your own feelings of guilt, not your "wife's pain." Exposing your dirty underwear on this forum helps you to do that;…"
"Reply by JonEdanger yesterday
That is one of the stupidest things I've seen posted lately (and I just finished re-reading the bronie thread).
There is blame enough in this train wreck (hence the pic) to go around to everyone except the…"
"This is coming from a hard-core atheist so it may come as a shock: I completely agree with you, Todd Serveto. Actually faith-based counselors are probably the way to go here as I've known a few and in my experience they are very…"
"Okay. First off, you didnt cheat. You pulled a douchebag move, but didnt cheat.
Should you feel guilty? Absofuckinglutley.
Should she be hurt? I dont know... never u derstood how the female mind works. But she should be worried.
But heres the…"
If the OP has been cohabitating with his 'wife' for a long time (and it sounds like he has been) AND calling her his wife in public he may be in a Common Law marriage. He will have to check his states laws regarding this…"
"Wow. Okay...you're asking for advice, so I'm going to give you mine---it's free:
1. Stop calling her your wife. You're not married, and half the trouble---no, scratch that---TWO THIRDS of the trouble here is that…"
"My wife and I were going though some troubling times after I told her I have been looking at online porn. We got a book called "Love and Respect" We read it in bed at night after putting our little ones to bed. It has…"
I have had some good male role models, and some abusive ones too.I was hurt really bad by the death of my father. I loved him a great deal.And being abused by a few men in the family, it just made matters worse.I have had several great men in my life, and continue to have great male friends some older some younger. I also help at a rehab for teenage boys. As a teacher I make sure to pay attention to as much as I can concerning the well being of my students. I also make sure the younger…See More