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"I'm 49 years old, I constantly went through the fitness ups and down struggles. Your best bet is to start off with the most simple routine you can find and do it 3 to 6 times a week. A simple workout after a warm up would be pushups, bodyweight…"
"I was fat, then got thin and in really good shape, then had liver problems and got fat again, and now I am working it back off.
First off, you need to track everything you eat and drink. EVERYTHING. I use myfitnesspal's app on my…"
"Unless there's a metabolic situation of some sort, fitness always works out to be "Eat better & less. Move more."
My best weight was in college. Owing to no budget and an oddly laid out campus, I was eating two modest…"
"I just lift. It helps. It really does. But the problem is that most advice on the internet is written from the viewpoint of those who are very good at it, often not very good beginner advice. For example they are very much against machines. And in…"
"I think everybody has different leanings. I skew to the brain side of things. But I think what's really important for developing yourself as a person, is learning new things, going outside your own box. One of my friends just finished his…"
"Few learn to ride on the first go. I don't see why it would be much different for an adult learning than a child. I learned to ride at four years old. I fell again, and again, and again. Eventually I became very adept at riding. Like anything,…"
"Hey, I'm a freelance writer and I do a lot of articles on higher education. There is a lot of information out there that isn't very well known that can help people go to very high quality schools, for much less money than one might expect…"
"This is the correct response. I have used similar responses before three or four times, it's good fun, if you make her laugh, you feel great even if she never calls. It shows her you can take rejection (if she is rejecting you) and it shows her…"
"If you focus on making improvements in the right order, things will fall together more quickly. Find something you're interested in besides television and go do it. College gym doesn't have kickboxing? I bet a local gym does, or teaches…"
"Caffeine is a highly addictive drug and I personally think there's nothing manly or proper about being an addict.A lot of casual coffee drinkers drink far more than they admit to, and a lot of people that don't drink coffee but a few…"
"If I'm telling a story I thought was funny and nobody else is laughing at the end of it, I tend to say something like "well, I thought it was funny" or "guess you had to be there". If the story is funny though, it should be…"
"My answer wasn't intended to be any sort of politically correct. I was giving advice out of my personal experience. I stated in my post. I'm an introvert. I have no idea how to make friends, for me, it has just happened. I don't have…"
"I've had a few bisexual friends (girls and guys) and while I wouldn't say I've been close friends with any gay men, it's more for lack of opportunity than anything else. I'm very introverted so I don't make friends…"
Philosophy, Politics, Writing, Reading, Competitive Gaming, Entrepreneurship. I find I am interested in just about anything, especially if I am being paid to write about it.
The Great Gatsby, Timequake, God Bless You Dr. Kevorkian, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, The Song of Ice and Fire Series, Snow Crash, The Cryptonomicon, Anathem, Reamde, 1984, Brave New World, Fahrenheit 451, The Secret of Closing the Sale, The Tao Te Ching, The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn, Fear and Trembling, Beyond Good and Evil, Totality and Infinity, The Republic, The Autobiography of Mark Twain, The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin, Pride and Prejudice, Emma, Leaves of Grass... so many more.
The Godfather Trilogy, The 300, Sin City, Pulp Fiction, Kill Bill, Inglorious Basterds, Django Unchained, Silver Linings Playbook, Lost in Translation, The Lethal Weapon Series, The Die Hard Series, Girl Interrupted, Everything is Illuminated, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Waking Life, I Heart Huckabees, A Scanner Darkly... many more.
My taste in music is ridiculous. I love everything from Sinatra, The Beatles, and Dylan, to Death Cab for Cutie, mewithoutYou, and Taylor Swift... I am more a fan of artists than genres. My collection is a huge mess.
“I am eternally grateful for my knack of finding in great books, some of them very funny books, reason enough to feel honored to be alive, no matter what else might be going on.” -Kurt Vonnegut in Timequake
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It sounds like you make a lot of romantic, positive-sounding excuses for your failures.
You think too much. You're too ambitious. You're a philosopher. You're a daydreamer. You…"
Firstly, this would be my first posting to AoM and posting to any sort of forum in many years for that matter.I am currently on the outs (mentally) of my current job in a local restaurant here in California. I like the people that I work with, aside from the owner, but this is definitely not a reason that would cause me to want to stay. If I did that, it would be a great detriment for myself. I feel that there is not much room for me to progress where I I'm at. You will always hear that if you…See More