""I don't believe that hormones are that strongly defining"
You would be wrong. Hormones drive behavior and behavior is how the world percieves us.
Further if hormones were not that strongly defining how do you explain FtM…"
"For pushups the "Optimized Way" is to do them the "Correct Way" other than that it is a matter of your muscles getting stronger and more endurance. One of the biggest hurdles for newcomers to weight lifting and/or getting…"
"Seems like rather random criteria to choose your potential life-mate; everyone makes mistakes, and just because you view sex that way doesn't make that the gold standard for character.
What happened to simple compatibility?"
"Keep asking her on dates and keep having fun. If after awhile she stops accepting, you aren't dating. If after a few weeks you keep doing on dates, consider yourself in a relationship. Don't say a damn thing about being in a relationship…"