Hello GuysMy name is Adam and this is my first post here.First a little background.I fell in love with a beautiful woman about 6 years ago and eventually my feelings were reciprocated, i was/am the…Continue
"Oh come on. Did you even read further than the title?
He did not cheat at all, his girlfriend (who isn't even his wife) is obviously abusive, and his "love" for her seems more like Stockholm Syndrome, than like anything else."
"You are living like a family without actually being one. It is the bridge to nowhere! My suggestion is move out immediately. Who gets the kids is up to the two of you but regardless, you'll do more harm than good staying together…"
"Tough one, not married and your reasons are your own. I can how you feel you cheated in that you were less than faithful in your communications with this other girl. Thought about, talked about, acted out. Everything begines…"
"Thanks, I played around trying to fix it but it wasn't happening.
However I don't think that Adam would feel the birth of his children was something he "allowed to happen to him" or that it was something…"
"Move out, and it's over.
People living together w/o a marriage license do sometimes go for a marriage license. The hurt of breakup is going to be just as horrid on the kids as if their parents were married already, and significant to the…"
"Reply by JonEdanger yesterday
That is one of the stupidest things I've seen posted lately (and I just finished re-reading the bronie thread).
There is blame enough in this train wreck (hence the pic) to go around to everyone except the…"
"This is coming from a hard-core atheist so it may come as a shock: I completely agree with you, Todd Serveto. Actually faith-based counselors are probably the way to go here as I've known a few and in my experience they are very…"
"Okay. First off, you didnt cheat. You pulled a douchebag move, but didnt cheat.
Should you feel guilty? Absofuckinglutley.
Should she be hurt? I dont know... never u derstood how the female mind works. But she should be worried.
But heres the…"
If the OP has been cohabitating with his 'wife' for a long time (and it sounds like he has been) AND calling her his wife in public he may be in a Common Law marriage. He will have to check his states laws regarding this…"
"Wow. Okay...you're asking for advice, so I'm going to give you mine---it's free:
1. Stop calling her your wife. You're not married, and half the trouble---no, scratch that---TWO THIRDS of the trouble here is that…"
"My wife and I were going though some troubling times after I told her I have been looking at online porn. We got a book called "Love and Respect" We read it in bed at night after putting our little ones to bed. It has…"
"Many men don't have a say in pregnancy as the only forms of contraception are ineffective long term(condoms) or permanent and scarring(vasectomy). I've known many women who used pregnancy as a way to keep a guy, threaten him or use him…"
"My take on that question is the following: If you think You've been forced into a pointless existence, you might as well use whatever control and influence you have to make said existence as enjoyable as possible for yourself and others.…"
"You know those big boxes of printing paper? I sold one of those overflowing with cards. GOOD cards. Lots of great rookies, unique cards, a few from the 60s and 70s, some autographed cards, uncut cards, cards from the bottoms of boxes, odd-shaped…"
"My friend. I was one of those folks who gave the OP generic advice. I worked in the tire business for several years. The generic advice of getting the vehicle into a shop and getting the tires and alignment checked held true…"
"How can my opinion that is based on my own experience and feelings be wrong? The word Dibs has materialistic and ownership connotations to me maybe not to you or others but it does to me. And yes, word meanings and use change…"