"Sounds like time for a shift. Here are some ideas:
* Read up on depression, or consult a professional. Does it describe you well? I know there are commonalities in grief and depression, but grief is situation-driven and fades (IDK…"
"Others seem to understand, but I don't yet. What solid plan do you mean? Retirement? Whether to live here or in Pago Pago? How many kids? What kind of car to buy?
What have you compromised on, or want to compromise…"
"Start with vision. Come up with a shared vision for where you want to end up. What do y'all want to do? How do y'all want to live? What does success mean to you? What does your dream life look like?
Set intermediate goals on the way to…"