"I had the same problem. Though I go commando in the summer, when cold weather comes, I have to resort to the dreaded crotch crushers. There is no perfect solution to the riding up issue. There is underwear made by the Duluth Trading…"
"a) Plenty of young men are legitimately men according to your interpretation. You seem to be dwelling on the others for whatever reason. Moochers and slackers have been around forever.
b) Regarding this comment . .…"
"I had the same experience, i.e. little to no real guidance on manhood. My dad was the "adulthood is leaving joy behind and deadening your soul" type, which is what he did. He never seemed happy. Seeing that, I was NOT…"
"Working on my car(s). Nothing feels better than to rip apart a problem, and put it back together better than it was before. Plus, all your non-mechanically inclined friends will be awed. Downside: I always get to change the flat…"